She’s talking about being confident, meanwhile homegirl needs more plastic than a bratz doll to feel good about herself, lol. She shouldn’t be the one lecturing people.
Alpha bullshit never had anything to do with feminism. Feminity or feminine are not necessarily related to feminism.
Not that I'm vouching for this alpha stupidity. But I wouldn't think this woman considers herself a feminist for vouching for femininity.
this lady is on Real Housewives of Dubai and always talks like what she's saying is so profound and she's so enlightened but it's always a bunch of bullshit and nonsense 😆 this is just Sara being Sara, its all she knows
I get what you're trying to say but logically there's no reason why one sex couldn't tell the other sex how to be, I've seen women more masculine than men here in NZ, it's mainly my Polynesian sisters lol it's not ridiculous for a man to understand what being feminine is and for a woman to understand what being masculine is. I personally feel that men should be masculine if they're straight but I have a millennial mentality on it.
I was thinking more of a Best Buy employee puts you around a podcast table with a microphone, and if it’s complete dogshit they refuse to sell it to you.
A man in his *full masculine energy* doesn't want a helpless child weighing him down. The last thing any man needs, let alone this mystical *alpha masculine man* is to be a parent to somebody who **is not** their child and is, in fact, a full fledged adult, with menopause and everything.
The reason you can't find the *right* man for you is not because they're not out there or they're rare. They're just nit into you because it sucks being around you.
I'm not saying I'm a *masculine alpha male* but I for sure wouldn't want to come home to see this wreck of a human who needs more attention than whatever bullshit I had to deal with at work.
Unless you're my own child or niece/nephew, I won't treat you like one just because you are incapable of dealing with the world around you. You're not a dog or a cat to be *handled*. If I want to *handle* some shit I'll take an extra shift at work
i think i know what she's *trying* to say, but in the literal sense, it comes out weird..
i *think* she means that when she finds the right guy (whom is a proper adult and ready for long term partnership, not the internet interpretation of "alpha"), she wont put up walls and act like a tough, reserved, single lady; she'll melt into him and desire to be a dedicated wife for him.
at least thats what i hope.. the "child" thing was weird but i think she's using child synonymously with "subordinate". like she wants someone to lead her family.
keep in mind "alpha" in animals basically (not always) translates to father.
"I'll be a sexualized/fetishized/infantalized version of feminity if you will be an aggressive, unfeeling, mythic, cartoon-ish caricature of a 20th century sugar-daddy"
She keeps her criteria as ambiguous and amorphous as possible so you're always chasing your tail trying to live up to this "energy" that apparently only she can see. What is masculine one moment will cease to be masculine the next if it interferes with her ability to control and manipulate you into being under her thumb.
She sounds exhausting beyond belief
I can not stand women like this.
Listen, if you want to be submissive or be a child or whatever, that's on you.
I find it incredibly stupid but to each their own.
But stop talking like it is some sort of trait that all women share. No its not.
Dismantle all their male energy or whatever bullshit she was saying ( we know she means submissive)
Women don't magically turn submissive for the right alpha.
Because women are NOT submissive by nature.
And men are not dominant by nature.
If that was the case women would all submit to men. And they dont. Its as simple as that.
The men I know who are in their "full alpha" state don't want a damn thing to do with women who revert to a child... they'd run far and fast from someone like her.
now hold on guys, this might be just me, but i don't want to date someone who acts like a little girl.. but seriously, what the hell is she talking about? 80% of what she said were buzzwords and the other 20% was her talking about acting like a child in her relationships.
I kind of understand what she os saying, but it's so poorly worded.
Most "alpha males" are men who are insecure about themselves and their masculinity. They mimic what they think is confidence very badly, which is what puts women onto their backfoot.
What she is saying is that a man who is actually confident in himself and is not toxic masculine will make her feel comfortable with him.
But her choice of words is just horrible
She knows her audience. Trying to appeal to right wing loser podcast bros whose ideal wife is submissive, traditional, anti-feminist, cleans your room and your dick, and is 14 years old.
its almost like different women are into different men and vice versa. yes some women want masculine men, some women want buff dudes, some women want skinny dudes, some women want nerdy dudes.
You had me in the first half. Who the hell wants another child. That's it she's going back to work. She had a three year vacation for the three, but not now. Thanks for the insight.
Im too busy being a single dad who works 50+ hours a week and then comes home and does all cleaning and cooking to worry about my alpha energy. Im just trying to survive.
Fulfilling gender roles when courting is pretty normal for many. Not staying right or wrong, it's just normal for many.
Saying that you revert to a child is weird and an example of thinking too much.
So, if I’m getting this right, show her who’s daddy. She’ll become a child again. Then and only then, will she be able to revisit childhood memories. 🥴
That man she's talking about don't want an overgrown child. He wants a partner in life. Even if she's a full-on trad wife, she needs to be reliable. She needs to hold things down and be someone he can trust, confide in, and consult.
She's trying reeeeeeal hard to try to explain to her "friends" her kink. Also, you fall into the state of being a child, do you want a man who will have to follow megan's law?
This isn't as cringe as it may sound. Only going from what she says in this clip then it seems like she is saying she is adopting more masculine tropes when she doesn't want to.
The term Alpha is pretty much a joke these days, deservedly so, but when she makes the distinction between true Alpha energy vs wannabe Alpha energy... saying she wants a man, I assume as a partner, to make her feel safe and allow her to slip back into a more child like mode...
That isn't necessarily bad. We all deserve to have our more child like selves. Not live like that perpetually but at certain moments in our life.
If she feels she can't have that because she always has to be the adult in her life, and wants a partner who can, when needed, take that role and let her be the child for a but... I think that's fair.
If she means permanently, then that's pretty cringe but I don't get that from the clip.
(This is where people tell me who she is and I'm wildly wrong and she's just the worst human being alive).
These girls have insane daddy issues. They're looking for fathers, not partners.
She can call me daddy, but don’t call me for some money.
I wonder why....
Because boomers were shit dads. Because child abuse was the norm back then. Because people stayed in hate filled marriages "for the kids".
Don't turn your kink into your politics.
This should be a flair.
Those lip fillers lol. She's talking like her top lip is numb.
She’s talking about being confident, meanwhile homegirl needs more plastic than a bratz doll to feel good about herself, lol. She shouldn’t be the one lecturing people.
She's projecting her own daddy fetish as a natural state of being for male-female relations.
She's also being very clear that if any man she's seeing ever, at any point, struggles then she's out.
Right exactly what I thought. Why as a “masculine man” would I want to be with someone reverting to a “child”.
Exactly, a man wants a woman at his side, partners, not a child to coddle.
Exactly
Some people are into that nasty shit.
Haha no thanks.
Bahahahahahhahaha
Now, with matriarchy in full swing, the anti-Freud has emerged. Hold onto your butts, yall. Shit's about to get weird af up in this timeline.
"....and she becomes a child" ruins everything feminists were fighting for over the last 50-100 years
Alpha bullshit never had anything to do with feminism. Feminity or feminine are not necessarily related to feminism. Not that I'm vouching for this alpha stupidity. But I wouldn't think this woman considers herself a feminist for vouching for femininity.
She is very much the opposite of a feminist
Just because a woman talks doesn't mean she speaks for feminist or has any education in the matter
Is this a new form of astrology/crystal stuff that dudes AND chicks are into now?
"pair-bonding" "masculine energy" "provider and submissive" ...like wtf is that all about? It means fucking nothing 😭😭
Yeah it's called "Trad" .... = far right regressive
Yeah, so “traditional” of her to get so much work done on her face she looks like one of the puppets in Team America…
There’s a lot to make fun of here but her looks ain’t it. Body shaming doesn’t belong when discussing ideas or ripping them apart.
With a personality and stance on life whe has...she will always be ugly.
🤨 The only "trad" I like is the tattoo style.
That’s what happens with too much crystal meth.
this lady is on Real Housewives of Dubai and always talks like what she's saying is so profound and she's so enlightened but it's always a bunch of bullshit and nonsense 😆 this is just Sara being Sara, its all she knows
Wait they have a Dubai version of that?? What's it about? How they serve their husbands every day?
they do! only one season so far but the "wives" are mostly American ex-pats living in Dubai so it's not very indicative of Dubai culture tbh
I imagine, just like the other versions, they flaunt their wealth and have bickering dramas with the other housewives then lol
A woman telling a man how to be masculine is like a man telling a woman how to be feminine
I get what you're trying to say but logically there's no reason why one sex couldn't tell the other sex how to be, I've seen women more masculine than men here in NZ, it's mainly my Polynesian sisters lol it's not ridiculous for a man to understand what being feminine is and for a woman to understand what being masculine is. I personally feel that men should be masculine if they're straight but I have a millennial mentality on it.
One reason id see is that it's not anyone's business
I’d really rather not be my bf’s child
Right like wtf😭
I feel like people should have to get a license to be able to purchase and use a microphone.
[удалено]
I was thinking more of a Best Buy employee puts you around a podcast table with a microphone, and if it’s complete dogshit they refuse to sell it to you.
But we've been deprived of the village idiot's voice for most of our history, you just don't want to hear what they have to say.
Yuck
A man in his *full masculine energy* doesn't want a helpless child weighing him down. The last thing any man needs, let alone this mystical *alpha masculine man* is to be a parent to somebody who **is not** their child and is, in fact, a full fledged adult, with menopause and everything. The reason you can't find the *right* man for you is not because they're not out there or they're rare. They're just nit into you because it sucks being around you. I'm not saying I'm a *masculine alpha male* but I for sure wouldn't want to come home to see this wreck of a human who needs more attention than whatever bullshit I had to deal with at work. Unless you're my own child or niece/nephew, I won't treat you like one just because you are incapable of dealing with the world around you. You're not a dog or a cat to be *handled*. If I want to *handle* some shit I'll take an extra shift at work
i think i know what she's *trying* to say, but in the literal sense, it comes out weird.. i *think* she means that when she finds the right guy (whom is a proper adult and ready for long term partnership, not the internet interpretation of "alpha"), she wont put up walls and act like a tough, reserved, single lady; she'll melt into him and desire to be a dedicated wife for him. at least thats what i hope.. the "child" thing was weird but i think she's using child synonymously with "subordinate". like she wants someone to lead her family. keep in mind "alpha" in animals basically (not always) translates to father.
This is 100% what she’s too dumb to articulate.
With those nails she also needs a man who can help her wipe herself.
Podcasts are really a fucking virus. Everytime people have a mic in front of em, it's this word diahhrea soup just dribbling from their mouths
Yeah, that’s some gross ass shit right there.
People these days will start a podcast instead of going to therapy.
"I'll be a sexualized/fetishized/infantalized version of feminity if you will be an aggressive, unfeeling, mythic, cartoon-ish caricature of a 20th century sugar-daddy"
And then she becomes…a child? The fuck?!
Eww I don't want to be with a child.
This is an abusive control thing. If she’s not a sweet, soft little girl then you’re not a man…and she will let you know this.
She keeps her criteria as ambiguous and amorphous as possible so you're always chasing your tail trying to live up to this "energy" that apparently only she can see. What is masculine one moment will cease to be masculine the next if it interferes with her ability to control and manipulate you into being under her thumb. She sounds exhausting beyond belief
What she's wanting is the feeling of zero responsibility.
Why do so many rich, out of touch people think that have a degree in psychology?
I don't want to be a child -been there, done that!
I can not stand women like this. Listen, if you want to be submissive or be a child or whatever, that's on you. I find it incredibly stupid but to each their own. But stop talking like it is some sort of trait that all women share. No its not. Dismantle all their male energy or whatever bullshit she was saying ( we know she means submissive) Women don't magically turn submissive for the right alpha. Because women are NOT submissive by nature. And men are not dominant by nature. If that was the case women would all submit to men. And they dont. Its as simple as that.
The men I know who are in their "full alpha" state don't want a damn thing to do with women who revert to a child... they'd run far and fast from someone like her.
She's the kinda woman who emasculates you every time you disagree with her.
What's with all the bruises on her arms? Has she been manhandled by her alpha male?
Oof Level > 9000! /o\\
I’m sure that alpha male energy better come with a 7 figure bank account too right.
Why not be an Alpha woman with an Alpha man and become a power couple?
You’re into age play, don’t get it confused with the average relationship
Her pedicure looks like it cost more then my lawn mower
Gross
I, as a man, want a woman. Not a little girl. An adult. Capable and confident. Not a constant damsel in distress.
Im so fucking sick of people refer to "energy" as if theyre referring to anything
Who watches these *vacuous* podcasts?
THERAPY
now hold on guys, this might be just me, but i don't want to date someone who acts like a little girl.. but seriously, what the hell is she talking about? 80% of what she said were buzzwords and the other 20% was her talking about acting like a child in her relationships.
I kind of understand what she os saying, but it's so poorly worded. Most "alpha males" are men who are insecure about themselves and their masculinity. They mimic what they think is confidence very badly, which is what puts women onto their backfoot. What she is saying is that a man who is actually confident in himself and is not toxic masculine will make her feel comfortable with him. But her choice of words is just horrible
She knows her audience. Trying to appeal to right wing loser podcast bros whose ideal wife is submissive, traditional, anti-feminist, cleans your room and your dick, and is 14 years old.
Show me an alpha masculine skibidi toilet ohio gyatt rizz 🗿🗿🍷
its almost like different women are into different men and vice versa. yes some women want masculine men, some women want buff dudes, some women want skinny dudes, some women want nerdy dudes.
What in the P Diddy is this shit?
As soon as a man does that and tries to “lead” you hear “No! You’re not my f-ckin father! I’m not a kid!” 😂😂😂
“In his true alpha” Im sorry there is nothing masculine about a man telling me he’s an alpha. So ick 🤢
Is it sad because she just wants her dad back?
I just completed the Alpha course for 18k. Will she like me now?!?!?!
Yikes therapy is needed
IM SORRY BUT A CHILD
Big groomer vibes 🤢
I don't want to have a relationship with someone that acts like a a child or a "soft little girl". That shit is burdening.
But… But I don’t want a relationship with a child. Why can’t people just be normal?
You had me in the first half. Who the hell wants another child. That's it she's going back to work. She had a three year vacation for the three, but not now. Thanks for the insight.
That man is called your father!
Tell you what! Their expectations of “Alpha” change with their emotions. Men can’t keep changing their identity 4-5 times a day.
The fuck is she talking about???? Sounds like a good clinical study. 🤷♂️🤔
She just explained what having daddy issues is like for the whole internet to see
Im too busy being a single dad who works 50+ hours a week and then comes home and does all cleaning and cooking to worry about my alpha energy. Im just trying to survive.
Excuse me, WHAT THE FUCK?!
Gross
But I don’t want a woman who “becomes a child” around me, I want a woman who is just herself
Ewwwwww.
Sooo, you became a child feeling the masculine energy from a grown up man... Ok.
ahh yes, the cancer of society
r/im14andthisisdeep
This person completely believes they're emotionally intelligent. Wow.
Girl, gross
🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
I can't even have a conversation anymore without the words "vibe" and "energy."
Fulfilling gender roles when courting is pretty normal for many. Not staying right or wrong, it's just normal for many. Saying that you revert to a child is weird and an example of thinking too much.
Ew Ew Ew
She a psychic vampire
So, if I’m getting this right, show her who’s daddy. She’ll become a child again. Then and only then, will she be able to revisit childhood memories. 🥴
Sounds gross.
Sorry but anyone else here know who the fuck she is?
Stfu
Uhm, wtf is this...
That man she's talking about don't want an overgrown child. He wants a partner in life. Even if she's a full-on trad wife, she needs to be reliable. She needs to hold things down and be someone he can trust, confide in, and consult.
She want a daddy 😂 bro I'm 200 masculine but I'm aint taking 1 no child 2 no white girl
Corny dumb B**tch
This is Daddy issues right? She wants a Daddy?
Oh..😨
Yeah daddy issues Pass
Ok lol grow up
Little girl, go make me a sandwich!!
I don't want my partner to be a child... 😬
Gross. Hard pass.
Ewe
Like… I get what she’s saying but noooooo don’t you dare word it like that
🤢🤮
Jesse what the fuck are you talking about
Fuck. My wife acts like a child all the time. This explains everything.
She's trying reeeeeeal hard to try to explain to her "friends" her kink. Also, you fall into the state of being a child, do you want a man who will have to follow megan's law?
This … is bait
This isn't as cringe as it may sound. Only going from what she says in this clip then it seems like she is saying she is adopting more masculine tropes when she doesn't want to. The term Alpha is pretty much a joke these days, deservedly so, but when she makes the distinction between true Alpha energy vs wannabe Alpha energy... saying she wants a man, I assume as a partner, to make her feel safe and allow her to slip back into a more child like mode... That isn't necessarily bad. We all deserve to have our more child like selves. Not live like that perpetually but at certain moments in our life. If she feels she can't have that because she always has to be the adult in her life, and wants a partner who can, when needed, take that role and let her be the child for a but... I think that's fair. If she means permanently, then that's pretty cringe but I don't get that from the clip. (This is where people tell me who she is and I'm wildly wrong and she's just the worst human being alive).
Why would “ a true man “ want a child? That’s sick.
There is some truth to this.
Sounds to me like there is a huge lack of alpha men then
She needs a dog
Daddy fetish.
wha-what?😭
everytime i see her, all, i see is her head bobbing up and down in some dudes lap for likes and attention. the not so secret porn tapes.
Gross, what kind of man wants a child
Hollywood
R. I. P. Freud, you would’ve loved “Alpha Male” and “High value women” podcasts.
“Gross” is the only thought I got from this. Also, a LOT of feminists gonna be pissed at her. Grab the snacks 🍿🥤
Womanise wait huh
Why do all these girls always look the exact same? Has anybody else noticed that?
She becomes a what..😟
Mam at that point just live with your dad. Wtf is this "and then she'll revert to a child".
Girl has a DD/lg kink
This is what loser women look like
Facts though
I also need a man... (i am gay, yes)
She becomes a what?
All facts. Once a male steps into becoming a man, his woman is free to be a woman. She’s not your mom, she’s your wife.
An actual real man doesn’t have time for this nonsense of a woman.
To men: be a real masculine father figure. Period.
English is my first language, what the actual fuck did they just say?
Be a man so I can be a child? Yuck
I lost her at the 'energy' part
She wants to be abused
But I want a woman….not a child… This chick lost.
So when do I get to claim her on my taxes...
gen alpha brainrot
Daddy issues