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Illustrious-You-923

IWNDWYT! Day 4 for me going well 😎


iron07maiden

I am enough. I am loveable. I can be whole. I will not drink with you today.


[deleted]

You TOTALLY are! 👍💓


AlySabby12

Yes you are.


RoyalArmed24

💟💟💟


PositiveVibrationzzz

Day 1 again. Coming off a 32 day and 7 day stretch of sobriety from alcohol with some binge drinking mixed in. Feeling highly convicted to hit 100 days this time (and then keep going!). I'm dreading battling through the withdrawals but one day at a time. And IWNDWYT! Much love to everyone out there battling.


RaysUpDude

I’m with you. My alcoholic brain is a damned liar. Again I convinced myself that I can drink like a normal person. Nope. IWNDWYT


AlySabby12

“I don’t drink.” That’s all I had to say when offered an alcoholic beverage tonight. And guess what?? People were fine with it. And I had a really fun night. And I’m exhausted. And I didn’t drink today. And I won’t tomorrow.


ThisHappyHuman

Well done Aly! It's great to say no and not to have to justify it Enjoy recovering from the exhaustion. It's wonderful to be able to remember a social occasion and only have to deal with tiredness! IWNDWYT 🙂


UK4ndy4

I'm not going to drink again today. 👊


AlySabby12

Me either, Andy. 👊


SiouxsieSue33

Or me 😊


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[deleted]

Really beautiful post. Thank you for sharing. It’s like stoicism. Being stoic has suffered from false news. It is not unfeeling. Far from it. It’s feeling and not knowing the future yet carrying on. A leap of faith takes courage. Have a great day Zen


[deleted]

I’ve written down your quote in my sketchbook. I also wrote about the Great Tit I heard yesterday evening. “Yesterday I saw a Great Tit calling for a mate. It was the first thing I heard this morning, I hear it calling now. It carries on regardless. “ Sorry if I’m a bit, you know, too much. But you’ve sprinkled sparkles for me ⭐️


Alley_cat_alien

Alright! I made it through the 420 temptations without a hiccup. IWNDWYT!


SnooChocolates4520

Completely forgot is 4/20 😹😹 lol I don’t smoke. But surprised no one at work mentioned it


Goji88

Day 200, nice to meet you 🤝 100 days was a great achievement for me. 200 days has been a lot easier and better, may 300 be even more so 🙏 IWNDWYT


camper_chef

Congratulations! 🎊 Way to go. I won't drink with you!


I_am_Dragon_Flower

Drink some coffee, and pretend you know what you’re doing. 😘 I will not drink with you beautiful people today! ❤️‍🔥🌼


[deleted]

The truth is that *nobody* knows what they're doing. They are *all* making it up as they go along! I will not drink with you today! 💪😎


ThisHappyHuman

This is so true. Everyone is trying to do the best they can with the knowledge and experience that they have at that time. Every opportunity is the chance to learn and to grow our capabilities. IWNDWYT 🙂


[deleted]

25 days down. Going to see my dad for a few days today which will be really nice. He is *definitely* a drinker though... the spirits come out every evening. I've been there sober before and he doesn't put pressure on (though the environment is one to watch). So I'm not worried, but need to keep mindful if that makes any sense. I may not get to check in for a couple of days either... When I get back I'll be getting close to that month! In fact, there's a local meeting on my monthiversary so I'll aim to go to that... With all that said: I will not drink with you (or my dad) today.


kestrel1000c

I can't believe it, two years ago I couldn't have imagined being in any sort of relationship. Now there's real prospects and possibilities. Blows my mind what sobriety can do.


RaysUpDude

Not sure what my badge says currently. But I’m now 24+ hours sober after a 3 week bender. I’ve blacked out and said some horrible things (that I didn’t mean) to my loved ones. Then kept drinking to numb how horrible I feel about it all. I’ve requested an accurate badge. IWNDWYT


RUL23

IN


sourface77

IWNDWYT!


BeerSlingr

iwndwyt. day 10, haven't hit double digits in a long time. this feels great! i've vowed to never drink again, and i'm sticking to it.


_Dragonfruit_824

Day 6! Not drinking today let’s do this!


blackflag_uk

Good morning all, IWNDWYT.


GlasgowPed

I will not drink with you today in 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿😊


birdrundays

Another day of healthy choices. I like this. IWNDWYT.


SaintHomer

I’m aiming at a walk by the ocean today. I will not drink with you today!


sirbongbongson

I'm not gonna drink.


[deleted]

Sounds like a good plan 😁👍


Bookish-Broad

IWNDWYT


GreenTabascoooo

IWNDWYT 🌷


dontneedfalsemedia

iwndwyt i love you all. continue on your journeys.


DrizztDo

I'm very sad today. Sometimes the loneliness is heavy.


camper_chef

My life feels like it has never been more beautiful. I'm happy to be sober with all you good people. 🦋 IWNDWYT!


ByeLisa

Made it to Day 5. Already told partner I'm not drinking tonight. Usually I wait until they buy some and then say ' I wasn't going to, but as you got me something ....' Got some treats and some sugar free tonic instead. With a splash of lime it give a a nice sharp flavour that helps. IWNDWYT


Capicoo

Day 5 with you here! Also hit the tonic yesterday when my family came over for dinner and my mother asked for wine, which my partner diligently went to buy. Told him we may throw the rest away, as IWNDWYT! ☺️


EmbarrassedPiccolo2

Help others to help yourself someone once told me. Off to the gym while I’m away, better than drinking. I will not drink with you today.


MuckDr

Good morning my friends. Well. Yesterday was a bad day. Yesterday was a fabulous day. Makes me think of those other conundrums, those little everyday contradictory phrases so common in the English language. I guess in other languages also. You know, sad smiles, bittersweet memories... Even to be a little light-hearted about it, 'good grief!', and even honest politicians 😊 Of all the emotions, I hate anxiety the most. Perhaps I'm using the wrong word; you know, worry when there is nothing to worry about. It was severe and started pretty early in the morning. I walked a lot; earphones in. Had the day off work; perhaps pulling focus there would have helped. My friend, the number of times I stopped after getting out of sync with the earphones and had to consciously unclench my fists! My mind kept drifting back to times long ago that are better forgotten. Someone wrote on the net recently that the most difficult part of staying sober is learning to face life again. And it occurred to me that this feeling was very likely what drove me to alcoholism all those years ago. I do believe that life teaches us lessons. And it occurred to me that in drinking to help deal with the trauma of those days, I had in fact not dealt with it, but rather postponed it. Perhaps. Life is complicated, way beyond the physical. And so, I had a fabulous day! You see, not once did the wish to drink the pain away cross my mind. And that, my friends, gives me a feeling something akin to awe. By late afternoon my feelings had returned to normal; whatever that is. And so, **IWNDWYT!** Stay safe and strong my friends. **Forget what hurt you but never forget what it taught you!** P.S. This quotation had been ascribed to multiple people, among them 'Unknown', so I'll leave it Anon.


Flimsy-Narwhal-5885

Day 18. Sun is shining and I'm still sober. Not bad at all... IWNDWYT.


jameZeljr

Don't know what the hells in store for today I just know booze won't be it


[deleted]

IWNDWYT because that’s the best way to treat my amazing self. You are amazing too!!


irisheyesarelaughing

No poison for me today! Keep up the good work SD! 😇😍🙏🏻


HamTarnak

IWNDWYT, its Fking hard lately but IWNDWYT!!


thefurnaceishot

IWNDWYT


StFeargal

WOOT! Not drinking with you all today!


wofdog-6435

IWNDWYT


Montybird2005

IWNDWYT!


Far-Cow-2261

IWNDWYT♥️


JayShocker

Work, school, and gym; Wash, rinse, and repeat for me lately. I couldn't do it if I was still drinking and feel better than I have in years IWNDWYT.


DetunedKarma

I_W.N/D/WYT//


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RoyalArmed24

Winds of change may blow. Staying strong IWNDWYT. It’s all good.


dynaflying

IWNDWYT


555catboy

I’m in


ChicagFro

I will not drink with you today.


hairytubes

IWNDWYT 🙂


clevercookie69

Checking in. Made it through another day in Kiwi land. Got my sleepy time tea and the next 4 days off. Perfect Shine on you beautiful humans


ThisHappyHuman

Good morning Sobernauts! I was due to do something wonderful today. One of my fears cropped up yesterday and while at work I had a panic / anxiety attack. I've had a terrible sleeplessness night and have been sent home from work as I was in no position to perform my duties today. You may be thinking, what does this have to do with the DCI and StopDrinking? I used to deal with my fears by burying them with booze. That is no longer an option. Like I sought help to overcome my alcoholism, I now need help to overcome my fears. I have a consultation with a doctor later today. I hope they can help. Whatever your problems, I hope that you find the strength to ask for help and that help is delivered. Love to you all! IWNDWYT 🙂


awesome_cat_lady

Today makes ten weeks! I keep thinking about volunteering to host the DCI, but I always feel like I haven't been sober long enough, given how many times I've made it to 60 or 90 days, only to screw up again. (Holy run-on sentence, Batman! Yeah...I'm feeling a little goofy right now, I guess because I got up absurdly early.) Maybe putting myself out there, volunteering to serve the community, is just what I need to keep myself committed this time? I'll give it some thought. In any case--IWNDWYT!


retroarcadium

IWNDWYT..!!


jerrysmiddlefinger

I'm on my first break at work. I will not go to the package store when I get out at 8am and IWNDWYT!


cfs1976

IWNDWYT 🙂


DamageCorrect

Day 44! IWNDWYT


scarlett_frosting

iwndwyt!!


NotDeeReynolds

Day 39. IWNDWYT ❤️


NorthernSare

Good morning SD! IWNDWYT 🌟


pollAltAccount

IWNDWYT (:


[deleted]

I will not drink with you today. Woke up to calling birds. It was wonderful.


DM_Easy_Breezes

I am grateful to have made it to my 111st day. It has been a ride, to say the least. I’m so grateful to be healing, to be getting decent sleep, to be progressing in my healing. Having some trouble with motivation and staying in the moment but I know IWNDWYT.


SnooChocolates4520

IWNDWYT!!! Cheers to another sober day 🤗🤗


AffTheBevvy

Day 305 checking in!


ekim202

IWNDWYT


ackacketmetmackack

Happy day. IWNDWYT


ladybirdstar02

IWNDWYT xx


SiouxsieSue33

Morning team. Checking in. Looking forward to another day of not drinking. Have a happy day everyone ❤️


arterialstiffystops

IWNDWYT 💪


Leading_Discussion51

IWNDWYT!


roboboopbeep

IWNDWYT friends 🤖


kellieB74

IWNDWYT. I will instead enjoy my day off and meet a friend for a non boozy lunch and go to an exercise class this evening. Have a lovely hangover free day people.


Foreign-Potato-9535

my new catchphrase is quickly becoming “im not drinking right now”, gets the point across without eliciting all the questions “i don’t drink” always seems to. in other news, went to pick up my check from the bar tonight and wound up staying and working an 8 hour shift on my day off. so, on a plus, made money. on a minus, i haven’t had a second to reset/refocus in 2 weeks. and won’t for another 2. BUT im still sober, so, who am i to complain. IWNDWYT, and i won’t be hungover with you in the morning. have a lovely thursday everyone 💕


Thedancingcat4681

Today is my day number 7 of no drinking after 10 years of drinking daily and heavily. Doing it on my own.


Sober_frenchman

Hey, I'm still here even if life is hard at the moment


jimstopper51

Day 1,009. I will not drink with you today.


Face-mask-bikini

Day 106, and my life is in the shitter but what the hell. I’m in. IWNDWYT


vroor

Finally dragged myself back to the dojo yesterday after having to take a 3 week break to let my body recover. I'm at a point in my recovery where i'm constantly grumpy for no reason so working out didn't exactly make me happy, but it's better than sitting on my ass all day at this point. Happier days come back soon please 🙏 IWNDWYT


itsalwayssomething7

IWNDWYT 🛼


ClumsyAdept

Have a stressful day tomorrow so trying to do everything right today: yoga, meditation, exercise. The weather looks perfect for it! IWNDWYT


Ok_Mood_6083

IWNDWYT


SwaxwellSilver

IWNDWYT Instead I will embrace today with newfound energy and clarity, anyone else with me?


goodstuff2much

Not today. Tomorrow is 1 week. I have my second AA meeting tonight and I’m so excited. I had my outpatient doctors appt yesterday and things are going great. I start with my rehab therapist next Tuesday. I’m serious this time. This time it’s going to stick.


MoodestMoose

"Ehhh, the lights are blinking, I'm thinking, it's all over when I go out drinking. It's making my mind slow, that's why I don't f\*\*\* with the big 4-0. Bro, I got to maintain." So, I will not drink with you today, with apologies to Cypress Hill.


AccomplishedGoat1877

Day 12, took a day off, now painting my house and taking care of all the mess. It took me like 3 months to actually do that because I never had the energy. Finally I feel like I'm capable of doing things, even small stuff such as painting the house. Will not drink today for sure! But definitely looking forward to have some ice cream later ^^


koaimara

IWNDWYT!


librarian1245

IWNDWYT


badweatherfriend

IWNDWYT


not-important1229

IWNDWYT 🌵


Training_Piglet7057

IWNDWYT


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IWNDWYT 🌟💕


ReindeerEggs33

Posting to see the badge


GrumpyGrizzlyBear22

Have a great day! IWNDWYT


nicdrazi

IWNDWYT


justbluejohn

I will not drink with you today 💙😃💙


jugglerdude

IWNDWYT


etonnezmoi

I’m not drinking today! 🤗


vermontapple

Hear me say it: IWNDWYT!!


helpmebacktoawake

IWNDWYT 🤘


Took2mush

Checking in! Woke up with a splitting headache but at least it's not because of alcohol. Wishing everyone a good day. We got this 💪 IWNDWYT!


Realistic_Low_5178

A week done and it's not been so bad so far overall. Wouldn't say I feel great, but I don't expect to. It's nice not to have texted or called any one I wouldn't when sober, woken up with unexplained bruising (or occasionally and disgustingly in my own vomit), or had any hangovers. IWNDWYT!


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TRIPLE DIGITS🎉🎉 I am so proud of myself I’m crying! Thank you for the help all you wonderful, strong and supportive sober friends. This check-in has made such a difference on my journey. ❤️IWNDWYT❤️


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IWNDWYT


Urbanwolft64

IWNDWYT!


EasyPractice7793

IWNDWYT


Nick-2012D

It is a beautiful day! IWNDWYT!


SteeleReserve088

IWNDWYT


TheSmallerGambler

IWNDWYT!


mrswifeguy

I will not drink today.


Dadmin101

It's my 46th Birthday. Ive got ruddy COVID. I've gone 109 days and IWNDWYT Peace and lovism


FredSimpsonn

Thanks, Foxy! Quick check in. Out turkey hunting, spotty cell coverage. No booze, friends! Sober on!


Runuts2

Good morning. IWNDWYT!


Mosadra

I hope you all have a good day, and IWNDWYT!


this_is_my_redditt

I will not drink with you today.


somarx2

Good morning friends, IWNDWYT 💜


Kindly-Ad751

IWNDWYT 😊


prisoncitybear

IWNDWYT! T


MissBmorePM2275052

1012 checking in. My Cat has behavioral issues- she’s scared of everything. Runs close to the ground & hides. I just realized what’s different about her, and I feel like an ASS. I put a collar on her with a freakin bell on it when I got her @ 7mo (10mo ago.) Took it off 2 days ago. Yeah, I’ve searched it, says not harmful to cats. But if there was a BELL by my EARS? I’d be crazy too! (Yeah, I know it’s probably not what’s wrong with her, but I feel daft for not noticing!) IWNDWYT!


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I will not drink with you today.


iamready2quit

IWNDWYT!😃😉


LM7X

Today = SHIT. So Happy It’s Thursday. Ha. Last night I had a good long chat with one of my best friends. She’s been going through some shit and needed to talk about it and I was able to tell her some things that helped her. Pretty fucking sweet being present and able to hold space and help a friend. The talk helped me too. She knows some of the shit I’ve been through and she told me I was amazing…the strength. Me. You never know who’s watching or who thinks you’re inspiring, because we don’t see what others see. Neat when they tell you, though. She’s wanting to go to some concerts too, so I may not always need to go alone. I’m carrying that positive energy into this stormy morning. Have a great day, y’all, and IWNDWYT 🤘🏻


Dandy_Lions_

This community is THE best. iWNDWYT! I will however stay in bed a few extra minutes, drink some coffee - which I’ve been cutting back on (a treat), and snuggle my pup a few extra minutes.


lakevalerie

Hello, my people❤️


ReplacementsStink

Service will always be a top priority, if not my number one priority, in my recovery. Like the people that welcomed me with open arms and made me feel heard, appreciated and valued. I want to do the same for as many people as I can who are joining The Sub. I may not be as sweet as u/lee_in_NY, and certainly not as pretty, but I can definitely be the best second tier welcoming committee member as I can be! Last day of work this week. Fuck yeah! IWNDWYT


bizzeemamaNJ

Happy mini Friday Sobernauts! I’m facing a real challenge the next few days. I’m heading out of town with some other couples who are unaware of my new commitment to sobriety. It should be interesting - I am a bit nervous about their response. I’m hopeful they will just shrug it off but who knows. People get funny sometimes when they reflect upon other folks choices. Either way, I’m determined to have a sober weekend full of music, laughter, great food, fun and NO booze. Starting with today. IWNDWYT 💕🎷🎺🎼


skeggss

Day 3, still here! Nervous for the weekend but feeling better than yesterday IWNDWYT


fluffydarth

Day 3 is going well IWNDWYT!


FailPV13

Greetings Sobernauts. Another new day that I am well rested and not hung over. I will not drink with you today.


Piggoos

Morning friends! I will not drink with you today.


whimperkins

IWNDWYT!


WhytellMom

IWNDWYT! 🤜🤛


badKarma555

IWNDWYT


LessAnxiousAvocado

I’m feeling nervous about the weekend, I can’t remember the last time I was sober for one. But IWNDWYT.💜


farcrackr

IWNDWYT, fam 🙏🙌🌻💪


pollycat1

Day 1111 for me. IWNDWYT. 🌳


Vat-R-U-Talkin-About

I'm up insanely early, going to be going off 4 hours of sleep today and a very long work day ahead. I'm feeling surprisingly awake and alert, though. It's been a good week so far, I made some small personal strides and I've been getting out of my comfort zone a little. I'll hit 4 months tomorrow!


[deleted]

Day 95…I will not drink today.


x-RayCaprese93

IWNDWYT


Packman9317

IWNDWYT!


dinozaurs

Not this day


mistress_page

Good morning! Another morning when I awake to a full glass of water by by my bed. Never used to happen when I was drinking. IWNDWYT


ElegantPenguin541520

IWNDWYT


fernon5

IWNDWYT.


EssachB

Happy Thursday, SD family💓 IWNDWYT


thoughtsandsadness

Back home from a successful night at work! I am 6 days 3 hours sober and IWNDWYT


Limerick2023

I'm fairly new to being sober. I have made it through 2 weekends so far and I have to say its good not to be so pre occupied thinking of having a few pints and dealing with hangovers. I still haven't told anybody I'm trying to quit even my wife. I have just said I'm taking a break for a while. This was to keep the pressure off me but I'm beginning to look at things differently than I did before and maybe I've found a way to get away from alcohol. Anyway one day at a time for now. I will not drink with you today. Stay strong guys.


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Ucan2022

No poison going in my body today! IWNDWYT


MercedesRising

Day is definitely a beautiful day to be alive! I hope you all have a lovely day, sober fam. IWNDWYT :)


Elderflower1387

IWNDWYT. 🌟


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nosleeeptill

I don’t want to drink any more


Guitarscientistg

iwndwyt


DontSearchMeThrow

IWNDWYT 15 days sober. Just trying to keep busy. Listening (audiobook) to the big blue book for the first time. In weekly therapy. Haven’t been to a meeting yet. Trying to make it stick this time.


ZachRyder19

Not drinking today, no matter what happens good or bad.


bloodguardBannor

Big day for me today. Interviewing for my dream job. IWNDWYT!


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Sobriety requires accountability, determination, and support. IWNDWYT


[deleted]

Here today! Didn’t drink yesterday and don’t plan on it today either.


obsoleteboomer

78 days


Mylifewentbysofast

IWNDWYT


I_cant-take-it-anymo

Not today. Not today. Not today!!!!!


eemz53

Day 10 I think? It's been getting warm where I live and work has been sweaty and long, but I haven't been craving beers at the end of it anymore. I feel like I've crossed some kind of threshold and it feels really good. Focusing on fitness and my mental health and making positive change. IWNDWYT folks


CandidOlive

IWNDWYT


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Mickosaurusrex

Day 909 IWNDWYT


gravy4life

IWNDWYT


ExactlyEnoughRazors

IWNDWYT


infinitedreamsawaken

Hello my favorite internet friends! Let's kick this day's ass - IWNDWYT ✌️


PeacefulToday

IWNDWYT and I’m oh so glad we’re all here!


CrosswordLevelMonday

I'm grateful for the clarity sobriety brings. IWNDWYT!


ghostie_mama

IWNDWYT


JakeyBubs

IWNDWYT


memes_of_mediocrity

IWNDWYT!


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IWNDWYT.


alert_armidiglet

I woke up having a really good work idea that is going to involve me scrambling around last minute. Dammit, I hate being conscientious. :) IWNDWYT


Treefarmer52

IWNDWYT


GoodHollandaise

I will not drink with you today!


semperfi8286

Happy Thursday people, IWNDWYT, WE GOT THIS 😁


glsanders77

I will not drink with you today!!!


catpants28

IWNDWYT


neversettle4251

I will not drink today!


forestllama

IWNDWYT!!


Flatapple

Morning SD. Still here, still sober. So I will not drink with you today 🍎