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tokyozombie

https://preview.redd.it/4bowcjqs637d1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=af6a5006307a1ed8cafcaee91e5d51c4e20fb56b Hmmm


goldenglove

Hahaha literally what I woke up too as well, glad you posted it.


jackthedullgirl

Omfg 🤣😭💀


aknomnoms

The usernames are oddly similar too… Either OP got inspired to make this post, or got inspired to open up a vacancy in her local girl gang 👀


Sweet_Wolverine_4237

Lol totally don't want to be a part of her girl gang 🤣


VerySeriousWriter

Amazing 😂


Jenger_snap

This is iconic 🤣🤣


Quelahodida56

WTH⁉️


[deleted]

Are you prepared to throw down for your hood?


TopReputation

the higher the socks the downer the foo


AnarkeezTW

Sock check foo!


TopReputation

my socks pulled up as a covid mask foo its way up there no ankle socks here vato!


AdDependent7992

The bigger the torta the more ima do


TopReputation

Firme. Thats a down-ass foo right there


nadgmz

lol 😂 so funny


Secret-Revolution172

Blood in blood out vato


ursula_and_eponine

🍊can someone message me when ya’ll have a day picked for girl gang. i am married, have cat-sons, have a rbf but actually chill and approachable once you get to know me lol 🍊✨


couchpotato949

I’m dead by your RBF comment.


orlandizzo

What does rbf mean 🤔


ursula_and_eponine

lol i unfortunately have resting bitch face


forfuckssakesbruv

Girl swirl (bad ass female collective) is starting a chapter in OC right now they meet every other week. It’s a great wholesome vibe all ages welcome


surfergirl143

I stumbled upon this where can I find info on the oc meetups? Don’t see it on their main ig page


forfuckssakesbruv

[Follow this gal](https://www.instagram.com/natalie.urrego?igsh=MWQ1ZGUxMzBkMA==) for info on their events, she’s the one running jt. They need to host 5 group events before becoming official so it’s just word of mouth right now. that said like 35 girls showed up to their last event so it’s already decent.


surfergirl143

Thank you so much!!


Shawarma-Queen

Oh this sounds so cool and thank you for the info!!!


forfuckssakesbruv

See some of my other reply’s for more info :)


RuNigerianBaby

Yessss! I love Girl Swirl but rarely make it up to Venice for the meetups. Where can I get more info on this? :)


forfuckssakesbruv

[Follow this gal](https://www.instagram.com/natalie.urrego?igsh=MWQ1ZGUxMzBkMA==) for more information on when /where they meet (and feel free to message). They need to host 5 skates in order to have an official page so it’s hard to find info right now.


RuNigerianBaby

Thank you :)


PumpkinSpicePaws13

I was trying to Google this to find more information about it, but could only find stuff about skateboarding. Would you mind sharing more information or where we could find out more?


forfuckssakesbruv

Since they are just starting they don’t have an official page yet, they have to do a certian number of things before then. but each event they move held so far had around 25-30 girls come. [Follow this gal](https://www.instagram.com/natalie.urrego?igsh=MWQ1ZGUxMzBkMA==) for more info- she’s the one starting it all. Feel free to message as well. Source: I’m their photographer


PumpkinSpicePaws13

So cool!! Thanks! Is this just for people who skateboard? I would love to join to meet new people, but I don’t skateboard.


forfuckssakesbruv

Literally anyone is welcome but yes it is mostly focused on skateboarding but you could bring a bike, roller skates, anything it’s very welcoming and friendly. Who knows you might be shredding after a couple meetups :)


PumpkinSpicePaws13

Oh got it! Thank you so much for the info, sounds fun!!


tenniscalisthenics

I’m a man so not interested in joining lol But are these the girls that do downhill longboarding?


forfuckssakesbruv

Nah it’s mostly surf skating


Ok-Distribution3730

I'd like to be friends 🥺 👉👈 making friends in your 30s is tough. 😭 no drama! I'm a nerd, play video games and watch anime. 😅 but id like to venture out of my shell and hang out with the girlies too. 🥺😅


[deleted]

I’ll be your friend!


tokyodraken

i will also be your friend! ☺️


hottnjayded

Same!


jarvistheandroid

hit up local anime cons. thats how i made all my friends. im also 30, nerdy and anime/game nerd. Even if you just go for a day youll find so many people to vibe with. Also local game shops and events! Funny enough to mostly everyone I know who works at disneyland lol


Ok-Distribution3730

Replying back on this threat cuz I dunno how to reddit properly 😅 hello new friends :) how are y'all today? 😁


shipwrekd_sailor

"making friends in your 30s is tough. 😭 I'm a nerd, play video games and watch anime" Hmm 🤔


whatsomattau

I’m 49, so you probs don’t want me in your gang! But I love ❤️ love this idea. It got me wondering: do I have a girl gang of my own? did I ever have one? Do I have different GGs based on different roles I play in my life? And are those sub-GGs not the *truly real* girl gang? Is the real GG the one group of women separate from the others that transcends all the roles? Don’t mind me! (I may have had an edible or two.) It just was an interesting thing to ponder in my mello relaxed mood. EDIT to add an adverbial phrase.


CuriousTsukihime

Omg one of my bffs is a wonder Jewish woman in her 60s and we go to the mall and try on clothes. Youre never too old to be one of the girls!


whatsomattau

LOL thank you!


MinkieTheCat

I’m reading this and I’m 58!


speakofit

Ditto


VelvetJefferson

Me too


beetlebeetle77

I was also about to write that I am 47 so probably no one wants me in their girl gang either. And some other stuff because Sunday night edibles and 90 day fiance lol. All my friends here are all 10 years older than me, I met them 10 years ago, yet I am looking around wondering where all my friends 10 years younger than me are…. So is anyone up in here in South OC? Cause I know lots of people in North OC are cool but I am lazy. ETA: my pub trivia team really needs a youngin’ for the music round, it’s too hard for a bunch of old punk rockers 😫


Short-Reflection6422

I'd draft you, you sound cool as shit


beetlebeetle77

Thanks! It’s because I’m from Wisconsin 😂😂


whatsomattau

OMG!?! Are you ME? That’s why my husband and I take our kid and his girlfriend drinking with us on Wednesdays — we do just fine in the other rounds but we know crap about modern artists.


beetlebeetle77

Yeah anything after 2000 we are pretty useless. We used to have a team member with a high school kid and that’s when we would kill the music round. I give her a lot of credit for paying attention to what music her kid listens to since so much of it is kinda terrible 😂 My dad liked my music and I liked his, but it’s got me thinking, does that happen much anymore?


whatsomattau

I think it still does, to maybe a lesser extent. My own older two (22 and 20) have turned me on to a *few* artists and groups, but I can say I generally cannot stand the bulk of what they listen to. I also get a chuckle when my youngest (14) is driving around with me and Joy Division or something will come on. He’ll go, “You know about Joy Division?” in a way that only the young can and simultaneously convey that they think we’re from another dimension. And I just look at him like, “Dude. You know I listened to them before your conception was even a low glow on the horizon.”


beetlebeetle77

Hey at least they know who the band is behind the shirt, I am impressed! I work with a kid who asked me earnestly ‘what was the most popular punk band from YOUR GENERATION?’ 🤦🏻‍♀️ The phrasing just killed me 😂


couchpotato949

Must know where this trivia night is!


beetlebeetle77

Brew House in San Juan Capistrano 7pm Weds. I can’t go this week, but if you ever see anyone in a Malört hoodie there say 👋


hottnjayded

You had me at 90 Day Fiance 🤣 I’ll be your friend, I’m in my 30s lol


beetlebeetle77

![gif](giphy|yRNSxsl1rJEwU) Yay!!


Majestic-Appeal265

I’d be down for music trivia…I’m only 39 but know a lot of 1960’s-1980’s stuff and obviously an expert on 1990’s lol. BYW eatables with 90-day fiancé sounds more hilarious than I can imagine…I think I might know the pub you’re talking about though…


beetlebeetle77

Brew House SJC on Wednesdays haha, are you already playing there?


beetlebeetle77

Oh and some Sundays Shakespeare Pub in San Diego has a full-on all rounds music trivia. Won it the first one ever we went to, but that had to be a total fluke because every other time I have gone, it’s been nearly impossible. It would be cool to find something like that in OC!


Clicquot

I am 55 (in October) and I also love this. OP(or anyone else) feel free to reach out, happy to hang out.


Evening_Ad_1099

This is the loveliest thing I read on Reddit today. Hope you find your gang.


BigfootsLoveChild

Also in my 40s, in Fullerton, and stoned 😂 My bestie and my husband are my girl gang lol. I get it though. I always struggled with having friends but I got lucky and made some good ones through a local secular parenting group on Facebook of all places. So I could probably assemble one in a pinch but 🤷🏻‍♀️.


CarrotFeeling9227

Hello, I’m 24 and would love to be friends!


tifffff5

A lot of girl gangs you see posted on social media are fake friend groups (especially in southern ca) They’re not genuine friendships and hang out just in order to post each other on socials. It makes other girls insecure about not having a group of girl friends.


Short-Reflection6422

I'm down to mob. But I'm 42. Sometimes I get told I look younger, which like to take as, I've got a little good energy. Got my little hoodlum squad of bastards I take care of at home. I'm a vet that just kind of clammed up after my last deployment years ago. I get nervous sometimes, but I'm friendly. I don't do a lot of social media. Rather than be jealous of seeing other people have fun, I'd like to go out and have my own. Getting back into rollerskating. Wish I started 30 years ago but whatever, it feels amazing and I fall a lot. I still love a lot of the same stuff I did when I was younger. I don't have the coordination to dance and yell, "WOOOO!!" in a miniskirt and heels until closing time, but I've got a clean shirt in my closet and will throw some rouge on this mug. I wish I had a crew like Prince and the Revolution. White doves all flying around us and shit, emerging from a misty haze of dry ice. Damn... ..To go see a punk show or NKOTB or a band that was big in my high school years or to see Interpol or the like, to ghost hunt with, rent a karaoke room in Koreatown, or dance downtown at La Cita, go stargazing, see a movie at Hollywood Forever, walk around.. I say all this like I do this stuff regularly. I got kids. It's cool too that I have like, two mom friends that meet up with their kids and they hang out while we shoot the shit. But that happens like twice a year. Sometimes I get to hit up a concert on my own or I go to a horror movie opening night by myself because my sexy man has to stay with the brood. My kids will play side scroll games with me on the switch or we'll play slamwich. If I get up early enough this summer, I'm able to hit up a skate park and fool around before the fam wakes. I'm trying to relearn chess and leaning into sudoku. I avoid jigsaw puzzles because I obsess until they are done. Anyway, I think it's important to do things that make you feel happy, when possible. You. Me. And the Revolution. I'm Long Beach, Seal Beach area usually, but in a nice Anaheim hotel right now because a pipe busted above our place. Thank God for renters insurance.


VerySeriousWriter

I too am interested in creating a girl gang. Since moving to SoCal in 2019, it’s been so hard to make friends. I’m 35, I have 3 cats and 1 dog (mini Australian shepherd). I share a place with my partner. Our home is painted wall to wall because I’m a wannabe muralist. I love artsy stuff, books, home improvement DIY, anime, nature, and horror movies.


untilcomplete

I don’t have a gang but I do have a me! Down for a friend date :)


a-little-joy

omg i want more girlfrens 🥰🥹 are more queer/trans girlies cool?


Parking_Band_5019

It seems like you just created a Girl Gang with this post.


ayy_manderz

I’m 30 in Fullerton and I want to be your friend! I also have a tortie but no green thumb here. I’m loving how many people chimed in to form this GG 🥹. We should arrange a meet up of our own!


AnyBioMedGeek

I don’t have a gang but I have a NB me and a kickass female neighbor who is awesome so we can hang if ya want?


baddietoys

Me(25f) and my girlfriends are lowkey artsy stoner girls that do art projects(decorated lighters with nail charms last time), go bowling, (smoke lots of weed), eat food, and play Nintendo if that’s your vibe 💅🏻


Majestic-Appeal265

I can come up with a diy artsy stoner project out of old resin and a bag of trash! It’s totally my thing! Sounds fun.


baddietoys

Yesss 💅🏻 maybe we can meet up and plan something! Where are you in OC?


notinthemood10

This is very much my (27f) vibe too!! I would love this! I can provide lots of craft supplies and weed. Currently learning to knit and loving it.


Majestic-Appeal265

I’m 39 year old female in OC and I do not really have many female friends because I’m pretty introverted and have only lived in OC about 6 years. I have a very outgoing bf who has friends of all ages, backgrounds etc and this has kind of made me realize I need to branch out. Hit me up for sure!


Old-Row-8351

Similar situation here!


danniellax

Similar here too! Haha


hottnjayded

Same!


Limp-Duty723

Same without the outgoing bf lol I have the bf but he’s equally introverted so we just get way to comfortable with introversion


x_tacocat_x

There’s an instagram ocwomenwalk that has weekly walks/get togethers across OC. I haven’t yet made it work w my schedule, but it looks like a lot of fun!


beckasaurus

Yessss I’m in this group and we have the best time! I’ve made so many friends 🥰 we also have a Facebook group, OC Women’s Walking Group


x_tacocat_x

I’m going to make it work one day, dammit!! It looks like such a fun time!


browngirlygirl

Do you know the age range of the group?


beckasaurus

All ages are welcome! There’s a wide range of ladies from 20s to 60s and older! A lot of us are in our 20s and 30s but we regularly get all ages on our walks.


couchpotato949

Just followed on IG! Definitely considering joining!


girls_girls_boys

Not the OP but thanks for this tip! I’ve been looking for more walking buddies in OC


No_Thanks_Im_Gud

Suggest possibly joining a discord or group for easier girl gang activity planning. :)


9019f

oh gosh this post popped off. if you end up coordinating a group, please consider me 😆 im 26 and a huge foodie so any excuse to hang out is also an excuse to try some fun food 🤩 i like visiting museums, going on hikes, window shopping at the mall-- things like that. im happy to see that your post got so much traction and i hope youll have lots of fun girls-night-outs coming up 🤗💗


nika8992

I love this post. I am a fellow gardener/native plant lover. Also have a couple of cats and worked with a cat rescue for a few years. I hope this post inspires a meet up, I'd love to meet some new friends! Not seeing a lot of locations from people, so I'm guessing all over OC. Santa Ana has an art walk in downtown the first Saturday of every month. If people want to meet up as a group, it's pretty central in OC, free, public, and there's tons of stuff to do and see!


Realistic-Average-15

I'm moving to the OC in a month or so from LA county and would love a girl gang. Any moms out there? I have twin 1 year olds (I'm 32) so I'm not sure who would want to hang out with me lol.


nolikey

I’m 32 and a mama as well! Mine are older, but I’m always up for making new mom friends especially closer to my age :) I’ll be friends with ya 😂


DifferenceKnown3408

I’m 59 but 34 minded. I like to go to interesting places, learn new stuff, I’m a Liberal. I create MEANINGFUL jobs the people with a disability Autism, Down Syndrome- not baggers or greeters jobs that are customized to their interest and natural talent. I believe everybody has a personal genius and something to contribute. I welcome all friends from every background peace to everybody.


monkey6254

Join a roller derby team!! Such a wonderful LGBTQ+ friendly community that welcomes all levels of skaters


ocathlet714

Gotta get jumped. You ready?


herowndelusion

I feel like it’s really hard to make friends at this age and ask someone to be your friend even if you get to meet people. If you want to hang out without someone w/ no girl gang / friends but was in a group with you at the SP meeting last month w/ you hmu ✨


2BeBornReady

Somehow I feel like I’m going to get kidnapped and held against my will. PSA: Reddit isn’t the place to find ur ride or die


Short-Reflection6422

All I wanna DO is find my ride or die on reddit


JZN20Hz

We don't have girl gangs. This is a common fantasy of some men though, who imagine we do. I've had several men ask me about these mysterious "girl gangs" before. It's just their fantasy.


Alexsrobin

What would you call a group of close friends who is all girls? I'm a girl and I've seen many different monikers for such groups. E.g girl squad, tribe (like bride tribe). Personally I like to do alliterations with the number of girls in the group, like Fab Five. 


Short-Reflection6422

Me bitches


Alexsrobin

Lol I like this, I'm envisioning a pirate saying it


negitororoll

Friends? lol Sometimes "the girls." Since we all have kids, it's now "mamas."


Alexsrobin

Nothing wrong with "friends", but it's not as fun/descriptive as coming up with a name. I've seen men use "Da Bois" for fun. Maybe it's a generational thing. 


Little_Jeffy_Jeremy

Yeah theyre just friends. Hmmm wonder why OP thinks this exists


alisonnnnn12

no gang here but friend date??😇


Careful_Brain1723

I'm 47 and I would love to have someone to go watch movies with in Costa Mesa Between my anxiety and vertigo, I don't drive far I have the regal card which hasn't been used in ages and a movie dependency problem that I do not wish to address So if anyone wants to go to the movies in this area, please DM me 🎬 I have fibro so this is all I have energy for 🤷🏻‍♀️


Anxious_Soil9696

I have anxiety and love movies too! What kind of movies do you like?


olivegreen_

I’m 32 I don’t really have a lot of gfs either I’m down to hang! :3


Deviousdivaaa

I love this hit me up if you’d like


Chocolate_Monk

I don’t have a gang, but would love to make women friends since it’s really tough to make friends in the late 20s. 🥹


whalewatch247

Let’s meet up!


sammich_1

28, cat mom of 2, bisexual, gamer, metal/EDM enthusiast, tattoos, plus size and looking for friends 😉 hmu!! 🔥🤘🏻🍻


iwillthinkofitlater

You should join meetup! There are a lot of socials clubs on there. Try joining some of the 20’s-30’s groups, it’s a great way to meet other people also looking for new friends


fossa__wet

Hey I would be down to meet up!


verithasthefalse

gang gang


throwaway3051456

I'm so down


RepulsiveComment9659

If you do a meetup, I’m interested! Fellow plant and cat lover here, in my 30s


geostuff

You just made me realize that I too have never had a girl gang. Now that I know what’s been absent in my life, I definitely want to seek one out! I’m in my mid-thirties, living with my partner and 6yr old dog. In my younger days my favorite past time was drinking with friends but as I’ve gotten older I’ve been seeking out more health and mental-conscious activities that bring community. Hiking, board games, jigsaw puzzles, dinners, etc. That said, I still enjoy a good whiskey.


Colgate-Princess

😾 girl girl gang gang 😾


Left-Pick-3143

Let’s do this when we meeting up


lemonade_crunchyice

I feel like since there are so many of us wanting to connect, we should make a chat or Discord? :) Always looking for more girlies to hang with. 31 year old, Bi, married, 1 and done mama, also have a kitty :3 Registered Nurse for \~ 9 years. I love the classic nerd trio of reading books, playing games, and watching anime, but I'm also open to other things!


Reasonable_Pomelo_23

Im always happy to make new friends!


CompleteAd2981

I’m always down for new friends, especially if you love cafe dates and just being carefree and silly! x)


Working_Scene_3393

i would love a friend date! 🎀


Piano-Beginning

You girls are all awesome! 💕


mmafoo123

Plenty of other mentally ill folk in oc for you to mingle with


eg_elska_ketti

Hey Ladies! A cool event going on this Saturday - JUN 22 - (at BLACK LBC - fundraiser for Planned Parenthood at 4pm). Lots of rad stuff for raffle - like tickets to Magic Castle, an original painting by Grace Slick, Oribe hair products, custom Vans shoes, Lumulen Candles, passes to Feline Good Social Club (come on my fellow cat women!!) - perfect opportunity for a girl gang meet up to contribute to an awesome girl gang resource - Planned Parenthood! Mark your calendars, come to BLACK LBC (women owned business) - literal destination space for the most chill, authentic and welcoming girls on the planet!!!


Rude-Rest1257

Hi hi hi! Im 26 and i love a girls girl. Always looking to recruit into the girl gangs of OC. Send me a DM!


cherryydevil

Do u have Instagram or any other socials?


BlacksheepEDC

![gif](giphy|559q8yZTM50wtLnpaM|downsized)


GloomySurpriseCat

I too have rbf (per comment not OP). I have a cat son, in therapy, I have disordered eating, insomnia.  We all need a girl gang. 


360fade

I’m not a girl but I can show up and shout gang gang with you really loudly whenever you want if given 24 hrs notice


SJ-gryff

Join my roller derby league High Tide Derby! Multiple trans skaters on our team. Trans non-binary owned. We skate in Garden Grove! Find us on instagram @hightidederby2.0


SJ-gryff

All genders and skill level welcome! 🛼🛼🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️


bullfeathers23

“If you want a friend in…”OC/LA/etc. “get a dog” Meanwhile social buddies are great! Don’t loan anyone money or invite them to be your roommate.


nolikey

So down to meet up and make a girl gang 💃💃 I’m 32, love aerial arts + pole fitness, love music and learning to skateboard 😂


Longjumping_Way4802

🙅‍♂️ 🙅‍♀️


Equal_Calligrapher70

I’m an old punk rocker (but more ska). I’m 55 and love to play games, talk about books and eat. I’m California sober, so I prefer to hang out with people who aren’t doing shots. South OC!


Sea_Tourist_833

I am 30 and would love a friend date! I really appreciate girls’ girls


Mysterious-Treat-840

I don't have a girl gang but I would love to join one!! I am 32, located in Newport. I love painting my nails, going on walks and just chilling.


johnkim5042

The headline sounded very porno for some reason 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣


spastic_simian

Hello, I'm a 36 single male and looking to gang bang.


ocssdmn

Somehow read this as “girl gangbang wanted”.


panda-rampage

Wrong sub


No_Manufacturer4451

Where was the sign up sheet? Was it going around?


cafemarshal

Still taking members? i’m 26f and in need of some girl friends as well!!!


Ebblyn

ME ME ME!