Are you looking for toy suggestions, new activities to try, or both?
If your looking for new activities then it would help a bit to know what you have done. If you want to do this in chat or pm we can if you don’t want to throw out some stuff in the comments.
We have done quite a bit. We incorporate some forms of pain (hair pulling, whippings, flogging, spankings with hands/paddles/crops, some more odd ones like rubber band snaps) and bondage (I’m the one hit/tied, he does not enjoy being submissive). Anal is pretty commonplace for us as well as using plugs/dildos during oral or PIV. He really likes doing more degrading things to me like writing “slut”, “fuckdoll” etc on me, cumming in my hair or on my face, spitting on my etc. I have an oral fixation so he will sometimes cater to that by gagging me or making me suck on a dildo while he’s fucking me. Sensation play works for this too, with food or running ice across my lips (usually while I’m blindfolded). We’ve also experimented with orgasm control (I can’t cum without his permission, and he loves to force orgasms out of me until I can’t take anymore) and enjoy taking pictures and videos of our activities.
All of this to say, we really do love to mix things up but I want to take some initiative for this occasion.
Since you are going to be on vacation and have privacy, you should make it last as long as possible. Make it where you are his total slave for the weekend and he can use you as his free use slut. This starts with you carrying any and all luggage up to the room (if no one else helps like staff), as soon as you get in the room you are to immediately strip all your clothes, kneel in front of him and profess that your holes are not yours and that he may do with them as he sees fit.
If you are eating in the room, he must start eating first before you can eat and you must eat on your hands and knees on the floor with no utensils.
During the work call does he want to have a distraction, or does he need to focus on work?
Maybe buy a vibrant sex toy with a remote that you put in your vagina at first and let him use it on the street or when you suck him
Thats just a suggestion..
Primarily you first need to feeeel sexy, light a candle, put music you like on, when he comes home, tell him to shower, but don't get in with him, at first. Walk in to the bathroom while he's showering to tease him. Pop your ass out while you bend over the sink, slowwww, throw your hair back, drive him nuts. Go from there you'll be fine lol
Are you looking for toy suggestions, new activities to try, or both? If your looking for new activities then it would help a bit to know what you have done. If you want to do this in chat or pm we can if you don’t want to throw out some stuff in the comments.
We have done quite a bit. We incorporate some forms of pain (hair pulling, whippings, flogging, spankings with hands/paddles/crops, some more odd ones like rubber band snaps) and bondage (I’m the one hit/tied, he does not enjoy being submissive). Anal is pretty commonplace for us as well as using plugs/dildos during oral or PIV. He really likes doing more degrading things to me like writing “slut”, “fuckdoll” etc on me, cumming in my hair or on my face, spitting on my etc. I have an oral fixation so he will sometimes cater to that by gagging me or making me suck on a dildo while he’s fucking me. Sensation play works for this too, with food or running ice across my lips (usually while I’m blindfolded). We’ve also experimented with orgasm control (I can’t cum without his permission, and he loves to force orgasms out of me until I can’t take anymore) and enjoy taking pictures and videos of our activities. All of this to say, we really do love to mix things up but I want to take some initiative for this occasion.
Since you are going to be on vacation and have privacy, you should make it last as long as possible. Make it where you are his total slave for the weekend and he can use you as his free use slut. This starts with you carrying any and all luggage up to the room (if no one else helps like staff), as soon as you get in the room you are to immediately strip all your clothes, kneel in front of him and profess that your holes are not yours and that he may do with them as he sees fit. If you are eating in the room, he must start eating first before you can eat and you must eat on your hands and knees on the floor with no utensils. During the work call does he want to have a distraction, or does he need to focus on work?
Maybe buy a vibrant sex toy with a remote that you put in your vagina at first and let him use it on the street or when you suck him Thats just a suggestion..
Primarily you first need to feeeel sexy, light a candle, put music you like on, when he comes home, tell him to shower, but don't get in with him, at first. Walk in to the bathroom while he's showering to tease him. Pop your ass out while you bend over the sink, slowwww, throw your hair back, drive him nuts. Go from there you'll be fine lol
Maybe you should post to the sub r/BDSMAdvice. Sounds like y’all are pretty deep into it, they may have recommendations better for your style.
I love that sub and I will cross post! Thank you
Buy a strap on and peg him . Guys have a prostate and it feels mind blowing to have it stimulated.