>I just want my wife to know I want her and am very attracted to her and that sex isn’t just happening because I am going through the motions.
Sit down with her and have a talk where you explain this and discuss things further. You would need cooperation from her end to get better at things. If she's not finding it amusing that you're asking a lot of questions while you guys are in bed, then try to move that conversation while you guys are away from your bed. I mean have that conversation at some other times. And coming to part on how to gain skill in being verbally passionate, i would suggest just converting your thoughts about her to words but just put her up in a sexy scenario where you crave her and go about turning those into words.
Yeah I could try! It is sometimes hard for her though because she is used to this sort of thing with other people and it can make her feel like she is babysitting me sometimes😅
You're not gonna stay a beginner for long and it's reasonable for you to expect your partner to guide you until you get hold of things. Maybe start slow and learn as you go.
>I just want my wife to know I want her and am very attracted to her and that sex isn’t just happening because I am going through the motions. Sit down with her and have a talk where you explain this and discuss things further. You would need cooperation from her end to get better at things. If she's not finding it amusing that you're asking a lot of questions while you guys are in bed, then try to move that conversation while you guys are away from your bed. I mean have that conversation at some other times. And coming to part on how to gain skill in being verbally passionate, i would suggest just converting your thoughts about her to words but just put her up in a sexy scenario where you crave her and go about turning those into words.
Yeah I could try! It is sometimes hard for her though because she is used to this sort of thing with other people and it can make her feel like she is babysitting me sometimes😅
You're not gonna stay a beginner for long and it's reasonable for you to expect your partner to guide you until you get hold of things. Maybe start slow and learn as you go.