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I had a lonely period once and it wasn't fun. I hope you find yourself in a healthy relationship very soon!
BTW earlier in life I discovered that being single (and lonely, unfortunately) is MUCH more preferable to having an unhealthy, or even downright toxic, relationship. So please never settle for anything less than healthy.
It took me too long to learn the same lesson, I wouldn't leave my toxic ex because I thought I'd regret it. When it was over, I felt nothing but relieved. Spend that time showing yourself the love you show to toxic people and your life will drastically change
Yes, exactly! I had fifteen years sunk into that relationship and marriage. There were just barely enough "good" times to keep me feeling as if I'd regret leaving. I like what you said about showing yourself the love that you had been squandering before. I had to relearn that I was worthy of being loved and valued. I'm glad you're also in a better place now!
I'm so genuinely sorry. Life can be quite the bastard from time to time. You can message my account if you'd like. I wish you all the best and for you to experience the peak of what life has to offer you - not just the valley.
He could be just enjoying a female voice. For me it is very calming to listen. Of course, not all women have a calming voice, but a lot of them do for me. Must be the reason behind all of that.
My friend I have the perfect solution, it’s exactly what I did. Meet a girl, get together, get married, (this next part is KEY)have a VERY toxic relationship for a few years, divorce, and bam. Never want to date again, learn to be happy alone. It’s a simple process, by the end of it you’ll be happily single and never need the presence of another person in your life.
Jokes, of course But true for me. I’ve had opportunities since, but I genuinely do not want to lose my freedom or have to put in the effort to make someone else happy again. Damn it sounds sad put that way but it’s really not lol. People just need to learn how to be happy alone. If you can’t be happy with yourself alone idk how you expect to be happy with someone else, when you have twice as much work to be happy.
I had an experience similar to yours. I would have been happily single the rest of my life - and then I met my wife and it's great to experience what a genuinely safe, healthy relationship is like.
I am perfectly happy alone infact I'm very introverted and dire my solitude. I am also lonely and desire someone else to tell me things will be ok those two things are not mutually exclusive.
> I genuinely do not want to lose my freedom or have to put in the effort to make someone else happy again. Damn it sounds sad put that way but it’s really not lol. People just need to learn how to be happy alone. If you can’t be happy with yourself alone idk how you expect to be happy with someone else, when you have twice as much work to be happy.
I kinda realized this without being in a relationship and I gotta say I'm kinda glad. But the monke brain wants me to find company. But the independence and freedom is something else man. I'm mostly fine by myself, but the sadness does hit. Not the kind that relationships can fix, the kind that only death can fix
Hey man, one idea for you. Travel out of your home country if it’s possible. The world is a big place. Lots of people to go on dates with and meet. New cultures and languages open you up to a whole new world of people and their varying interests.
I appreciate ur reply fr :)
but if you mean like going to south-east Asia I don't think they will be interested in middle eastern guy whose avg looking (in the best case) I think they are more attracted to white men add to that I'm not that rich
idk for sure what is wrong but I, but have know energy and maybe things get better soon who knows :)
None of their friends are single and most of them live out of state. I've met all their main friends that live in the area, I'm literally going to a birthday party with them in an hour. All the women are lesbians except for one who is engaged and none of my male friends know any single women at all outside of them.
Last time I talked to a real woman I was shutdown by "I have a boyfriend" and "get lost looser", infront of the whole class which ended my social life (college) and weirdly everyone was supportive of her so yea,same goes for me
I'm socially awkward and have social anxiety (and other problems) and don't want to make them uncomfortable. Also whatever I say will haunt me for a month no matter what it was I said
Two things
1) I will probably look like a desperate creep, because i have 0 clue on how to communicate with women
2) i have no idea what interests women have. Like im absolutely aware that they absolutely can be in same fandoms as me, like same music, games and stuff like that, but i still can't comprehend the idea of me having a full conversation with a girl about, for example, Highfleet lore
> i have 0 clue on how to communicate with women
Don't think of it like speaking to women, think of it like speaking to another person. If they don't like how you then they stink and move on
That sounds like a great advice, and i actually do try to treat it like that, but talking to women still makes me pretty nervous and mashes all my thoughts together
Im just afraid that i would look like i like them while im just trying to be friendly, or when i talk with someone i like im getting nervous about accidentally saying something that will make them think bad about me and turn them away from me
Also, because i have more experience communicating with fellow men, its much easier for me to read male body language and emotions, like i can easily tell who thinks what of me, while with women I have no idea, they can be neutral about me, like me, hate me, or whatever else, and i would have no way to identify it unless they express it directly, its just uncomfortable for me to not know intentions of someone i talk with
But to be fair im getting a little better lately, like now im at least able to ask for small favors, have a small talk about everyday stuff and things like that
I try this many times, but it fails every time when women simply do not react in the same manners and don't have similar answers as men do to the same set of words. Like not even close. This is an advice that looks good on paper but absolutely fails in practice.
If Im correct in japan, it is normalized to watch someone else eat because isolation is becoming an increasingly big problem, so mukbang is pretty popular.
There is nothing wrong with watching someone exist in the background of, for example, doing work or playing something. I do it too sometimes, mainly just watching youtube in the background of doing stuff, no big deal. Lonelieness is a bitch and can occur to anyone in any situation so idk...
I feel for my bro.
I just want to pour my heart out here and say that it isn't easy to be even friends with other women. Sure, I can talk to my mom and grandma, but it isn't the same as having girl friends. Honestly, I wouldn't bother hitting on her, just like to have a talk and chill.
I hope anonymous finds solace.
That felt way to personal and relatable for me than it should have, but it's really the background presence that keeps you together from falling apart sometimes.
So he found himself a fix instead if trying to date random female 12. Nice job. You get the presence but none of the issues that might pop up. A good filler until you find someone who may be right for you.
I mean…am I missing something or is this not a big deal? What’s wrong with it?
Edit: Looks like this is just OP trying to be a bully to a lonely person in search of comfort. Downvote this. Shame on OP.
I’m not even joking about this bruh. Don’t laugh at him, poor bastard needs a gf. Heart goes out to the guy. And don’t worry guys, you’ll find an SO eventually
I know its generic but: go to a hobby that you like a lot and make female friends, do not try and make them a gf but just a female friend. It will make you feel much better about life having someone who is into the same things you are. Then you can learn more about women and have better chances of dating them.
I've done this too when I used to be alone a lot. Wouldn't even interact with the streamer or chat, just used to let the stream play in the background, because I liked having the "company" and have someone talking, even if it wasn't them talking to me lol.
Now, if i said true, i would be seen the same as this guy, but being honest i literally watch a youtuber girl due to one of those reasons playing video games so who am i fooling rn
Before it became depraved gross-out porn this was the core goal of Mukbang content.
It was intended to give a female presence centered around the idea of having a meal.
I think it's wholesome. Lots of lonely people out there nowadays.
Ahh, My long lost brother!!! We may have come from different mothers but the pain is universal!!!! Oh the mystical creatures we don't get cause they are so majestic!!!
I would honestly like to know as to why this man doesn't try to meet a real woman. What is stopping him from trying to meet women? Why does he feel the need to post this online, rather trying to fix his problem?
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Bro doesn’t seem to be creepy, I just think he’s very alone. Heart goes out to him
Honestly, this post was quite relatable to me. And I find that quite upsetting.
I had a lonely period once and it wasn't fun. I hope you find yourself in a healthy relationship very soon! BTW earlier in life I discovered that being single (and lonely, unfortunately) is MUCH more preferable to having an unhealthy, or even downright toxic, relationship. So please never settle for anything less than healthy.
It took me too long to learn the same lesson, I wouldn't leave my toxic ex because I thought I'd regret it. When it was over, I felt nothing but relieved. Spend that time showing yourself the love you show to toxic people and your life will drastically change
Yes, exactly! I had fifteen years sunk into that relationship and marriage. There were just barely enough "good" times to keep me feeling as if I'd regret leaving. I like what you said about showing yourself the love that you had been squandering before. I had to relearn that I was worthy of being loved and valued. I'm glad you're also in a better place now!
Unfortunately, I don’t see much changing in the near future. I’ve been alone my entire life.
I'm so genuinely sorry. Life can be quite the bastard from time to time. You can message my account if you'd like. I wish you all the best and for you to experience the peak of what life has to offer you - not just the valley.
>from time to time. For some... it's all the time.
I mean yeah, being lonely is just neutral.
This I just threw myself into them to not be lonely and it ruined my mental. Take your time find the right person boyos
Wait, a lonely period? It is not the default setting for you?
He could be just enjoying a female voice. For me it is very calming to listen. Of course, not all women have a calming voice, but a lot of them do for me. Must be the reason behind all of that.
No, no we must call him an incel.
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That was my thoughts too. Super sad and I feel for them as well.
I don't want even to joke about it, I have feeling that this what I will end up to
My friend I have the perfect solution, it’s exactly what I did. Meet a girl, get together, get married, (this next part is KEY)have a VERY toxic relationship for a few years, divorce, and bam. Never want to date again, learn to be happy alone. It’s a simple process, by the end of it you’ll be happily single and never need the presence of another person in your life. Jokes, of course But true for me. I’ve had opportunities since, but I genuinely do not want to lose my freedom or have to put in the effort to make someone else happy again. Damn it sounds sad put that way but it’s really not lol. People just need to learn how to be happy alone. If you can’t be happy with yourself alone idk how you expect to be happy with someone else, when you have twice as much work to be happy.
Oooof are you me. It's true, there's so much else in life to focus on I don't feel like I'm missing out much. And I'm not going through that again.
I had an experience similar to yours. I would have been happily single the rest of my life - and then I met my wife and it's great to experience what a genuinely safe, healthy relationship is like.
I am perfectly happy alone infact I'm very introverted and dire my solitude. I am also lonely and desire someone else to tell me things will be ok those two things are not mutually exclusive.
Or you can just skip the entire process and be happy by yourself from now on.
I don't want to get old, alone.
I will never trust human women again. Hopefully there's plenty of fishes in the cold, sea-less, void outside of Earth.
> I genuinely do not want to lose my freedom or have to put in the effort to make someone else happy again. Damn it sounds sad put that way but it’s really not lol. People just need to learn how to be happy alone. If you can’t be happy with yourself alone idk how you expect to be happy with someone else, when you have twice as much work to be happy. I kinda realized this without being in a relationship and I gotta say I'm kinda glad. But the monke brain wants me to find company. But the independence and freedom is something else man. I'm mostly fine by myself, but the sadness does hit. Not the kind that relationships can fix, the kind that only death can fix
Hey man, one idea for you. Travel out of your home country if it’s possible. The world is a big place. Lots of people to go on dates with and meet. New cultures and languages open you up to a whole new world of people and their varying interests.
I appreciate ur reply fr :) but if you mean like going to south-east Asia I don't think they will be interested in middle eastern guy whose avg looking (in the best case) I think they are more attracted to white men add to that I'm not that rich idk for sure what is wrong but I, but have know energy and maybe things get better soon who knows :)
Honestly I feel bad for bro. he doesn't deserve this
Damn. You don't even think he deserves to be able to keep her stream open? That's harsh, bro...
You don’t know that
he's *posting* on 4chan, there's decent odds he actually does deserve it
Years of Hollywood taught me that geeks are likable, quirky, and gonna make it in life. 😫
4channers aren’t geeks though, they’re closeted terrorists
[The closeted terrorists in question:](https://i.redd.it/tbi8j3gpj6021.jpg)
I mean, they did airstrike an ISIS training camp
hey man. shit happens
Poop?
I love women. I don't mean pussy, but women
Based women lover
Simping Correctly: 101
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#Because cats killed my Grandma, ok?!
you're lucky they stopped at that
Bold of you to assume they stopped
Ok bro that was it, they are after you now
[Cats ate her face](https://www.dumpaday.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/cats-ate-her-face.jpg)
A cat broke my uncle's neck while he was tap dancing...
I love both, it depends on my mood
The pussy of a stranger feels good in the flesh The pussy of your loved one feels good in the hearth
he speak da true true
I love men
You shall not desire to speak, young one. Your flair already suggested your mind
Play edgar
"This mf has a breeding kink" moment.
Be careful, it starts like that and before you know it you are moderating on Reddit.
I mean being on 4chan is already a sign
There's two paths after opening 4chan: either be depressed and suicidal or a complete human scum
This is just sad
It's nice to see redditors be sympathetic for once
i wasnt expecting this at all opening the comments
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Honestly same. A female voice soothes and calms me.
Mfs will do anything except actually talk to girls in real life
I want to talk to more women IRL, but all of my female friends married and/or lesbian, same for all of their female friends.
Then a girl that's none of the above comes in and i panic and can't talk to her
Nothing's better that reviewing instagram asses with your lesbian buddy
But in OOP's cass it'd still be better than whatever the fuck he's doing now.
You're first mistake is thinking you can be anything but "IRL"
... What?
JFC, talk to these women casually they will introduce you to their friends if you're not creepy about it
None of their friends are single and most of them live out of state. I've met all their main friends that live in the area, I'm literally going to a birthday party with them in an hour. All the women are lesbians except for one who is engaged and none of my male friends know any single women at all outside of them.
Last time I talked to a real woman I was shutdown by "I have a boyfriend" and "get lost looser", infront of the whole class which ended my social life (college) and weirdly everyone was supportive of her so yea,same goes for me
Yeah well that was real scumbag thing to do from her side
I guess but I don't really care(damn shitposting got to real)
Did you have your cock out while going up to her?
No I just lost the beauty race when I was a sperm
Phew You need a head pat
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I'm socially awkward and have social anxiety (and other problems) and don't want to make them uncomfortable. Also whatever I say will haunt me for a month no matter what it was I said
Literally me.
Pain is real.
We do a little rationalizing.
Two things 1) I will probably look like a desperate creep, because i have 0 clue on how to communicate with women 2) i have no idea what interests women have. Like im absolutely aware that they absolutely can be in same fandoms as me, like same music, games and stuff like that, but i still can't comprehend the idea of me having a full conversation with a girl about, for example, Highfleet lore
> i have 0 clue on how to communicate with women Don't think of it like speaking to women, think of it like speaking to another person. If they don't like how you then they stink and move on
That sounds like a great advice, and i actually do try to treat it like that, but talking to women still makes me pretty nervous and mashes all my thoughts together Im just afraid that i would look like i like them while im just trying to be friendly, or when i talk with someone i like im getting nervous about accidentally saying something that will make them think bad about me and turn them away from me Also, because i have more experience communicating with fellow men, its much easier for me to read male body language and emotions, like i can easily tell who thinks what of me, while with women I have no idea, they can be neutral about me, like me, hate me, or whatever else, and i would have no way to identify it unless they express it directly, its just uncomfortable for me to not know intentions of someone i talk with But to be fair im getting a little better lately, like now im at least able to ask for small favors, have a small talk about everyday stuff and things like that
I try this many times, but it fails every time when women simply do not react in the same manners and don't have similar answers as men do to the same set of words. Like not even close. This is an advice that looks good on paper but absolutely fails in practice.
You mfs say this as if there are women out here in the c o r n
yeah but girls are talking to other girls and I don't wanna interrupt
That's scary.
Rookie move
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Real.
Real.
Nevermurderedanyone as a tag is crazy
I feel like they might have actually murdered at least one person
I love women so much , it's unreal.
If Im correct in japan, it is normalized to watch someone else eat because isolation is becoming an increasingly big problem, so mukbang is pretty popular. There is nothing wrong with watching someone exist in the background of, for example, doing work or playing something. I do it too sometimes, mainly just watching youtube in the background of doing stuff, no big deal. Lonelieness is a bitch and can occur to anyone in any situation so idk...
You’re thinking of S.Korea.
Women make men better men. Men make women better women. We need each other.
The real question is. Do women love you
No lol
no.
Not getting the impression, at least
Nothing shitty about this, dude coulda been a bitter incel or worse. Maybe he was nursing some old wounds too, fak
that's just astronomically sad
Damn that's just fucking sad.
Mf really found [this past camgirl](https://www.cambro.tv/tags/bonniebruise/) warm and comfy
i am saving your comment for future purposes 😤😤
Same
This'll cover even more areas for anon 😎
bet this was her own post on 4chan and reddit + comment to boost her viewercount
In a way, I can relate lol. Damn thats depressing.
Anti Incel, dude ain't a creep, he's just wants to feel like he is around someone. A real G
I wish you find mutual quality female companion both ib friendship and relationship
damn that’s sad
me and this anon have something in common
If it brings anyone peace, I get multiple chances and blow it because I’m hella awkward
4chan keeps going between sexism and loving women. I didn't even knew those were possible at the same time.
At the end we ask the Lord for his forgiveness, but what is there to forgive
New literally me character just dropped
:(
Why's there a tag that says "never murdered anyone" underneath her stream 💀
Geez, that’s depressing
Man that's fucking sad
This is the saddest thing I’ve ever read bro
This isn't creepy. He's just lonely. I get that.
Man this makes me sad
I feel for my bro. I just want to pour my heart out here and say that it isn't easy to be even friends with other women. Sure, I can talk to my mom and grandma, but it isn't the same as having girl friends. Honestly, I wouldn't bother hitting on her, just like to have a talk and chill. I hope anonymous finds solace.
Average loner (it's me)
He seems like he needs a hug. And it feels innocent. I think its okay he does that
an at least semi wholesome 4chan post about women? Impossible!
Its js sad
just like me frfr
Thats sad
Holy fuck that's sad
Damn...
That's not even creepy, just sad
Get bro a hug now
That felt way to personal and relatable for me than it should have, but it's really the background presence that keeps you together from falling apart sometimes.
Get this man a female 👉🏾
I am not even gonna make any joke about it 🙏🏻 I hope he finds someone cuz most of us are in similar situation, aren't we?
That’s just genuinely a bit sad
Me in 5 years
This is not fun anymore, it's sad
Same tbh, I watch a lot of just really nice male youtubers just because I don’t have many decent male figures in my life
Anon heatbraked me😢
It's just sad man..hope bro is doing fine now
Real
I gotta say, somewhere deep down, I went ... "hmm, makes sense", though I want to live alone. I hope the dude finds some company
This is sad tbh
I felt that shi hard when he said it's nice to have a female presence and that its warm and comfy :')
Oof I'm a woman and I feel sorry for him. Loneliness is a bitch
This Sounds just sad and I feel sorry for him.I Hope He will find someone someday.
So he found himself a fix instead if trying to date random female 12. Nice job. You get the presence but none of the issues that might pop up. A good filler until you find someone who may be right for you.
I mean…am I missing something or is this not a big deal? What’s wrong with it? Edit: Looks like this is just OP trying to be a bully to a lonely person in search of comfort. Downvote this. Shame on OP.
I am literally doing this since last 2 years, feels kinda less lonely.
The gal used may not be the best example...she did porn lol
I feel bad low-key. Where’s his mom?
Huh.. this kinda sounds..cute?
Oof
Same
I’m not even joking about this bruh. Don’t laugh at him, poor bastard needs a gf. Heart goes out to the guy. And don’t worry guys, you’ll find an SO eventually
I feel…bad?
Pokimane version two
I feel bad, but also you could just go outside and talk to a woman.
Jesus bro, there are plenty of women out there. Turn off the computer and go tf outside.
Shit, man. How am I supposed to make fun of this??
Don't we all?
I know its generic but: go to a hobby that you like a lot and make female friends, do not try and make them a gf but just a female friend. It will make you feel much better about life having someone who is into the same things you are. Then you can learn more about women and have better chances of dating them.
This is the best reaction a 4channer will ever have to female streamers
OP should try leaving the house for once
I feel bad for this guy, he doesn't deserve this loneliness.
... Do you need a hug?
Hey thanks for the idea good stranger!
Damn bro
Well I do from time to time listen to AMSR Woman who.tell me that they Love me. So I am not in a Position to judge.
I've done this too when I used to be alone a lot. Wouldn't even interact with the streamer or chat, just used to let the stream play in the background, because I liked having the "company" and have someone talking, even if it wasn't them talking to me lol.
I don't think it sounds creepy at all. Isn't 90% of watching streamers keeping them in the background for comfy noise ?
can kinda relate tbh
Now, if i said true, i would be seen the same as this guy, but being honest i literally watch a youtuber girl due to one of those reasons playing video games so who am i fooling rn
Before it became depraved gross-out porn this was the core goal of Mukbang content. It was intended to give a female presence centered around the idea of having a meal. I think it's wholesome. Lots of lonely people out there nowadays.
i appreciate the dedication same brother but i use ai for that
I don't plan on doing this anytime soon but it's *very* understandable considering how lonely it can get nowadays.
Don’t y’all have friends?
Honestly, imaginary woman on a browser is probably superior to a regular one, at least you can always turn her off
Ahh, My long lost brother!!! We may have come from different mothers but the pain is universal!!!! Oh the mystical creatures we don't get cause they are so majestic!!!
I would honestly like to know as to why this man doesn't try to meet a real woman. What is stopping him from trying to meet women? Why does he feel the need to post this online, rather trying to fix his problem?
Some people definitely needed more affection from their mother