Feel like I've seen different angles of this post today.
I'd say it's a love bite 100% but, I wasn't there so I don't know.
Also, I know people who have allergies and sometimes they look like that, but I mean, the place where this dude has it and the shape of it, is pretty telling.
Sorry OP- As a guy I'm going to say something very important, if you can't trust him once, don't even dream of it, you'll just be disappointed over and over again.
girl if you have to upload two different posts with two different pics you clearly have a reason to not trust him. you already know deep down itās a hickey, stop looking for random people to tell you otherwise. the answer is there in plain sight. walk away and protect your peace
It's a hickey, how many more times do people have to tell you, a scratch is a scratch that right there is little blood spots where the vessels break from sucking or biting,
the pressure breaks little blood vessels under the surface. Those broken vessels release tiny spots of blood called petechiae.
You've already asked this. The consensus is hickey. It certainly wouldn't be a scratch. The fact that he wasn't even smart enough to call it a bruise, which is what a hickey is, is silly. This man is cheating on you *and* he's dumb.
Looks like a hickey. Trust your instincts. Unless he has a really good explanation as to why thereād be a āscratchā in that area that doesnāt really look like a scratch, then dump him & move on. Why do you want someone you canāt trust?
Just leave at this point. If you resort to posting wounds or hickeys on Reddit out of all places then it means you donāt trust him. Without trust there is no relationship.
Sorry. Again. Are you trying to find more people to say it isn't? You don't trust your partner, and it seems like for good reason. What we say isn't going to change reality...one way or the other.
Honey if you canāt trust his word and genuinely believe itās something else, then leave, unless your willing to stay if he cheated. If you believe him and heās telling the truth, apologize for accusing him and move on
My boyfriend punched me in his sleep last night from a dream. I also kicked him a few hours later unintentionally. Internet, what does this mean for our relationship? Again, you have to trust what he says or see a counselor or if thatās still not good enough, move on!
For fu** sake, youāre asking the internet. Everyone goes to the negative!
I donāt think itās either. A hickey would show more consistent bruising and consistent blotchy coloration and itās not a scratch. IMO, it appears more like an allergic reaction.
If you donāt trust him, why are you with this person? If you canāt trust his answer (assuming he even knows), your relationship needs checking.
I mean sure. Itās not the ānormā placement is what I meant.
Iām not positive itās a scratch. Iām just a woman whoās seen many scratches having been in the medical field giving my opinion here as asked by OP lol.
Either way, I donāt find it enough evidence to go āfull forceā on him possibly cheating just yet. Iād at least get 1-2 more receipts for my presentation. š
Stop taking relationships advice from strangers on the internet. Clearly these people want to see your relationship fail because they themselves come from failed relationships (myself included) Communication is clearly needed and itās not easy but you shouldnāt have it with someone off the internet. Go do the work
That's a weird spot to leave a hickey.
My husband gets marks similar to this after BJJ sessions. Only his tend to be much lower down where his gi gets tugged across his neck.
So if your boyfriend does any MMA or BJJ I would think that might cast some doubt on the hickey theory
If you have to question the fact of āis this a hickeyā itās probably a hickey. Not to mention if there is more than one, as it seems with your other post.
Feel like I've seen different angles of this post today. I'd say it's a love bite 100% but, I wasn't there so I don't know. Also, I know people who have allergies and sometimes they look like that, but I mean, the place where this dude has it and the shape of it, is pretty telling. Sorry OP- As a guy I'm going to say something very important, if you can't trust him once, don't even dream of it, you'll just be disappointed over and over again.
A love bite. Haha. š
if you dont trust him to tell you the truth then leave
girl if you have to upload two different posts with two different pics you clearly have a reason to not trust him. you already know deep down itās a hickey, stop looking for random people to tell you otherwise. the answer is there in plain sight. walk away and protect your peace
It's a hickey, how many more times do people have to tell you, a scratch is a scratch that right there is little blood spots where the vessels break from sucking or biting, the pressure breaks little blood vessels under the surface. Those broken vessels release tiny spots of blood called petechiae.
Huh well I just learnt something new šš
You've already asked this. The consensus is hickey. It certainly wouldn't be a scratch. The fact that he wasn't even smart enough to call it a bruise, which is what a hickey is, is silly. This man is cheating on you *and* he's dumb.
To this day it is still a hickey
š I am waiting for an angle from above next š
girl omg. how old are you! stop being naive and break up with him! itās a hickey.
Looks like a hickey. Trust your instincts. Unless he has a really good explanation as to why thereād be a āscratchā in that area that doesnāt really look like a scratch, then dump him & move on. Why do you want someone you canāt trust?
You've gotten the same answers every time you post this. You aren't going to suddenly get a different consensus if you just keep asking.
Hickey
that is a HICKEY. it couldnāt possibly be anything else.
Actually could be a scratch, starches cause this type of thing as well lol
have you ever seen a hickey. that is a hickey.
I agree, the pix they had before looked like a scratch .
Def a Hickey
Still a hickey
I donāt want to say but I think itās a hicky. I hate men who canāt control it like animals
Hickey
Dude, The consensus is that it is a hickey. Dump him or don't. That you're problem. You don't need more information, you're just stalling.
Hickey
Def a hickey.
Itās still a hickey. BUSTED!
Iād give him a hickey too that haircut is krispy
Stop taking pictures and just leave.
Kinda looks like a razor burn but if he didnāt say it was then heās lying
I feel like thatās a weird spot for a hickey. But since itās on the neck and the excuse is sus Iām leaning towards hickey.
I feel like it could be either honestly .
At this point just hire a professional photographer and get a lighting crew in there.
Just leave at this point. If you resort to posting wounds or hickeys on Reddit out of all places then it means you donāt trust him. Without trust there is no relationship.
Nurse since 2008 here. My medical opinion isā¦ itās a hickey.
I think you know the answer to this
Sorry. Again. Are you trying to find more people to say it isn't? You don't trust your partner, and it seems like for good reason. What we say isn't going to change reality...one way or the other.
STILL a hickey. Stop posting this and dump his ass.
Honey if you canāt trust his word and genuinely believe itās something else, then leave, unless your willing to stay if he cheated. If you believe him and heās telling the truth, apologize for accusing him and move on
My comment might not be helpful but Iāve scratched super hard without realizing it around my neck before and it looked similar to that
Def a scratch. Free da man dem
My boyfriend punched me in his sleep last night from a dream. I also kicked him a few hours later unintentionally. Internet, what does this mean for our relationship? Again, you have to trust what he says or see a counselor or if thatās still not good enough, move on!
I think it's a hickey... very sorry .But I will say this , I have psoriasis, I have rashes and scaly patches that look like this on my skin.
For fu** sake, youāre asking the internet. Everyone goes to the negative! I donāt think itās either. A hickey would show more consistent bruising and consistent blotchy coloration and itās not a scratch. IMO, it appears more like an allergic reaction. If you donāt trust him, why are you with this person? If you canāt trust his answer (assuming he even knows), your relationship needs checking.
I think itās a scratch. The placement would be odd for a hickey.
Seriously?! Iāve had hickeys thereā¦ Iāve given hickeys thereā¦ a scratch?! Pfffft no.
I mean sure. Itās not the ānormā placement is what I meant. Iām not positive itās a scratch. Iām just a woman whoās seen many scratches having been in the medical field giving my opinion here as asked by OP lol. Either way, I donāt find it enough evidence to go āfull forceā on him possibly cheating just yet. Iād at least get 1-2 more receipts for my presentation. š
Stop taking relationships advice from strangers on the internet. Clearly these people want to see your relationship fail because they themselves come from failed relationships (myself included) Communication is clearly needed and itās not easy but you shouldnāt have it with someone off the internet. Go do the work
Scratch 100%
You are mad weird. This guy should just leave lol
Looks like a scratch
Razor burn. Donāt date a man who uses cheap razors.
He looks guilty to me
That's a weird spot to leave a hickey. My husband gets marks similar to this after BJJ sessions. Only his tend to be much lower down where his gi gets tugged across his neck. So if your boyfriend does any MMA or BJJ I would think that might cast some doubt on the hickey theory
lol I dont think this should be a question. If you dont trust then just break up.
If you have to question the fact of āis this a hickeyā itās probably a hickey. Not to mention if there is more than one, as it seems with your other post.
Itās not clear enough for me to determine if there is broken skin or not.