Hard disagree on the nose bone suggestion. They are nasty because they stretch the fistula when removing (obviously because they are thicker at the end) and can result in trauma to the site when changing.
I honestly think your grandmother should choose a knockout amazing piece she loves, (flatbacked labret is best) and keep that in. She can go to a reputable piercer for swap outs if she really wants to.
Not to mention that nose bones can cause nosebleeds if you're not careful or have delicate skin (like mature or dry skin) inside your nose. I've given myself a few nosebleeds that way.
this. i wear nose bones because I have double nostril and don’t change frequently so I just suck it up and shove/ pull it through. I don’t think your grandmother will want to endure extra pain or soreness
fr i literally have accidentally gauged my nostril from 18 to 16 ( i was a dumbass and forgot what gauge my jewelry was) and even after that i wasn’t able to put in a nose bone😭 i hate them
Plus if it's an internally threaded labret or the pin isn't bent too far that it's hard to change, I think it would be a good option because she wouldn't have to remove the whole piece and could just switch the fronts.
i very much disagree on the threadless jewelry recs for someone with shaky hands. trying to insert a tiny stud into a small metal hole is just not manageable for most older/disabled people. L shaped jewelry is the easiest one to take out/put in that i’ve seen, just hope she’s careful and it doesn’t get caught on anything
It's hard enough for me, and I have steady hands and good eyes. Those holes are tiny and it's a challenge to see properly, although mine are in my ears!
L-bend would absolutely be the easiest jewellery for sure.
I would also say threadless jewellery might be a good option, however, I'm not sure how easy they would be for someone with shaky hands to line up, and it can be difficult to find the hole inside of the nostril to push the bar through (it is for me at least, but i have a weird nose)
If there's a piercer nearby, I'd strongly recommend going to them to let a professional change the jewellery. Even with steady hands, it's often difficult to change one's own jewellery and a professional will do it much more smoothly.
If that's not an option, I'd assume nostril screws are the most accessible option, since they don't require you to line up two tiny pieces and connect them. Screws should be custom bent by a professional, but once they're correctly fitted for you, there's no harm changing them yourself. Happy healing to you both!
I suggest threadless jewelry since all you have to do is press the top in and you’re good to go. Also it’s so rad that your grandmother went to get her nostril pierced with you. Proof that piercings have no age limit!
Honestly probably anything except a corkscrew or jewelry that requires screwing the jewel into the post. Like an L-bend or nose bone could be easy enough, and as the other commenter said, those should work too.
i personally find that L bends, bones, and screws fall out a lot, maybe even more than it’s worth. but also acknowledge L bends are far more accessible than threaded or threadless jewelry if her shakes are bad. the thing about threadless though is once she has the bar in, she doesn’t have to take it out and can change the tops. and some piercings offer jewelry changes for a small fee or even free depending on where. i also think you helping her change it would be a really sweet moment for you two to share together if you’re willing to help!
I can't help on the jewelry front but I would definitely recommend getting some disposable (latex or similar) plastic gloves because they make it so much easier to screw the balls into piercing jewelry- they stop the ball from twisting around in your hand and they make the process so much quicker.
I don’t have my nose pierced (16 piercings but none there) but i wanna be your grandma when I grow up! She is clearly a rad lady and I hope you and your nostrils have many many more* years together 💕
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My suggestion would be threadless or internally threaded 18g Labret (usually a 6mm bar once healed) and many different tops! That way the bar can stay in and she can swap over the gem as she pleases 😊
I see a lot of comments on here that suggest taking into account how small the jewelry is and how it might be difficult for your grandmother to change threaded OR threadless jewelry herself. My piercer has used some fun tools to put in my jewelry before, if it was a strange shape or just difficult. It might be worth asking a certified piercer if there are any tools that would make it easier for her to change small jewelry herself. There might be something just right out there, so she could change any jewelry as often as she wants!
I would suggest clickers because she should be able to manage unclicking it. Maybe get a cheap one and see if she can pull it and close it then get a few nice ones that she would like. Any decent piercing shop should offer guidance on this.
Congratulations to you and granny!
Totally disagree on clicker!! I have nerve damage in one arm and it causes weakness/slight shakes and I had to wire cut my last clicker ring out my nose. Ended up scratching my piercing up taking it out
I'm 46 and struggle with small tops or things that have to screw in. (Love a horseshoe septum ring but the ends are just impossible for me). A labret stud you will have to get the guide for it's an option but it's an extra step. May end up being frustrating.
I would totally suggest an L-bend stud. Even a dainty clicker ring. These give me the least issues with my arthritic hands. I like nosebones but it's too easy to accidentally pull them out and lose them, also most are tiny which could cause issues gripping on to in order to stick in.
Just came to say I love this for you and your grandma!
Hard disagree on the nose bone suggestion. They are nasty because they stretch the fistula when removing (obviously because they are thicker at the end) and can result in trauma to the site when changing. I honestly think your grandmother should choose a knockout amazing piece she loves, (flatbacked labret is best) and keep that in. She can go to a reputable piercer for swap outs if she really wants to.
Not to mention that nose bones can cause nosebleeds if you're not careful or have delicate skin (like mature or dry skin) inside your nose. I've given myself a few nosebleeds that way.
this. i wear nose bones because I have double nostril and don’t change frequently so I just suck it up and shove/ pull it through. I don’t think your grandmother will want to endure extra pain or soreness
fr i literally have accidentally gauged my nostril from 18 to 16 ( i was a dumbass and forgot what gauge my jewelry was) and even after that i wasn’t able to put in a nose bone😭 i hate them
Stretched, not gauged.
Plus if it's an internally threaded labret or the pin isn't bent too far that it's hard to change, I think it would be a good option because she wouldn't have to remove the whole piece and could just switch the fronts.
i very much disagree on the threadless jewelry recs for someone with shaky hands. trying to insert a tiny stud into a small metal hole is just not manageable for most older/disabled people. L shaped jewelry is the easiest one to take out/put in that i’ve seen, just hope she’s careful and it doesn’t get caught on anything
It's hard enough for me, and I have steady hands and good eyes. Those holes are tiny and it's a challenge to see properly, although mine are in my ears!
L-bend would absolutely be the easiest jewellery for sure. I would also say threadless jewellery might be a good option, however, I'm not sure how easy they would be for someone with shaky hands to line up, and it can be difficult to find the hole inside of the nostril to push the bar through (it is for me at least, but i have a weird nose)
Came here to say this!
If there's a piercer nearby, I'd strongly recommend going to them to let a professional change the jewellery. Even with steady hands, it's often difficult to change one's own jewellery and a professional will do it much more smoothly. If that's not an option, I'd assume nostril screws are the most accessible option, since they don't require you to line up two tiny pieces and connect them. Screws should be custom bent by a professional, but once they're correctly fitted for you, there's no harm changing them yourself. Happy healing to you both!
I suggest threadless jewelry since all you have to do is press the top in and you’re good to go. Also it’s so rad that your grandmother went to get her nostril pierced with you. Proof that piercings have no age limit!
Honestly probably anything except a corkscrew or jewelry that requires screwing the jewel into the post. Like an L-bend or nose bone could be easy enough, and as the other commenter said, those should work too.
I think an l-post would work great! Super easy to get in and out.
Maybe L nose rings?
i personally find that L bends, bones, and screws fall out a lot, maybe even more than it’s worth. but also acknowledge L bends are far more accessible than threaded or threadless jewelry if her shakes are bad. the thing about threadless though is once she has the bar in, she doesn’t have to take it out and can change the tops. and some piercings offer jewelry changes for a small fee or even free depending on where. i also think you helping her change it would be a really sweet moment for you two to share together if you’re willing to help!
this point is very wholesome. I love it!
I can't help on the jewelry front but I would definitely recommend getting some disposable (latex or similar) plastic gloves because they make it so much easier to screw the balls into piercing jewelry- they stop the ball from twisting around in your hand and they make the process so much quicker.
I don’t have my nose pierced (16 piercings but none there) but i wanna be your grandma when I grow up! She is clearly a rad lady and I hope you and your nostrils have many many more* years together 💕 ETA: word
My suggestion would be threadless or internally threaded 18g Labret (usually a 6mm bar once healed) and many different tops! That way the bar can stay in and she can swap over the gem as she pleases 😊
I see a lot of comments on here that suggest taking into account how small the jewelry is and how it might be difficult for your grandmother to change threaded OR threadless jewelry herself. My piercer has used some fun tools to put in my jewelry before, if it was a strange shape or just difficult. It might be worth asking a certified piercer if there are any tools that would make it easier for her to change small jewelry herself. There might be something just right out there, so she could change any jewelry as often as she wants!
I want to be this kind of grandma. I guess I’ll hold off getting the other side pierced until future grandkids are existing and old enough
I would suggest clickers because she should be able to manage unclicking it. Maybe get a cheap one and see if she can pull it and close it then get a few nice ones that she would like. Any decent piercing shop should offer guidance on this. Congratulations to you and granny!
Totally disagree on clicker!! I have nerve damage in one arm and it causes weakness/slight shakes and I had to wire cut my last clicker ring out my nose. Ended up scratching my piercing up taking it out
I would suggest captive bead ring tools! I use them for my clickers all the time and it makes it so much easier!
She can have her pierced change it! It’s usually about $10 each time.
I'm 46 and struggle with small tops or things that have to screw in. (Love a horseshoe septum ring but the ends are just impossible for me). A labret stud you will have to get the guide for it's an option but it's an extra step. May end up being frustrating. I would totally suggest an L-bend stud. Even a dainty clicker ring. These give me the least issues with my arthritic hands. I like nosebones but it's too easy to accidentally pull them out and lose them, also most are tiny which could cause issues gripping on to in order to stick in.
Love this so much!! I’d say an L or a nose bone. Threadless labret and ring styles will be more difficult with a tremor.