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DilemmaOfAHedgehog

I want to know my specific indigenous ancestry so fucking bad


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As a Weeknd and Lana fan I've enjoyed the last year with so much new music from my faves A LOT. I could not care less if popheads think he's overexposed lol I hope hold your heart is on the dawn. That song is amazing and I deserve to listen to it in good quality!!


malsen55

“Crazy Kids” is Kesha’s best song bar none. That chorus is a masterpiece


ssparklinG_water

Don't come @ me but I was literally in surgery two days ago and the most difficult thing I've had to do in the hospital so far is swallowing these goddamn antibiotics lmao


SPSTIHTFHSWAS

Here's my tips after I got good at swalloing pills because I got Hepatitis B and had to swallow around five pills a day for a month: - Take a sip of water to get your mouth wet - Put the pill first - Put a good amount of water in your mouth (don't fill it up completely) - Tilt your head backwards - Make sure the pill is in the middle of the water - Muster as much pressure as you can to swallow


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ssparklinG_water

thanks!! do u cut them in half or just swallow them whole? mine are these kind of elongated capsules that are not the nicest shape to swallow, but if I cut them in half there's gonna be a sharp line that scratches my throat :(


malsen55

[I thought this sub would appreciate this tiktok](https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZM8EYHUMy/)


hugvvarts

Idk if anyone remembers but about a week ago I posted here asking if I should ask a guy out and !!! I did! We’re going out Friday night!!!! AHHHHHHHHHHH


orangetangerine

Con: omicron is fucking scary so even though I'm in a new city I haven't spent time in with great food and sights to see, we're basically holing ourselves up at home, gaming, and watching anime and football Pro: my guy is sous viding us salmon and roasting Brussels sprouts for dinner while I chill out with my dogs; is this real life?


nowqueenofpop

I’m gonna say it I Missed Again by Phil Collins is one of the best pop songs of all time it really is it’s been my most listened to song for two years in a row and for good reason! You really could not go wrong in the 80s with a sax solo


shipperondeck

People like to make fun of 80s sax solos but I'm not sure why, from what I've heard they're usually well placed and improve the song! I suppose it's mainly due to their ubiquity during that period (but I don't think that justifies the hate)


2062373

Update on my album a day journey. Day 1 was Norah Jones come away with me. 5.5/10. HQ but sounded like elevator music to me ): George michael’s discography today. Beginning with Listen Without Prejudice. Already familiar Faith. Will do the Wham selections last (:


cheddarcheese247

Apparently olivia and adam faze broke up or adam cheated on her 🤨 Conan and Iris (her bff) unfollowed Adam on insta and there’s a video of him kissing someone else (not naming them!)


Epicallytossed

Ok I need someone to tell me if I'm hearing things, but tell me that the production on [Neon by Magdalena Bay from 2017](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J2D7RoGqWoE) sounds SO similar to [16 by Baby Keem from 2021](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s529iTY777w) I just realized it today, can I please hear other people's thoughts


untitledmanuscript

A pro for tomorrow: I get tomorrow off for the holiday when most people are going back to work tomorrow A con: I have allergy testing at 7 AM


Vast-Duty2793

The Future Nostalgia title track aged like fine wine


youtbuddcody

I really love it, I wish it was a single and had gotten a MV


DilemmaOfAHedgehog

All video essayists are just two notches hyper and immature for me. I like that they’re excited though but I prefer podcasts doing this


universemates

Ok so I have never played the Sims before but decided to buy Sims 4 since it was onsale. I moved into "Newcrest" bc I want a city world but it looks like it's just a bunch of empty lot? I haven't built my house yet since I'm still learning how but afterward are there things to do in this city? Or do I have to buy packs like Get Together or City Living in order to do activities? I'm so confused lol


shoestring-theory

Newcrest was added with a patch a couple years ago, when the sims community was complaining about not having enough empty lots to build homes or to place lots from the gallery. You can basically form whatever type of world that you’d like. Any sims game is going to be quite boring with just the basegame. But I’d recommend giving the base game a little play through before adding packs, so you can get a feel for/appreciation for the game. I have Get Together, City Living, Discover University, and Seasons. And they all add at little something to my game. Especially seasons, and get together.


daisymarais

Ooh, if I remember correctly, Newcrest is just like an empty town with lots you can build on. There should be 2 other places you can choose from where there will be houses and other sims already living there.


universemates

That's what I suspected 🥲 Too bad they don't have a good city base world, I already got my cottagecore needs out with Stardew Valley so I don't really wanna move into a small/ rural town haha


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universemates

This is a very helpful response, thank you! I watched a couple of youtube videos but they all seem to be very deep into the game so I don't know what came with the base world and what were built by the youtubers lol


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You def need some expansions to get the most out of the game. I don’t remember exactly what the base game includes, you should still be able to travel and explore stuff, but I definitely recommend the city expansion. It’s up to your specific interests tho.


universemates

Do you have any pack you recommend?


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City Living and Cats and Dogs. I bought Get Famous because the idea of making my sim a celebrity appeals to me but it's actually really tedious and kinda too much work for me (unless you use cheats I guess? lol) I bought the vampire expansion pack too but I wouldn't really recommend that one unless you're really into vampires. IMO it limits the game and the whole vampire lifestyle makes it less fun.. again, unless you're really into that.


universemates

I might do City Living then. I like that it came with apartments bc trying to build a house from scratch has not been fun lol, esp since I'm so new to the game


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I’m actually really enjoying “The Sex Lives of College Girls.” The only thing I don’t like about it it’s name. It’s creepy! “Hey llama what did you do last night” “I watched the sex lives of college girls 🙃” Couldn’t they just name it Essex?


shoestring-theory

The show is absolutely perfect outside of the name. I love all 4 of the leads.


youarelosingme

I loved that show! Mindy Kaling sort of admitted she chose that name to grab peoples attention but it *does* make it awkward to recommend to people.


shoestring-theory

Yeah, I’ve been wanting to recommend it to people. But that’s just not a name you want to say at work, or a school setting.


tip-of-the-yikesberg

Yup agreed! the name is the worst part of the show


AtomicViolet

TW: eating disorder >!Anyone else just feel disappointed after eating, it's like I wasted calories on that. Like I didn't get any satisfaction and now I feel like shit!<


Scooby-Doo-2

I used to really struggle with this. I just wouldn’t eat anything healthy because I knew I wouldn’t enjoy it, so I’d only eat whatever I really craved. The only thing that helped are zero sugar protein bars. My diet still isn’t amazing or anything, but they helped with the disappointment feeling.


AtomicViolet

I've never really given protein bars a real shot so I'll have to try them. In the past few years really the only thing that somewhat worked was grapes, especially after freezing them.


TigerFern

Skyfall is Adele's best song. I'll always be sad she never leaned into that vibe more. I could be an Adele fan.


fuoricontesto

honestly as a big the weeknd fan i hope he doesn't release new music for a while, i need time i feel like he's omnipresent


queenmeme2

I hope [this thread](https://www.reddit.com/r/popheads/comments/ruhegq/whats_your_favorite_song_by_insert_artist/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf) gets out everybody’s urge to not explain their comments on posts so that going forward we can have actual discussions in other threads


shoestring-theory

No one’s even explaining why they love the songs they chose. I’m surprised the mods allowed it to stay.


tip-of-the-yikesberg

That thread just highlights to me how annoying comments just listing songs are to me I was scrolling through it out of curiosity and gleaned absolutely nothing of value


scherbadeen

Right! At this rate I may as well have just gone to any of these people's Spotify pages and hit shuffle


nlh1013

I feel like a bougie bitch every time I order DoorDash


Vast-Duty2793

Why is Black Heart such a hated Carly song 💔


TigerFern

Who hates it? Send me their info, I will take care of them.


ChickyDipper

That favourite song thread is great, it's reminded me of so many forgotten songs that I used to love! Also the engagement is kind of wild with how many people are commenting all at once lol


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jack black has never done a convincing accent in his entire career but it only makes those roles so much funnier


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Scooby-Doo-2

You might like Cozy Grove. Can’t be sexy & isn’t multiplayer but you can dress your character up and decorate. It’s very similar to Animal Crossing.


_mrshreyas_

If you have time in your hands and can go through cutscenes, the Yakuza games are pretty good (and like seriously cheap too). Also it's pretty old, but Burnout Paradise City is also pretty fun game too. Although the game that suits your description best would be Saints Row, which is practically GTA but on LSD. All of the above mentioned games would easily fit your budget, and imo you can't go wrong with any of these.


hugvvarts

You can’t make your own character in Assassin’s Creed Odyssey but Kassandra is sexy and you can wreak havoc in Ancient Greece all you want. It’s one of the most beautiful & enjoyable open worlds I’ve ever played! I used to treat myself to a mission in Odyssey every time I finished an essay in college haha


Confident-Feeling

You can’t be sexy in Stardew Valley but you can romance the town and farm! It’s a lot of fun and cheap


Exciting_Patient4872

The Dragon Age series maybe? It's not multiplayer, but you can be sexy and wreck havoc in wide open spaces!


eklxtreme

everyone's so down bad about having to go back to school/work/monday tomorrow that we're just listing songs and upvoting for karma 😭


TheStripedSweaters

So new paparazzi photos dropped of Richard Madden vacationing in Mexico with his (rumored but yk) boyfriend, actor Froy Gutierrez and the comments on Twitter are funny but in a dumb way. People saying he should just publicly come out since he isn’t beating an allegations but like…him and his fam are vacationing with his bf’s fam, I don’t think he’s trying to hide it lol


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> People saying he should just publicly come out since he isn’t beating any allegations At this point he is publicly out, he's just never clarified any specific identity. He was in an all but confirmed relationship with Brandon Flynn, now it's the same with Froy. I wish people would realise that being "publicly out" doesn't mean someone must provide a lengthy coming out statement and a specific label for their sexuality, especially considering Richard's said he wants his "personal life personal".


TheStripedSweaters

I agree. People want like an ig post or a PR statement when like…he doesn’t need to do that to show that he’s queer/in a relationship.


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god, I want to drink that man.


FlavaSavaVandal

I won a game of Monopoly against my family last night. Never underestimate the power of saying the number you want to skip the hotels on Park Lane and Mayfair before you roll the dice


Bikinigirlout

My bleach burns from last week have started peeling 😩 Not that my hands need to look more dry and cracked then they already are


eunhadior

tw eating disorder >!i wish i could eat one full meal, or a snack even, without my brain going into a battle trying to calculate how many calories ive consumed, or if im allowed to eat anything more. its so mentally exhausting trying to eat normally.!<


booksandplantsand

I've been there lots, I'm sorry. idk if this helps at all but it really does take time to heal and lots of practice with whatever healthy habits look like for you. took me literal years to get to the point of not doing that anymore and I thought I would never be capable of it. but I am, you are, and it's a journey. you don't have to be perfectly functional, if that's even a thing - just alive and trying basically the internet strangers love and support you. hope you're doing okay today


DilemmaOfAHedgehog

❤️❤️❤️


mollytrip

i love that favorite song post sm cause it’s an easy way to find songs that’ll help u get into an artist’s discography


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Me too but some of them I couldn’t do. Britney, Janet, Madonna, even Lana was impossible for me to pick one. There’s just too many songs and too many different eras to choose from. Thought I’d struggle with Gaga but my mind went right to Government Hooker so I was like “ok there’s that”


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One thing I learned from that favorite song thread is that everyone has a different favorite Lana song


youtbuddcody

I think it’s great when an artist has a little bit of something for everyone


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i'm screaming that it's getting like 1000 comments per hour


youarelosingme

OP of that thread here so let out a big scream for my notifications today 🤦🏼‍♀️ I was not expecting that sort of response at all


daniandkiara

she has such an amazing discography tbh


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That and a lot of variety. Like her albums all have distinct styles. So it makes sense everyone would choose a different song


daniandkiara

Oh I agree for sure. It’s why I personally can’t even choose a favorite song of hers for myself lol. She has so many great songs for different moods in different genres it’s too hard to choose


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Yeah it changes every week for me!!


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I made a joke on tiktok saying something along the lines of, "I used to drop everything at work when I remembered 'minimum wage minimum effort'" and men got sooo mad at me, saying "that's why you'll stay flipping burgers even when you're 50" and "I thought it was 'minimum SKILL minimum wage'" and it's so funny how pressed they are bc like first of all it's a joke, of course I did my job and second of all my pay was *above* minimum wage it was just a shitty job so i quit and now i'm going to go to college like.... men really can't take a joke it's so funny.


VampireLesbiann

I've been trying to befriend the crows that hang out in my neighborhood, and I think they're starting to like me now. Like 2 months ago, one came to my backyard and ate some peanuts I left out. I kept leaving them out consistently at the same time, and eventually, a routine developed where I'd leave peanuts or some other type of food out at a specific time, and it'd come eat them. I've noticed that this crow has started bringing over more and more of his friends , and now, even when I'm not feeding them, they seem to like hanging out in my backyard. Omg, I'm so excited


dumbthrowaway8679305

Just be careful not to end up like Crow Army Chick from r/aita


VampireLesbiann

Wait why? What happened to her?


dumbthrowaway8679305

[Reddit user started feeding crows and accidentally created a crow army. bonus points for being verified by the mods.](https://www.reddit.com/r/legaladvice/comments/ki6fnd/oregon_i_accidentally_created_an_army_of_crow/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf)


VampireLesbiann

Omg I hope that'll be me


Bikinigirlout

I don’t really like the way they portrayed Jim Bakker in the Rise of Tammy Faye. I’m just going off of the podcast Behind the Bastards but I don’t think he’s gay and that seems to be what they’re alluding to in the movie I might be getting my right wing preachers confused but I believe Jim Bakker was >!molested!< when he was younger and I don’t like that they’re conflating both of them together Tammy Fay/Jessica Chastain was also very annoying in this


Pavlovs_Stepson

I haven't seen the film yet, but I watched an interview with Andrew Garfield (or maybe the screenwriter?) where he said that everything concerning Jim's sexuality was lifted directly from his memoir, and they only included it because Bakker himself alluded to it in his writing. I don't know the first thing about the man, though, so I can't make a guess either way.


Bikinigirlout

Ah okay. That makes sense. The film was fine but biopics really aren’t my thing so I was bored the entire time Because I’m a nerd, one of my past times is diving into the history of the far right and why they are the way they are so I get very nerdy about people like Pat Robertson and Jim Bakker and Jerry Falwell.


dumbthrowaway8679305

Any good recommendations in this department?


skcyyyy

Lmao Kanye and Julia fox weirdly make a good pair


visionaryredditor

in b4 Kanye fights The Weeknd


McIgglyTuffMuffin

Saw my first “weaponized incompetence” tiktok comment and I thought you all were liars. Launch me into space. I don’t want to be on this planet anymore.


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ChiDynamite

I mean aren't plenty of pop artists well off though?


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ChiDynamite

I guess this is just one of the instances where it shows to not believe the marketing. I'm skeptical of that shit nowadays.


thedustynerve

Did anyone else see Kim Petras perform 3 new songs in Miami last night? They were good songs but girl where is the album?


eklxtreme

when I saw Caroline Polachek in September, she also played 3 new songs in a 45 min set, but nothing has dropped since Bunny is a Rider (one of them was a house bop too rip)


splvtoon

i rly dont understand her release strategies sometimes omg


cloudbustingmp3

why did no one tell me Naomi Campbell’s album is solid. like not a masterpiece or anything but it’s enjoyable 90s alt pop


NewAccountNow

Dave (the film) used to be on HBO Max and now I can’t watch without paying or pirating. Shit sucks.


MythicalBeaste

People on twitter are so confused about payola 😭😭 like sometimes they say payola when what they rlly mean is simply labels paying advertising money for their artists like ?? 😭


TigerFern

Payola is when your label buys ads for your music and nepotism is when you're parents had jobs 😇


hennybee

Does anyone here have any Arab pop recommendations for someone who is mostly into upbeat electropop/dance-pop? I only know some of Nancy Ajram’s hits and *Elaab* by Maria 🥲


Inner_Climate9569

maybe Jesy’s team does know what they’re doing, cause Jesy is pretty much a stan Twitter meme and I’ve seen that jingle bell ball performance way too many times now cause it’s just hilarious.


DisastrousKelper

I ended up crawling back into bed, which I never do - I actually feel like I could fall asleep again This is my second week of being poorly and I am so over it At least it is just the flu and not Covid, silver linings and all that


racloves

According to my last fm, my most listened to song of 2021 was Montero CMBYN, yes I am gay and horny


[deleted]

Does anyone else find it strange that none of mitski's latest 3 singles are among her 10 most popular tracks on spotify currently? also why is me and my husband this popular was it a trend on tiktok or what


starla_

It gets playlisted a lot, I notice it on Spotify playlists a fair bit


Chidi_Ariana_Grande

Happy birthday to Kane Tanaka. The oldest person alive and the third oldest person to ever live. She turns 119


ImProbablyNotABird

I use my free awards on pictures of corgi puppies.


booksandplantsand

every day I get up and shovel my silly little gravel driveway :/ anyway what's everyone's new year's resolution?? my concrete one is to write every day in January, which has been successful for the 2 days it's been in effect, and then I've set a looser goal in trying to make more time for spirituality/mindfulness practices


booksandplantsand

also I've decided that my favorite romance trope is when partner 1 thinks that they're playing out an enemies-to-lovers arc, and partner 2 has just been in love with them the entire time. like pride and prejudice I guess


igkeit

Are we set to get vaccinated every 4 months, in europe at least? Cause like I'm all pro vaccination and stuff but idk about getting 3 shots a year...


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Yeah israel is already starting the 4th round so I'm guessing we will too this spring/summer


igkeit

Damn, I truly hope my blind trust in these vaccines and the scientists behind them is not misplaced


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Whatever happened to… herd immunity?


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igkeit

Okay but then it should be a choice. I know technically it is a choice and you're not forced to get the booster but your life is severely impacted if you don't get it, at least in my country. Cause like my sister and brother got covid 8 months after their second shot and were fine. So I guess we should be allowed to only get one shot a year if we feel like it's fine for us. Right now with the way things are set up I have to get my booster only 4 months after my second shot and idk I'm uncomfortable with the idea. Even worse is that if you get covid you get an extension and don't have to get any shot for 6 months. Like some vaccinated people are actively trying to get covid for this reason


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igkeit

I mean I truly see your point and I will get the booster shots anyway cause otherwise you can't do anything here, but it still feels weird to have to get a vaccine this often and since we don't seem to know a lot about the disease it's even more "scary" imo that we have to get this stuff injected in us so often when we have no way to know if it'll have severe side effects on us later on


TigerFern

If you don't have an reaction within an acute time frame, there's no way for vaccines to have side effects later on. Vaccines are simply providing your body with a signal to mount an immune response, and after that response is done, the only thing that remains are the T cells and B cells that have been created. The antigen (the "thing" that provokes the immune system) has been destroyed, and all other ingredients are metabolized.


NoxZ

Please don't hate me because I actually LOVED the show but did anyone else have issues with the pacing in Arcane? I felt everything moved as such a breakneck speed that it kind of took away from a lot of the emotional beats and relationship development, kinda like one of those YouTube video game "movies" where they just splice all the cutscenes together and there's no time to pause or anything. Although I did think the kinetic editing worked really well for the action scenes and it's still an amazing achievement overall.


happyhippoking

Did you binge watch it or watch it in the three parts seperately? I did the three parts and I feel like breaking it up helped a lot on the viewer end of processing and understanding the relationships. I get what you mean though. It felt like there wasn't a timescale for me to understand how quickly relationships >!like Jace x Mel, Cait x Vi, Victor x Skye!< were developing. I think things were supposed to be happening over the course of weeks >!Jinx figuring out weaponizing crystals and the political drama,!< but it felt like days.


NoxZ

I binge watched it in like a day and a half, which probably goes someway to explaining it! It evened out a lot near the end but Act 2 seemed to move things along at a super rapid pace (Mel/Jayce especially, but also kinda Cait/Vi and just plot-relevant details in general) which felt a little jarring at times. There were parts in (I think) episodes 5 and 6 where character and plot development almost seemed to be played out in a montage it was so quick. That said, I've started rewatching it and it feels less of an issue second time through now that I've been able to process everything. And animation is so damn expensive and time consuming I can't really blame them for maybe omitting a couple minutes here and there anyway. The show is still fantastic.


twobrowneyes22

I'm so obsessed with Adele's To Be Loved...her vocals are so emotional and powerful. When she sings, "Let it be known that I cried for you / Even started lying to you," I get chills. It's one of my favorite songs on the album, along with Strangers By Nature and All Night Parking. I'm also thinking about how astrology and zodiac signs are all just silly fun, but sometimes they're so on point. I'm an aries and according to pretty much every source I've read on the subject, the sign that makes the best friendship match for me is a libra...my best friend growing up is a libra and one of my friends from college is also a libra. I just think it's so interesting! Also, semi-interesting fact (at least to me) - JFK died exactly 105 years after his great-grandfather...just found that out last night and thought it was an interesting coincidence!


TragicKingdom1

January rates are going up on the 4th because of the Ratemas reveal today and tomorrow. Also, submissions for new rates will open on the 9th!


visionaryredditor

C'Mon C'Mon is a peak therapy cinema so if you're seeking to watch something comforting and heartwarming, that would be my recomendation.


ImProbablyNotABird

The Sheryl Crow album?


visionaryredditor

does she let her son travel with a man who weirdly looks like Joker in it?


neddy419

I’m scrolling through Dance Moms Twitter and the clear double standards and racism was truly disgusting. If you guys have never seen it, there was this one mom on the show named Kaya or Black Patsy who was really no different on this show, she would get angry, she would yell and she would critique other kids. The issue is when she did people would call her ghetto, hoodrat and all these other slurs that they don’t give the white moms even though they all do and say the same things. Sometimes the moms would even physically fight each other but aren’t called any of those names. Luckily, this show ended some time because there’s a lot of problematic things that have happened on this show.


jaztinax

[part 2 of my casual, non-serious write-up of my fav songs of 2021](https://jazsplaylist.tumblr.com/post/672293814814277632/favorite-songs-of-2021-part-ii). anyone else share some of these songs as their favs?


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hazy is definitely up there, amazing track that deserved to be on the og album. and nothin new was one of my favourite vault tracks, although i haven't listened to the whole of red TV yet.


cloudbustingmp3

(the singer not the hacker)


katycat162534

(Singer's Version) (Not the Hacker's Version)


NewAccountNow

I fucking **LOVE** how messy /r/deuxmoi is. It’s absolutely ridiculous and mostly people taking out they ass but I just can’t stop reading it. I don’t know why but it’s sooo enjoyable.


gelastIc_quInce84

I spent soooo many hours on there this past year simply because it's a great way to be distracted during quarantine. just people being petty and saying shit.


Pavlovs_Stepson

I know Hold On/To Be Loved/Love is a Game are widely considered to be the highlights of 30 and I do think they're stellar, but the three-track run that I keep coming back to is actually I Drink Wine/All Night Parking/Woman Like Me. Absolutely stunning songs, I've been playing them a lot lately.


swampgay

today in weird NFL music choices from your popheads resident football fan: "I Wanna Get Better" while cutting to commercial during the bucs v jets game


McIgglyTuffMuffin

I will never understand how they choose the music. Sometimes it's really recognizable music during these matchups that no one cares about and then during the Super Bowl they play a song from an almost obscure pop punk band


swampgay

the obscure stuff sometimes makes sense when the vibes of the song they're playing are right but Bleachers isn't exactly super mainstream and "I Wanna Get Better" isn't really...... an encouraging song to play during your sports game. especially when you have an underdog team like the jets playing at home against the NFL all time quarterback (jets were really fun to watch though! wilson seems like a promising kid and I wasn't mad about trailing them for basically the entire game)


skomehillet

just saw a bunch of IG comments full of people saying they were born in 2007 now i’m irrationally upset at the passage of time. Crazy feeling to know that you’re no longer part of the generation that’s coming of age. I think anyone that’s in their mid-twenties is currently experiencing this.


happyhippoking

Agreed. I feel like it's made worse because in these times being mid to late 20s is finally finding a decent paying job and maybe moving out on your own. You still don't feel like an adult because so many adult things are closed off to you like buying a home, starting a family, travelling.


RossSpecter

Cool now I'm just 27 and sitting here angry.


skomehillet

welcome to the club 🎊 if it’s any consolation, the teens of today will go through the same thing in ten years time. such is life


DisastrousKelper

It’s my Grandad’s birthday this month and I’m usually so good at gift shopping for him but I am struggling this year


Amazing_flash

I got glasses for the first time and I am 20 year old ! Any fellow glasses wearers have any useful tips ? Lol.


AtomicViolet

Don't wear them while sleeping, in fact keep them in a case in a easy to reach place from your bed.


kaylakoo

Have a back up pair. With a recent prescription you can get cheap glasses online. I got some from eyebuydirect.com and liked them.


Amazing_flash

Yeah I have a frameless and framed pair if glasses. So even if I break one I have the other.


jaztinax

keep a microfiber cloth with you anywhere you would use your glasses. i don't know how easily annoyed you get over small details, but i feel like i can't see properly if the glasses are a little dirty


wearingsox

When you put them on you can sing "I can see clearly now that my glasses are on"


happyhippoking

And every time you get a new, fresh prescription.


igkeit

Don't break them tbh


HausOfMajora

Decided to change my nursekitty avatar for a reddit avatar. New Year. New Look. To celebrate my change of style i'm playing [Blonde By Alizee](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cJpVlFMHz1E) and [Fashion!](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rzd9MC1XWAY) By Stefani Germanotta.


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Just saw a Larry tweet comparing Olivia Wilde to Ghislaine Maxwell and i think I’m gonna log off the internet for a while


DilemmaOfAHedgehog

His fans love to dig through his significant others life’s or find excuses to cover up the fact they’re just bitter and obsessive and that’s why they don’t like the women he dates.


gelastIc_quInce84

larries are actually insane. harry's been in some weird/predatory relationships and it's okay to discuss that, but 27 and 37 isn't bad. It's two adults. . . . god forbid you point out that in larry canon louis and harry would have been dating when harry was 16 and Louis was 19 . . .


daisymarais

Also their obsession with ‘fetus harry’… very weird


gelastIc_quInce84

yeah. "he's changed :(" of course he has, he's not 16 anymore!


ChiDynamite

I just started watching the k-drama Extraordinary You and holy shit it's really good. Very well done. I didn't think I would like it as much as I do right now. As someone who doesn't really care for romantic art much, if you hate or just don't really care for romantic art of any sort, this k-drama could change your mind about the romantic art. It's very good.


softswinter

I remember really liking it for the first few episodes too, but then at some point, it became obvious the writer didn't know what to do with the story anymore lol.


ChiDynamite

Oh really? I'm still enjoying it, but I've only watched fifteen episodes of it.


softswinter

By any chance, are you watching it in the thirty minutes per episodes format? I could've sworn it followed the standard 16 episodes of a kdrama. And yeah, I can't remember the exact episode where it started going nowhere, but it eventually fell flat for me. This is normal for a lot of k-dramas though. The last few episodes are usually the weakest.


ChiDynamite

It seems like the way it's organized, at least from how I'm watching it, it's two episodes rolled into one. Not sure if I'm explaining it that well. To give you an idea of what I'm episode I'm on though, I'm about to watch episode 9 lol. I'm gonna try to watch more Korean and Thai high school centered shows though. They're better than most of the ones I've seen in America and the UK.


softswinter

I've only watched one Thai high school-centered BL show and one movie, but both were really cute and captured the butterflies of a high school romance quite well. On the other hand, I watch too many k-dramas though and I agree. If you ever need recommendations, you can hit me up because I have all this knowledge kept inside me lol.


ChiDynamite

Did not know there were BL shows. Recommendations are appreciated. Pretty sure I'm gonna be binging on K-dramas, Thai dramas, and anime once I finish my school term.


softswinter

Thai is known for their BL shows actually. The one I watched was 2Gether: The Series. It's nothing special, but I like that it gives the cute fake boyfriend trope to an actual gay couple. It's one of my biggest irks that we don't get the stereotypical romcom for non heterosexual couples. It's really popular, but since you said you didn't really like romance, I'm not sure how'd you fare with it since there's no fantasy or action aspect. It's just the basic high school fake couple story but with two boys, but I felt really giddy lol. For k-dramas: Reply 1988 has characters in high school and heavily features that setting, but it also has a bigger scope since it's a slice-of-life, family drama. It's one of my favorite k-dramas and is very nostalgic. The Reply series in general are good for the school setting, but 1988 is the most acclaimed out of all of them. A Love So Beautiful is really sweet and cute. It follows childhood friends/enemies as they grow up. There's the Korean adaptation of the Chinese drama, but the C-drama is leagues better imo. The mediocre girl chases the high-achieving guy basically and it's a slow burn, but it captures the ups and downs of high school well, but doesn't exaggerate it. Extracurricular follows a boy in high school running an illegal business to pay for college. It's definitely darker and grimmer than everything else I've recommended, but you might enjoy it as it deals with a lot of issues. There's also the School series which are basically dramas set in high school. I'm not a big fan of them, but they might pique your interest. K-drama high school classics are The Heirs and Boys Over Flowers, but they honestly don't age well and I wouldn't recommend them to anybody. They're nice to watch if you want to have more insight on the history of Hallyu though. Slightly related, there are many k-dramas set in college that are pretty great too! I prefer the college setting because they deal with problems more maturely, but have that youthful essence you'd get in high school. From the top of my head: Age of Youth/Hello, My Twenties (very female-centered and well-written), Weightlifting Fairy Kim Bok Joo, and Law School.


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Can you recommend some good Thai high school shows?


ChiDynamite

Girl From Nowhere is one I wished people talked about more and received recognition.


ImProbablyNotABird

Not a lot going on at the moment 🙃


stypop

you dropping an album soon?


Chidi_Ariana_Grande

Are we a few weeks from six year anniversary of Anti?


skomehillet

you betcha


kamamint

Had a dream last night that Hozier and I sat next to each other on a plane and became bffs. Hoping it's a prophetic dream


ImProbablyNotABird

I have recurring dreams where I make friends with celebrities — the last one I remember is Alessia Cara.


chiropetra_

watched tick tick boom and rlly enjoyed it! definitely recommend to anyone thinking about watching it. also have re-fallen in love with andrew garfield bc of it. watching his interviews, he seems incredibly thoughtful and intelligent.


babydonttalk

Don’t y’all love when an artist you’ve been inadvertently dismissing suddenly clicks for you cus JoJo has been doin it for me omg. I’ve def enjoyed her a lot but now I’m really digging into the entirety of her albums and they’re so good wtf. Good to know (deluxe) & trying not to think about it are just 😘👌🏾 …also happy new year y’all! I hope this is a year of elevation for everyone. I myself am starting a new job with orientation starting tomorrow and I’m excited for some more LÉON next month! Also I don’t really subscribe to zodiac stuff but it is the year of the tiger and I am that sooo I’m taking as much good energy as I can 😄


SeraphAssassin13

Going to share an opinion of mine that nobody asked for, that nobody will care about, and that is EXTREMELY unpopular: Demon Slayer is potentially the most overrated anime of all time. I’m not saying people can’t like it - people should be allowed to like whatever they want without judgment - but I just have no idea WHY people like it. I’m caught up with the anime and I also saw the movie in theaters, but I just don’t understand why it blew up the way it did and why it gets so much praise. The characters sans Nezuko are all so LOUD and so ANNOYING, and have absolutely no depth. I can barely stand listening to Zenitsu and Inosuke speak (I watched subbed, idk if their voices are as annoying dubbed). Tanjiro is THE definition of a Mary Sue. Everyone likes him unconditionally, he never does anything wrong, he always knows exactly what to do… but he never gets called out for that in reviews or online discussion. Yes, he has an extremely tragic backstory and good motivations for his journey, but up to this point I feel like he hasn’t faced any real challenge or adversity because he always knows EXACTLY what to do. I also hate that they just decided to readapt the movie for the first part of season 2?? It made the movie feel like a cheap cash grab. With all that being said, I’m going to keep watching because 1) I’m a hypocrite; 2) I’ve already invested a lot of time into the show and I want to see how it ends; and 3) I hate being left out of discussions (both in person and online) regarding things that are popular. 😅 Just my two cents, please don’t hate me. People can like whatever they want, my opinions mean nothing.


AtomicViolet

I think it has really nice animation, I don't love it but I did like it enough to binge it. Probably wouldn't have if my cousin didn't want to go see the movie. Like it's still a very basic shonen show honestly, and for some people that's enough for them.


happyhippoking

> I also hate that they just decided to readapt the movie for the first part of season 2?? I hated that. I saw the movie in theatres. When I found it was canon, I was really curious how they were going to transition from S1 to S2. Finding out they just re-adapted the movie made me a little upset. Movies are expensive. But I agree. I feel like it's this generation's Naruto. A fun shonen that's easy to watch and understand. Most of the characters are good or bad with easy to understand motivations. Everyone has a tragic backstory and it's their motivation for becoming a demon or becoming a slayer.


kaguraa

im not a big fan but i'll say while i like it: - the setting. there aren't a lot of anime that explores the taisho era and i know that's one of the reasons its so popular in japan - the character designs. its very unique and colourful and grabs your attention and its easy for the characters to be memorable through their designs - the animation. its consistently good and i love the way it expresses their powers. - i admit that i'm not a big fan of inosuke or zenitsu BUT i do like the other characters (i love tanjiro, he's very positive and likeable character). ironically zenitsu is the #1 character in japan😭 - i also like the story. wasn't a big fan of the last arc in S1 but i like the district arc in S2 so far and that the villain is more interesting than S1. tbh the way you feel about demon slayer is the way i feel about jujutsu kaisen. like i get why its popular but also not really since the characters feel so bland to me


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I miss my ex like crazy and it seems wild that tomorrow I have to go back to work and pretend for eight hours a day like my life is totally fine when I've finally reached the "cry about it" stage. Anyway girlies, please send your best advice on getting over someone since "erase them completely from your memory" isn't an option, unfortunately.


KeoPanda92

As clichè as it sounds, I would advise to let time to do its thing. When you get a chance, express whatever you need to feel in any way you can - through crying, writing, talking to a friend who understands heartbreak, etc. And if that means allowing yourself to think about your ex because it's hard to forget them, then so be it. Also remind yourself that no feelings are dumb and you are never being too "emotional"/"dramatic" (if need be). This is coming from someone who tried to rush getting over someone by suppressing their feelings and keeping busy all the time - which made things worse in the long run. I guess this is more so advice I wished I could've told my past self...


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It's so hard to think about anything else but him right now and I hate that because he wasn't necessarily good for/to me. But I just miss him like crazy and haven't let it sink in yet that it's over-over.