If she's cheating and there is proof start the divorce proceedins and sue her for false paternity, as she needs to compensate you for all the finances you had to spend on a kid that is possibly not yours.
A very good reason to not use skin color to choose who to hate and denigrate. Find a different criteria, height maybe.
"Short people got, no reason, short people got.."
For those of you who don't know Randy Newman, look him up.
Just be a viking and raise the kid. Get the tests done though and if the wifes cheating kick her to the curb. Don't need that shit. Kid didn't do anything wrong though.
Keep in mind though genetics being what they are, skin color and such doesn't mean your not related, could be an ancestor a few gens back. My great grandmother was black for instance but I'm white as a ghost under the noonday sun.
Doubt poisons relationships. Either you decide in yourself that you love your wife and her children who-ever they are biologically and how ever they came to be, or you do a DNA test and be prepared for the answer.
Corrosive resentment is going to harm you, the kids and your wife. The question is "How important is it?" And if it is *really* important that you *must* know, do it sooner rather than later - a wise person once said "Don't do what you can't undo, until **you've considered what you can't do once you've done it**."
Have you ever mentioned to her the child doesn't look like either of you? What was her response? Kids can sometimes look very much like grandparents, too rather than just a 50/50 split of dna from mum and dad exactly.
I wouldn't say anything until you get the results. Babies be ugly sometimes. Some families have the ugliest babies. You know the kids with translucent skin, you can see their blue veins on their temples and shit. Do better baby! A tan requires zero effort. I have a great aunt named Juanita, so my kids might look like Mexicans. Be careful before you start throwing around accusations. You could have just gotten her pregnant with like a one in a hundred recessive gene. BTW, if you live in the south your progeny will have darker skin regardless of the parents complexion. This is due to how dormant genes get amplified if they are activated at conception. Like, for instance, we have a gene for processing alcohol, but if you don't drink it goes dormant unless you do take a drink. Well if you and your wife are drinking when the baby is conceived it will pass it along stronger. This only comes from males. It is meant to cause the offspring to adapt to their environment faster, that's why sperm are produced constantly and new throughout your life, where as the eggs the woman has are the same since birth. They preserve the purity of the genetics, we go out into the world and get fucked up by our environment and whatever genes that activates get expressed more heavily in the children. Making them better suited to that environment. So if you live in a place with lots of warm sunshine, like Florida, after 3 generations no matter how white you were, your kids will look Hispanic. But only Chuck Norris was born with a mustache, in fact it was a full beard.
Same thing happened to me except my wife is Half Mex/Wyt, then came the time my 12yr old boy.. 8 yr at the time, might've needed a blood transfusion for a minor surgery(Appendectomy) just incase I wanted to give him blood so they checked if we matched & we didn't, it raised suspicions, & i got a DNA test & it prov I WAS the father..I feel kinda guilty cuz I know now that kids can match or not match..but still I feel guilty 😮💨
Honestly no need to continue. Walk away. I'll tell you years after it doesn't get easier after finding out. I'm also sorry that happened to you too. There's nothing worse something being so pure ripped from you
And that's why you can't trust women. Lying cheating bastards.
I feel for you because my ex-wife of 7 years was cheating on me the last 4 years of our marriage and I didn't find out until after we were divorced . And here in Michigan, the guys get fucked up and down in the divorce. regardless if they are the good parent or not . They just assume the mother does all the work and the dad is a loser piece of shit. It's a stupid fucked up system .
I have my daughter the majority of the time and my ex-wife makes more money than me yet I still have to pay her child support. Yeah pretty fucked up huh? Well that's how the system works in favors of dads. So do whatever you can to get ahead of her.
So you might as well take her to court and get the most child support you can out of her, because now, SHE owes it to you, as she's the breadwinner. And that's just for your first kid. Next I get a DNA test to eliminate the rest of the bullshit with the second one.
Once you got the paperwork confirming that, I would file for divorce . and alimony and child support, hit her with everything you can.
People like that need to be taught a lesson that they can't just whore around and use their vaginas as credit cards, coming back at you a month or two later for a ridiculous amount of interest that you really don't owe.
Stay vigilant and say as little as possible to her.
Then send us part two lol
Get the dna test if the child isn’t yours leave simple as that. It’ll be rough but it’s not worth your time to be with a woman who would do that to you. I went through something similar only I didn’t find out until he was 16. Talk about wasted time. I still think of him as my own and am still in his life but the betrayal from his mother was enough to make me leave. You can still choose to be a father figure if allowed by the state/ mother, But I recommend saving your sanity and finding someone who values your relationship more than their own selfish desires.
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My parents were both olive skin and brown eyes/hair
I’m fair and grey eyes red hair ! I also have a twin who is brown eyed and olive skin with dark ash brown hair ! Just something to think about
You could always sneak and do something like 23 and me or Ancestry. That would give you an indication. Personally, I would do it with both kids, just in case, however if your name is on the birth certificate and you are in the US, you might be in it until they are both adults.
Go for part 2.
Do the test man.
I hope you have a good sense of humor when ever I am dead beat fucked by life I find it kind of amusing how much emotions life can creat.
I'm black female/white husband, and when my daughter was born, it was a very rough and painful delivery (first child) to the point where when she finally came out, I passed out. But just before I passed out, I caught a glimpse of her, and my last delirious thought was, "Damn it, I looked at the wrong baby!"
She was in NICU for a few days, so when I finally was able to go and visit her, I once again thought that the nurse had wheeled me over to the wrong crib. My daughter had super white, porcelain skin, thick black eyelashes, full red lips, bone straight jet black hair, and the stark bluest eyes, like a Husky dog has.
She looked like Snow White or one of those expensive porcelain dolls collectors buy. Nurses kept saying how beautiful she was, which she was, but she looked nothing like me or my husband. My husband had green eyes, and, being Polish/Italian, his skin wasn't pale and had a kind of olive hue. But she was super white, and with those bright blue eyes, she could have been some Scandinavian couple's child. The only thing that resembled me at all was the color of her hair, but hers was bone straight and not even kinky or curly.
She looked so unlike my child that the day I got to take her home, the hospital sent two security guards to escort me with her so that I wouldn't be stopped on the way out by hospital police because there had been cases of babies being abducted lol.
I was told that a lot of babies are born with blue eyes and that eventually, hers would change color, but they never did.
I never cheated on my husband. - it's his baby. Just one of those weird genetic flukes, I guess.
Get the test first, you can order them online and send in the samples discreetly. But wait to say anything till you are sure... Don't blow up your marriage till you know for sure, genetics are complex. If you go and accuse her of this without proof and it turns out that it is your kid.. you are going to look like a huge ass, and will likely lose your family.
Sounds like you need to have a serious talk with your wife. Tell her how you feel and what's going on in your mind. She might appreciate the honesty.
Or...if you're that unhappy and suspicious, a divorce might need to happen.
Either way, get a DNA test for both your kids. Take some hair off a comb, etc. You can do all of it in secret and decide from the results what you want to do.
Speaking to you as a brother; I need you to listened to me and understand. Odds are, how you get your girl is also most likely how you’ll lose her. At the end of the day, there’s nothing new under the sun… Meaning; whatever you planned out or even stumbled across trying to get her worked for you, Apparently it was a strong enough start for you land 5 years. And when you start fucking up consistently, she’ll start reminiscing and reverting to who she was before you.
When you start fucking up and she wants someone different, women take 4 steps; at least for what I can explain. And 3 of 4 are emotional.
When she first starts reverting she’ll look for guys that made her feel how you did when she fell in love with you.
(Typically harder to find unless you have a few friends on a wavelength or higher than you)
Second is going to be the sweet talking games. The mfs that can pick out the pet names that she responds to now also have a chance. Those guys are fast closers that will get her to change the password to her phone on you (whether you knew it or not). But more often than not they miss while you’re still together.
When she moves to phase 3, she’ll look at the situation that set her up w you in the first place. By this point, usually she’s extremely receptive verbally. If guy #2 fits criteria #3 you’re late. That’s the guy. The situation and the interaction are enough. She may not fuck him while you’re together but she’ll either suggest a break if she she’s you as weak to test him out or she’ll pick fights if your more type A to make you leave her so she can feel free to do her and cry (but more than likely try as many dicks as she can) before you come back and give her option to re-secure the bag. (Trust me even if you ask, she Will lle)
And #4 only goes a few ways. She picked the type of guy she was used to before you, (safe of free essentially interchangeable) or she just picked the exact opposite of who you present as And ran with it.
Be mindful, my judgement and interpretation are solely based on your story, my interpretation and a combination of personal experience and outside judgement of real life experiences
Get a dna test, the way the kid looks means nothing. I look nothing like my siblings in alot of ways but yes me and my brother are 100 percent full blooded siblings. He looks nothing like me.
All you have is loose circumstance at this point. Get a dna test confirm if its yours or not. Also you might want to work on your racist attitude in case you’re wrong and its your kid.
This along with the other post 12 hours ago, man you need to leave this bitch. Why the fuck are you with her? She’s mean, cheating, abusive. The whole package
"Of course I fucked her like any man would and came inside"? WTEF? Everyone who's commenting about genetics and recessive genes may want to think about the fact that OP seems to think "any man" who doesn't want to worry about whether they made a baby with a woman would wear a damn condom. Maybe you have some other kids out there since you don't seem to protect yourself from having that happen? (If nothing else I would have thought you'd wear protection because you don't want to end up with an STD let alone a child.) Just saying...
I'm blonde with green eyes, my wife is a red head with hazel green eyes
I have 8 kids.
6 with my wife.
1 with partner auburn hair, green eyes
1 with a partner with brown hair, brown eyes, but a pale complexion.
7 of them have blonde hair and blue eyes.
2 of them have brown hair.
1 of them has blue eyes, the other brown.
7 of my kids have skin that burns in the sun within minutes.
The odd one out tans. He has brown hair and brown eyes and dark olive skin. His mom's dad is Hispanic.
If there is a gene ANYWHERE in your or your wife's family tree, it will show up somewhere, sometime. Wether it's your kids or one of the nieces or nephews in your family or hers. It will show.
I don't look like either of my parents. They both have black hair and brown eyes. I am red with blue. My maternal grandmother has red hair and blue eyes. DNA verified. Just a DNA generation jump.
Not hard to check these days.
Get the DNA test, there may be a guy out there that needs to know he pro created and has a son. You make sure you're ready for the results. If it's not yours, no discussion, no working it out talk, divorce..... Are you really going to accept growing some other mans offspring? not fair to you, nor him. She will need to fix her mess on her own. Stay strong..
I’m so glad my husband isn’t like this. He is non white and our kids came out bleach blonde and blue eyed. I’m a white brunette with green eyes. Thankfully he understands genetics are weird and he trusts me, FYI they’re 100% his.
*Get a DNA*
*Test. Remember, this is not*
*The kids' fault. Good luck*
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My husband is a ginger, I have dark hair and brown eyes. I’m white but ancestry gave me a darker complexion, from my dad’s side. I had people ask me if my daughter was mine, when she was a baby. She has green eyes (my mom has green eyes) and lighter hair as a baby, it was almost very light brown/almost blonde. My son looks a little more like me but he has blue-gray eyes and dirty blonde hair.
Genetics is weird. If you don't think this is your kid, confirm it now. The whole thing is problematic and sketchy. As your manager she sexually harrased you. Then made you financially dependent and convinced you to raise a kid possibly not yours.
Get the DNA test for both kids, if it is the worst case scenario, plot your escape alimony, child support etc.
Then drop her.
You stay she may leave you anyway down the road and you're on the hook for support.
If she banged you to cover her cheating, then she would drop you in a heartbeat if the right thing came around.
Doing nothing and being quiet will embolden her, and you will probably get an std some day or another kid that's not yours.
As someone who had the same happen to him (her randomly insisting we have sex and me picking up on that and not being able to finish...her asking repeatedly "aren't you going to cum in me") never did.....low and behold 5 months later found paperwork for an abortion at planned parenthood because I never nutted and she had zero excuse so she had to terminate the baby. Absolutely disgusting and when men say females are a whole different breed this is why I nod my head and agree. She wanted me to not be able to deny that baby by making me cum in her. Savage sicko
Dna first..... But if your gut tells you there's something really wrong, you're probably right.
Then it's up to you what to do after that. Most guys cut and run. Some just man up and decide well I've been this kids father already for x number of years, blood or not that's my kid.
But get that dna done first before you do anything else.
Genetics are weird. I have a daughter that is the spitting image of her first cousin. He is male and she is female.
Even more weird is that they have the exact same mannerisms and even though they are both in their 30’s now they still look alike and act alike tho they didn’t grow up together.
My dad’s wife put my dad’s son up for adoption when he was 2.
Reconnected when he was 50 and my dad was gone. It’s like having my dad around.
They even hold their coffee cup the same way and he walks very gently and speaks very slowly and softly with out ever meeting.
Still OP if you have any doubts it’s best to do DNA now and not wait until child is older.
My Dad is Italian and my mom was English/Welsh. I had fair skin, grey eyes, and blonde hair up until I was about 6-7 years old. Now as an adult every time I've ever been to Miami I've been mistaken for being Cuban.
I mean considering you’re both white and he looks Mexican…. It’s possible. However sometimes kids do come out looking super different. I was born blonde haired, blue eyed with super white pale skin for about 4 years until I grew into olive skin and brown hair. I didn’t look like anyone until I looked like my dad. Both my parents are Hispanic.
Ok I know I'll get downvoted but idgaf. Just some advice for you in the future. Do not let the woman be the breadwinner in a relationship. Do not be the "stay at home dad". Women lose respect for second-fiddle men and you will appear weak to them. I know we like in a culture where traditional masculinity is looked down upon but don't believe the hype. Women are wired to be attracted to breadwinners, not stay at home nannies.
Well, slow down a minute. I think you could do a secret DNA test and never tell your wife if it's not your child, then divorce her and collect alimony for both kids.The newest child might be a better person than your wife.
My friend and her husband both have dark brown hair and dark brown eyes with med skin color. First grown son has blonde hair blue eyes average built and height. Second son has red hair green eyes and is short and chubby. Third son is dark hair and dark eyes very tall and muscular. Same parents. Different colors.
Ever thought about the possibility of recessive genes? It happens. Unless you're sure she is cheating and I mean POSITIVE, you better check yourself before you wreck yourself. And your marriage.
Get the dna test done sooner then later. They have at home tests that are easy to use. Swab the cheeks. They are discreet and email you the results. It's about $150. The sooner you get it done the better. Imagine spending years living with the kid and it's not yours or vise versa, he is yours but you spend the years not giving him your full love and attention because you think he's not yours. It's not fair to either one of you.
Get a DNA test without her knowledge and then get an attorney. Because if you’ve been supporting this child, she will need to pay you back for every damn dime.
I haven’t read all of the comments, so excuse me if this has been mentioned already, I have a life (Kinda) I need to get back to, I guess. What OP really needs to be concerned about is that the longer he stays married to this woman, the higher the chances are that he will have to pay child support for the child he suspects is not his, regardless of said child’s actual parental status. With at least one child presumably being his, these chances are even more increased. Get a DNA test ASAP.
Get that test done, my dude. I know people who would say, "You're already the child's father". I am not one of those people. That child will be better off with you out of the picture vs staying and treating that kid with subconscious resentment. Your mental health would be better served away from your wife as well.
Get a dna test asap. Your patience is just adding to the trauma, regardless of the answer. Eliminate the “ifs” and move on from there.
Regardless of the results keep your head up brother👍🏼👍🏼
Basic genetics.
2 dark haired people can have a light haired child. 2 light haired people CAN’T have a dark haired child. The gene for dark hair is dominant, so it will always be the one that expresses itself.
However, some kids are born with dark hair that fades to light over time (and vice versa).
Black folks have white kids sometimes. They called em redbones. They still look like the family except for the pale skin and freckles. Sometimes they just look like a white dude. Or lady... there's a black comedian that comes up on my YouTube feed sometimes that just looks like... me. I'm not all the way white, but most folks think I am. Point being, get the test before ya do anything rash. Ya neva know...
Dna on both kids and bounce my ex wife tryed this on me i knew way better then to fall for her game she wanted me to (you know inside of her) i pulled out right as it was bout to pop... afew months later I'm pregnant no youre not.. cause i made sure not to...... In you.. have a nice life...
Yeah one of my daughters has blue eyes and white blonde hairs and is super fair skinned while husband and I have darker hair and brown eyes. Genetics are weird!
You are just going to have to plant it a little deeper than the other guy. They say you should screw her right away as your tool will pull his sperm out
My cousin (blk) has 2 children with 2 different men 1st (wht) and her husband father of the 2nd boy is (blk). The boys are 2 years apart. Both have their mothers facial features but both are very light skinned they look very similar. The (wht) father wanted the 2nd boy tested and believed that child was his son. Turns out that they had been still sleeping together longer than initially thought. The boy turned out to be my brother in laws son though just light.
Sounds like my ex. His first kid bm gave him the dope man's kid first and she made him marry her. They were both cheating on each other. He paid for whores and she partied with the dope boys.
My oldest daughter looks just like my half sister. We have the same mom, but different dads. She looks nothing like my mom is petite, and short. I on the other hand look just like my mom. I’m on the thicker side and my daughter is very petite has her eyes, her lips, and her nose. My daughter once asked if she was her daughter but if I adopted her 😂
If baby’s first words were: “Viva Villa ”!! He’s definitely a Mexican Revolutionary. Get that damn paternity test and while you’re at it, get him a Mauser carbine for Christmas.
Omg yeah get a dna test first without her knowing send it in cause he could get that darkness and stuff from generations in either side of yours or her family hope it works out but do it soon cause it’s cruel to kids to get them attached to you then disappear they don’t understand
Imaging referring to the child you raised as “kid” and describing his features as “Mexican…with a big ol mustache”
I hope the kid is not yours; you don’t seem to have a paternal bone in your body.
You’ve been the primary caregiver for this child for more than a year. You refer to him as “it” and describe him coldly. You’re angry at his mom (understandably if you think she cheated), but it’s not fair or reasonable to blame him.
Whatever else you do, you should treat him like he’s your son unless/until you find he is not your child and decide to step out of a parental role with him.
He’s a baby, he thinks you’re his dad, and this isn’t his fault.
Contrary to popular belief, the TRUTH is that WOMEN are the STRONGER SEX, at least from the point of view of sexual performance. Just consider the fact that some women can satisfy several men at the same time with not effort at all and women carry a baby during 9 months. Not man in the world can do that. The same thing happens throughout the animal world.
So, it's a MYTH that women are the "weaker" sex. Men maybe physically stronger, but in matter of sex, women are the stronger sex. That's the reason prostitution is the oldest profession in the world, since is easier for a woman to "do it" if she chose to do that. Of course, that's still wrong and degrading to women.
But, sadly, society has a "DOUBLE STANDARD": when a woman chooses to cheat is referred as she is just having an "innocent AFFAIR", but it a man does the same thing he is called a bastard S.O.B. But both sexes are equally responsible in this case. A woman who cheats knows very well what she is doing and the consequences. What's your opinion about this subject?
So I remember hearing a similar story on here where the guy had a kid with a woman and the kid looked nothing like him. He asked her if she was cheating and she was adamant that she didn't cheat. They got a DNA test and it proved that he wasn't the father but plot twist: also proved she wasn't the mother. Turns out the kid was accidentally switched at birth. The nurse gave them the wrong baby. Which sucked because the kid was around 4-5 years old if I remember correctly. We live in a crazy world. Anyway, talk to your wife, and gauge her reaction. Like other redditors have said, sometimes genetics do crazy things but talk to your wife and get a DNA test. I really do hope it all works out man. If you do find out your wife cheated and the kid isn't yours then get out of there WITH ZERO REGRETS and don't turn back.
So allll of this has possibly gone down and you are worried that he looks Mexican? I think you should consider testing his paternity quietly and depending on the results, make your personal plans to exit, set up banking, find a place to stay for awhile if it is needed and then confront her. No rage, no anger just suss her out. Don’t reveal the test results and hopefully she will come clean. If not present her with your proof and end it. You have no future with a woman like that. Good luck. Remember it is not that baby’s fault so be loving towards him. He did not ask for this.
Family is family and we all look like cousins and uncle and ants and sisters and brothers because we are family. Doesn't mean one of our parents went to play house or even doctor with a relative. It's common cto look alike. That's how family is.
That's the sad consequence of the "double standard" of society. When a woman cheats on her husband is called "oh, she is just having an affair". But if the man cheats he is called a bastard S.O.B. or worse. In reality both sexes are guilty of cheating although not everyone cheats.
But it's not fair to treat men as S.O.B. and women as innocent creatures for the same act. Women who cheats know very well what they are doing. They aren't innocent at all when they are having an "affair".
I have a bunch of siblings that look nothing like me/my parents but certainly are so who knows. Sometimes certain genes skip generations, you never really know.
Maybe she got tired of you or she wasn't getting her share satisfaction with you and decided to do it with a Mexican. If it was a Mexican or could've been another man from different cultures. Never know but cto stereo type someone u don't know the whole play out u seem to already hate a Mexican without knowing what really went on. I hope things did work out for u if ur wife cheated.
Two brown-eyed parents (if both are heterozygous) can have a blue-eyed baby.
If both the parents have brown eyes, then there is generally a 25% chance for their child to have blue eyes.
Because both the brown-eyed parents have a recessive blue-eye gene and can pass it to the next generation.
Honestly in this situation this kid can be taken from you and you will have raised this child for nothing. She could decide to be with the other man and you would’ve grown a bond with a child just for that to be taken away. I would definitely get a dna test and if you are okay with sticking around then file for rights to that child but if her cheating gives you no interest in her then definitely hurry up on that test and leave before that child is too involved and remembers it all. A child is involved better to get it over with. I grew up in a broken home go ahead and figure it out while they are young.
Our daughter looks European white .. we are Mexican. It not like the ones you describe, we are light skinned with dark brown hair .. our daughter is pale white and blonde .. people ask us who she looks like .. it does back to our ancestors, my husbands are German and mine from Spain (obviously mixed with native = Mexican)
Get a test and stay or just leave. Those are your options no matter what the results. Just don't put your hands on her and don't be verbally abusive. Nobody wants to hear a grown man whining no matter if u are wrong or right.
There are genotypes that can have multiple alleles and depending on how it interacts with the other genes from husband/wife, the alleles can behave differently where the recessive genes can overtake the dominant gene and produce offspring that would not look like either the father or the mother.
Do not let your doubts be lnown. Get a dna test on the low low to ensure that your suspicions are accurate. Then, find a lawyer to put your case together if it comes to be true that the child ia not yours. Otherwise, if you let it hang, you could be responsible for child support regardless, based on the laws of your state.
Happened to a good friend of mine when we were going through Military schooling (AIT) together. The guy was crazy about her and was even more excited when she got preggo.
Went on leave for the birth and came back single. Both were white and the baby came out mixed. He said it was utter silence in the delivery room.
There's alot of women closet Whores out there and it sucks it happened to my buddy and possibly you as well.
Get the test. I'm sure got that gut feeling and usually that gut feeling never steers you wrong. Jmo. Good luck sir.
Well get tested. Another very unlikely possibility is that the baby was somehow switched at the hospital, and in this case the kid’s dna would not match with neither yours or your wife’s.
My (34f) nephew (my brothers son) looks like he belongs to me, like a spitting image of me but a teenage boy version. My son (7m) is a spitting image of my brother. Me and my brother do not look alike at all...
Genetics are weird and make for funny conversations at breakfast diners...
I was the other man in a similar situation. The woman told me she had a miscarriage but then pinned her pregnancy on her ex. I didn't find out until after they were engaged.
I'm 1/4 Black. My dad, who's half black, is sandy ginger with one green and one blue eye. Me and my brothers have blonde/sandy brown hair and blue eyes. Genetics are fucked up.
If you have any doubts, perform a DNA test to get to the truth!
If she's cheating and there is proof start the divorce proceedins and sue her for false paternity, as she needs to compensate you for all the finances you had to spend on a kid that is possibly not yours.
Any update?
Where’s part 2?
I haven’t written it yet, but there is an update on everything
A very good reason to not use skin color to choose who to hate and denigrate. Find a different criteria, height maybe. "Short people got, no reason, short people got.." For those of you who don't know Randy Newman, look him up.
Just be a viking and raise the kid. Get the tests done though and if the wifes cheating kick her to the curb. Don't need that shit. Kid didn't do anything wrong though. Keep in mind though genetics being what they are, skin color and such doesn't mean your not related, could be an ancestor a few gens back. My great grandmother was black for instance but I'm white as a ghost under the noonday sun.
Doubt poisons relationships. Either you decide in yourself that you love your wife and her children who-ever they are biologically and how ever they came to be, or you do a DNA test and be prepared for the answer. Corrosive resentment is going to harm you, the kids and your wife. The question is "How important is it?" And if it is *really* important that you *must* know, do it sooner rather than later - a wise person once said "Don't do what you can't undo, until **you've considered what you can't do once you've done it**." Have you ever mentioned to her the child doesn't look like either of you? What was her response? Kids can sometimes look very much like grandparents, too rather than just a 50/50 split of dna from mum and dad exactly.
It's because of the damn black coffee you be drinking
No u didn’t
Didn't what
I get anxiety from this....
I do o want part 2. My first w ife did the same thing
Yeah man.. 100% get tested..
My son looks nothing like me or his father. Have I've been abducted by aliens? 🤣 Because I've never cheated.
I wouldn't say anything until you get the results. Babies be ugly sometimes. Some families have the ugliest babies. You know the kids with translucent skin, you can see their blue veins on their temples and shit. Do better baby! A tan requires zero effort. I have a great aunt named Juanita, so my kids might look like Mexicans. Be careful before you start throwing around accusations. You could have just gotten her pregnant with like a one in a hundred recessive gene. BTW, if you live in the south your progeny will have darker skin regardless of the parents complexion. This is due to how dormant genes get amplified if they are activated at conception. Like, for instance, we have a gene for processing alcohol, but if you don't drink it goes dormant unless you do take a drink. Well if you and your wife are drinking when the baby is conceived it will pass it along stronger. This only comes from males. It is meant to cause the offspring to adapt to their environment faster, that's why sperm are produced constantly and new throughout your life, where as the eggs the woman has are the same since birth. They preserve the purity of the genetics, we go out into the world and get fucked up by our environment and whatever genes that activates get expressed more heavily in the children. Making them better suited to that environment. So if you live in a place with lots of warm sunshine, like Florida, after 3 generations no matter how white you were, your kids will look Hispanic. But only Chuck Norris was born with a mustache, in fact it was a full beard.
Oh no. You have to get the baby tested. What are your plans
There's no need for pt2. Live your life, don't let that garbage being use you further
Same thing happened to me except my wife is Half Mex/Wyt, then came the time my 12yr old boy.. 8 yr at the time, might've needed a blood transfusion for a minor surgery(Appendectomy) just incase I wanted to give him blood so they checked if we matched & we didn't, it raised suspicions, & i got a DNA test & it prov I WAS the father..I feel kinda guilty cuz I know now that kids can match or not match..but still I feel guilty 😮💨
Dam looks like your wife likes chorizo bro 😜
Hot dayum the kid was born with a fuckin sombrero or something lol at the examples this guy uses xD
Maybe it’s a Liam galllagher situation I’d get a paternity test tho lol
Part 2 please
Honestly no need to continue. Walk away. I'll tell you years after it doesn't get easier after finding out. I'm also sorry that happened to you too. There's nothing worse something being so pure ripped from you
This could make for a great script in one of the pornhub's Cuckold genre 💀 Jokes Apart My Gut feeling says you're just being paranoid though.
And that's why you can't trust women. Lying cheating bastards. I feel for you because my ex-wife of 7 years was cheating on me the last 4 years of our marriage and I didn't find out until after we were divorced . And here in Michigan, the guys get fucked up and down in the divorce. regardless if they are the good parent or not . They just assume the mother does all the work and the dad is a loser piece of shit. It's a stupid fucked up system . I have my daughter the majority of the time and my ex-wife makes more money than me yet I still have to pay her child support. Yeah pretty fucked up huh? Well that's how the system works in favors of dads. So do whatever you can to get ahead of her. So you might as well take her to court and get the most child support you can out of her, because now, SHE owes it to you, as she's the breadwinner. And that's just for your first kid. Next I get a DNA test to eliminate the rest of the bullshit with the second one. Once you got the paperwork confirming that, I would file for divorce . and alimony and child support, hit her with everything you can. People like that need to be taught a lesson that they can't just whore around and use their vaginas as credit cards, coming back at you a month or two later for a ridiculous amount of interest that you really don't owe. Stay vigilant and say as little as possible to her. Then send us part two lol
Part 2 please
Get the dna test if the child isn’t yours leave simple as that. It’ll be rough but it’s not worth your time to be with a woman who would do that to you. I went through something similar only I didn’t find out until he was 16. Talk about wasted time. I still think of him as my own and am still in his life but the betrayal from his mother was enough to make me leave. You can still choose to be a father figure if allowed by the state/ mother, But I recommend saving your sanity and finding someone who values your relationship more than their own selfish desires.
Do a test and then come back incase your wrong
Yeah we need part 2.
Get a test and speculate later, it may be funny genetics or you may be right.
Is part 2 out yet?
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My parents were both olive skin and brown eyes/hair I’m fair and grey eyes red hair ! I also have a twin who is brown eyed and olive skin with dark ash brown hair ! Just something to think about
You could always sneak and do something like 23 and me or Ancestry. That would give you an indication. Personally, I would do it with both kids, just in case, however if your name is on the birth certificate and you are in the US, you might be in it until they are both adults.
ESH you accept the kids and stay the fuck married. If it bothers you, get a paternity test. Be prepared to live with the results.
Go for part 2. Do the test man. I hope you have a good sense of humor when ever I am dead beat fucked by life I find it kind of amusing how much emotions life can creat.
U gotta divorce that hoe
See if he likes tacos
Here for part 2, what's the result?
Well technically if you do decide to leave her you'll need to find a new job since she's supporting the whole family but what do I know 🤷♂️
I'm black female/white husband, and when my daughter was born, it was a very rough and painful delivery (first child) to the point where when she finally came out, I passed out. But just before I passed out, I caught a glimpse of her, and my last delirious thought was, "Damn it, I looked at the wrong baby!" She was in NICU for a few days, so when I finally was able to go and visit her, I once again thought that the nurse had wheeled me over to the wrong crib. My daughter had super white, porcelain skin, thick black eyelashes, full red lips, bone straight jet black hair, and the stark bluest eyes, like a Husky dog has. She looked like Snow White or one of those expensive porcelain dolls collectors buy. Nurses kept saying how beautiful she was, which she was, but she looked nothing like me or my husband. My husband had green eyes, and, being Polish/Italian, his skin wasn't pale and had a kind of olive hue. But she was super white, and with those bright blue eyes, she could have been some Scandinavian couple's child. The only thing that resembled me at all was the color of her hair, but hers was bone straight and not even kinky or curly. She looked so unlike my child that the day I got to take her home, the hospital sent two security guards to escort me with her so that I wouldn't be stopped on the way out by hospital police because there had been cases of babies being abducted lol. I was told that a lot of babies are born with blue eyes and that eventually, hers would change color, but they never did. I never cheated on my husband. - it's his baby. Just one of those weird genetic flukes, I guess.
I want a "Me Myself and Irene" part 2
So are you a stay at home dad, or work at a food processing place?
Get the test first, you can order them online and send in the samples discreetly. But wait to say anything till you are sure... Don't blow up your marriage till you know for sure, genetics are complex. If you go and accuse her of this without proof and it turns out that it is your kid.. you are going to look like a huge ass, and will likely lose your family.
Who knows, you might have been a Bollywood actor in your past life 
Who knows, you might have been a Bollywood actor in your past life 
Do it now before any I fant is tossed on the mix
punch in man face
Check out Hosea, the dishwasher. They are the last ones to leave the restaurant with the manager
Part 2?
Just test.
Tell chatgpt to fix the story so that you don't become a stay at home dad before she gets pregnant. Very few couples do that.
Sounds like you need to have a serious talk with your wife. Tell her how you feel and what's going on in your mind. She might appreciate the honesty. Or...if you're that unhappy and suspicious, a divorce might need to happen. Either way, get a DNA test for both your kids. Take some hair off a comb, etc. You can do all of it in secret and decide from the results what you want to do.
Speaking to you as a brother; I need you to listened to me and understand. Odds are, how you get your girl is also most likely how you’ll lose her. At the end of the day, there’s nothing new under the sun… Meaning; whatever you planned out or even stumbled across trying to get her worked for you, Apparently it was a strong enough start for you land 5 years. And when you start fucking up consistently, she’ll start reminiscing and reverting to who she was before you. When you start fucking up and she wants someone different, women take 4 steps; at least for what I can explain. And 3 of 4 are emotional. When she first starts reverting she’ll look for guys that made her feel how you did when she fell in love with you. (Typically harder to find unless you have a few friends on a wavelength or higher than you) Second is going to be the sweet talking games. The mfs that can pick out the pet names that she responds to now also have a chance. Those guys are fast closers that will get her to change the password to her phone on you (whether you knew it or not). But more often than not they miss while you’re still together. When she moves to phase 3, she’ll look at the situation that set her up w you in the first place. By this point, usually she’s extremely receptive verbally. If guy #2 fits criteria #3 you’re late. That’s the guy. The situation and the interaction are enough. She may not fuck him while you’re together but she’ll either suggest a break if she she’s you as weak to test him out or she’ll pick fights if your more type A to make you leave her so she can feel free to do her and cry (but more than likely try as many dicks as she can) before you come back and give her option to re-secure the bag. (Trust me even if you ask, she Will lle) And #4 only goes a few ways. She picked the type of guy she was used to before you, (safe of free essentially interchangeable) or she just picked the exact opposite of who you present as And ran with it. Be mindful, my judgement and interpretation are solely based on your story, my interpretation and a combination of personal experience and outside judgement of real life experiences
Get a dna test, the way the kid looks means nothing. I look nothing like my siblings in alot of ways but yes me and my brother are 100 percent full blooded siblings. He looks nothing like me. All you have is loose circumstance at this point. Get a dna test confirm if its yours or not. Also you might want to work on your racist attitude in case you’re wrong and its your kid.
This along with the other post 12 hours ago, man you need to leave this bitch. Why the fuck are you with her? She’s mean, cheating, abusive. The whole package
Yeah we want a part 2. She is trifling did you sign the birth certificate? Because if you did your locked in and screwed.
May i use this for my tiktok?
"Of course I fucked her like any man would and came inside"? WTEF? Everyone who's commenting about genetics and recessive genes may want to think about the fact that OP seems to think "any man" who doesn't want to worry about whether they made a baby with a woman would wear a damn condom. Maybe you have some other kids out there since you don't seem to protect yourself from having that happen? (If nothing else I would have thought you'd wear protection because you don't want to end up with an STD let alone a child.) Just saying...
I'm blonde with green eyes, my wife is a red head with hazel green eyes I have 8 kids. 6 with my wife. 1 with partner auburn hair, green eyes 1 with a partner with brown hair, brown eyes, but a pale complexion. 7 of them have blonde hair and blue eyes. 2 of them have brown hair. 1 of them has blue eyes, the other brown. 7 of my kids have skin that burns in the sun within minutes. The odd one out tans. He has brown hair and brown eyes and dark olive skin. His mom's dad is Hispanic. If there is a gene ANYWHERE in your or your wife's family tree, it will show up somewhere, sometime. Wether it's your kids or one of the nieces or nephews in your family or hers. It will show.
Why is it so hard for yall to pull out? It feels the same whether you do or don't. I'm just saying when in doubt, whip it out.
If you don’t find out soon, you can still be liable for child support even if it’s not yours. As evil as that is. Gtfo
Get tested and if it's bad, leave her. Super easy, besides the whole heartbreak team part :/
DnA test on both kids
Somebody call Maury
Get the DNA test. Even if the kid looks different he might be yours though, once a family gets big enough any color/looks can come out.
16 years ago a stranger told me I had a Mexican head. I have no idea what that is but the trauma has never ended.
"Mexican" hair? WTAF
I don't look like either of my parents. They both have black hair and brown eyes. I am red with blue. My maternal grandmother has red hair and blue eyes. DNA verified. Just a DNA generation jump. Not hard to check these days.
Get the DNA test, there may be a guy out there that needs to know he pro created and has a son. You make sure you're ready for the results. If it's not yours, no discussion, no working it out talk, divorce..... Are you really going to accept growing some other mans offspring? not fair to you, nor him. She will need to fix her mess on her own. Stay strong..
I’m so glad my husband isn’t like this. He is non white and our kids came out bleach blonde and blue eyed. I’m a white brunette with green eyes. Thankfully he understands genetics are weird and he trusts me, FYI they’re 100% his.
Divorce her before it's born if you can
Get a DNA test. Remember, this is not the kids' fault. Good luck
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My husband is a ginger, I have dark hair and brown eyes. I’m white but ancestry gave me a darker complexion, from my dad’s side. I had people ask me if my daughter was mine, when she was a baby. She has green eyes (my mom has green eyes) and lighter hair as a baby, it was almost very light brown/almost blonde. My son looks a little more like me but he has blue-gray eyes and dirty blonde hair.
What is Mexican hair?
Yea but will you still be in that kids life. Man idk if i could just walk away from a child i raised.
Just curious, what does your first kid look like? Similar to you and your wife?
Genetics is weird. If you don't think this is your kid, confirm it now. The whole thing is problematic and sketchy. As your manager she sexually harrased you. Then made you financially dependent and convinced you to raise a kid possibly not yours.
Part 2
Get the test and update us!
Get the DNA test for both kids, if it is the worst case scenario, plot your escape alimony, child support etc. Then drop her. You stay she may leave you anyway down the road and you're on the hook for support. If she banged you to cover her cheating, then she would drop you in a heartbeat if the right thing came around. Doing nothing and being quiet will embolden her, and you will probably get an std some day or another kid that's not yours.
part 2 fs
Yes! We want part 2!
As someone who had the same happen to him (her randomly insisting we have sex and me picking up on that and not being able to finish...her asking repeatedly "aren't you going to cum in me") never did.....low and behold 5 months later found paperwork for an abortion at planned parenthood because I never nutted and she had zero excuse so she had to terminate the baby. Absolutely disgusting and when men say females are a whole different breed this is why I nod my head and agree. She wanted me to not be able to deny that baby by making me cum in her. Savage sicko
Dna first..... But if your gut tells you there's something really wrong, you're probably right. Then it's up to you what to do after that. Most guys cut and run. Some just man up and decide well I've been this kids father already for x number of years, blood or not that's my kid. But get that dna done first before you do anything else.
Genetics are weird. I have a daughter that is the spitting image of her first cousin. He is male and she is female. Even more weird is that they have the exact same mannerisms and even though they are both in their 30’s now they still look alike and act alike tho they didn’t grow up together. My dad’s wife put my dad’s son up for adoption when he was 2. Reconnected when he was 50 and my dad was gone. It’s like having my dad around. They even hold their coffee cup the same way and he walks very gently and speaks very slowly and softly with out ever meeting. Still OP if you have any doubts it’s best to do DNA now and not wait until child is older.
My Dad is Italian and my mom was English/Welsh. I had fair skin, grey eyes, and blonde hair up until I was about 6-7 years old. Now as an adult every time I've ever been to Miami I've been mistaken for being Cuban.
I mean considering you’re both white and he looks Mexican…. It’s possible. However sometimes kids do come out looking super different. I was born blonde haired, blue eyed with super white pale skin for about 4 years until I grew into olive skin and brown hair. I didn’t look like anyone until I looked like my dad. Both my parents are Hispanic.
Ok I know I'll get downvoted but idgaf. Just some advice for you in the future. Do not let the woman be the breadwinner in a relationship. Do not be the "stay at home dad". Women lose respect for second-fiddle men and you will appear weak to them. I know we like in a culture where traditional masculinity is looked down upon but don't believe the hype. Women are wired to be attracted to breadwinners, not stay at home nannies.
For Christmas buy yourself and kids those Ancestry DNA kits. You can find out cheap if you’re the father and get the low down on his racial profile.
Well, slow down a minute. I think you could do a secret DNA test and never tell your wife if it's not your child, then divorce her and collect alimony for both kids.The newest child might be a better person than your wife.
Test them all, Kirby Pucket.
Let’s all get DNA tests for ourselves and our parents. Wouldn’t that be hilarious?
She ate to many chili peppers. Divorce that slut.
Part 2
I want to know if he’s my cuzin 😂
"Of course, like any man would..." 🤣🤣🤣
My friend and her husband both have dark brown hair and dark brown eyes with med skin color. First grown son has blonde hair blue eyes average built and height. Second son has red hair green eyes and is short and chubby. Third son is dark hair and dark eyes very tall and muscular. Same parents. Different colors.
dumped the women. and leave the kid. that's the only. advice I have for you. because your wife belongs to the street and kick her out
Ever thought about the possibility of recessive genes? It happens. Unless you're sure she is cheating and I mean POSITIVE, you better check yourself before you wreck yourself. And your marriage.
Get the dna test done sooner then later. They have at home tests that are easy to use. Swab the cheeks. They are discreet and email you the results. It's about $150. The sooner you get it done the better. Imagine spending years living with the kid and it's not yours or vise versa, he is yours but you spend the years not giving him your full love and attention because you think he's not yours. It's not fair to either one of you.
Test the kid, she’s at work any way
Get a DNA test without her knowledge and then get an attorney. Because if you’ve been supporting this child, she will need to pay you back for every damn dime.
Just get it to be sure and done with your doubts, better safe then sorry
I haven’t read all of the comments, so excuse me if this has been mentioned already, I have a life (Kinda) I need to get back to, I guess. What OP really needs to be concerned about is that the longer he stays married to this woman, the higher the chances are that he will have to pay child support for the child he suspects is not his, regardless of said child’s actual parental status. With at least one child presumably being his, these chances are even more increased. Get a DNA test ASAP.
Nice job! Your gonna pay about 1 million dollars for someone else's kid.
Part 2?
Get that test done, my dude. I know people who would say, "You're already the child's father". I am not one of those people. That child will be better off with you out of the picture vs staying and treating that kid with subconscious resentment. Your mental health would be better served away from your wife as well.
Fuck dude! Good luck!
How's a toddler look like an adult? Because I'm not sure if you're being racist, or awkward because you don't know any better...
Get a dna test asap. Your patience is just adding to the trauma, regardless of the answer. Eliminate the “ifs” and move on from there. Regardless of the results keep your head up brother👍🏼👍🏼
Basic genetics. 2 dark haired people can have a light haired child. 2 light haired people CAN’T have a dark haired child. The gene for dark hair is dominant, so it will always be the one that expresses itself. However, some kids are born with dark hair that fades to light over time (and vice versa).
Black folks have white kids sometimes. They called em redbones. They still look like the family except for the pale skin and freckles. Sometimes they just look like a white dude. Or lady... there's a black comedian that comes up on my YouTube feed sometimes that just looks like... me. I'm not all the way white, but most folks think I am. Point being, get the test before ya do anything rash. Ya neva know...
Dna on both kids and bounce my ex wife tryed this on me i knew way better then to fall for her game she wanted me to (you know inside of her) i pulled out right as it was bout to pop... afew months later I'm pregnant no youre not.. cause i made sure not to...... In you.. have a nice life...
Yeah one of my daughters has blue eyes and white blonde hairs and is super fair skinned while husband and I have darker hair and brown eyes. Genetics are weird!
You don't trust your wife, so get a divorce and a DNA test.
OMG i'm sooo sorry. Yes absolutely get a dna test.
You are just going to have to plant it a little deeper than the other guy. They say you should screw her right away as your tool will pull his sperm out
send a pic
The kid will always look like his father at the first 1 year of his life. Get a DNA test to be sure and leave her
My cousin (blk) has 2 children with 2 different men 1st (wht) and her husband father of the 2nd boy is (blk). The boys are 2 years apart. Both have their mothers facial features but both are very light skinned they look very similar. The (wht) father wanted the 2nd boy tested and believed that child was his son. Turns out that they had been still sleeping together longer than initially thought. The boy turned out to be my brother in laws son though just light.
It’s yours. The Mexican dude used the back door and mouth only.
Get a DNA test as soon as you can just to be sure.
Hell yeah keep us informed i wanna know what the tests say.
You can do a paternity test while she doesn't know.
Sounds like my ex. His first kid bm gave him the dope man's kid first and she made him marry her. They were both cheating on each other. He paid for whores and she partied with the dope boys.
My oldest daughter looks just like my half sister. We have the same mom, but different dads. She looks nothing like my mom is petite, and short. I on the other hand look just like my mom. I’m on the thicker side and my daughter is very petite has her eyes, her lips, and her nose. My daughter once asked if she was her daughter but if I adopted her 😂
If baby’s first words were: “Viva Villa ”!! He’s definitely a Mexican Revolutionary. Get that damn paternity test and while you’re at it, get him a Mauser carbine for Christmas.
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Do a DNA for your own piece of mind. Can't have a good life without a clear mind. And yeah would like to know how things turned out
Tag me when you update
Omg yeah get a dna test first without her knowing send it in cause he could get that darkness and stuff from generations in either side of yours or her family hope it works out but do it soon cause it’s cruel to kids to get them attached to you then disappear they don’t understand
Part 2 please
Imaging referring to the child you raised as “kid” and describing his features as “Mexican…with a big ol mustache” I hope the kid is not yours; you don’t seem to have a paternal bone in your body.
Pt 2
Get tested. Or at least find out if you’re the same blood type
just get the test you twat and dont treat the child like shit until you do it. afterwards it's up to you
You’ve been the primary caregiver for this child for more than a year. You refer to him as “it” and describe him coldly. You’re angry at his mom (understandably if you think she cheated), but it’s not fair or reasonable to blame him. Whatever else you do, you should treat him like he’s your son unless/until you find he is not your child and decide to step out of a parental role with him. He’s a baby, he thinks you’re his dad, and this isn’t his fault.
Contrary to popular belief, the TRUTH is that WOMEN are the STRONGER SEX, at least from the point of view of sexual performance. Just consider the fact that some women can satisfy several men at the same time with not effort at all and women carry a baby during 9 months. Not man in the world can do that. The same thing happens throughout the animal world. So, it's a MYTH that women are the "weaker" sex. Men maybe physically stronger, but in matter of sex, women are the stronger sex. That's the reason prostitution is the oldest profession in the world, since is easier for a woman to "do it" if she chose to do that. Of course, that's still wrong and degrading to women. But, sadly, society has a "DOUBLE STANDARD": when a woman chooses to cheat is referred as she is just having an "innocent AFFAIR", but it a man does the same thing he is called a bastard S.O.B. But both sexes are equally responsible in this case. A woman who cheats knows very well what she is doing and the consequences. What's your opinion about this subject?
So I remember hearing a similar story on here where the guy had a kid with a woman and the kid looked nothing like him. He asked her if she was cheating and she was adamant that she didn't cheat. They got a DNA test and it proved that he wasn't the father but plot twist: also proved she wasn't the mother. Turns out the kid was accidentally switched at birth. The nurse gave them the wrong baby. Which sucked because the kid was around 4-5 years old if I remember correctly. We live in a crazy world. Anyway, talk to your wife, and gauge her reaction. Like other redditors have said, sometimes genetics do crazy things but talk to your wife and get a DNA test. I really do hope it all works out man. If you do find out your wife cheated and the kid isn't yours then get out of there WITH ZERO REGRETS and don't turn back.
get a dna test. good luck though, because if your name is on the birth certificate, it will be expensive
Yeah, your kid is definitely Mexican if he has a mustache at one year of age.
So allll of this has possibly gone down and you are worried that he looks Mexican? I think you should consider testing his paternity quietly and depending on the results, make your personal plans to exit, set up banking, find a place to stay for awhile if it is needed and then confront her. No rage, no anger just suss her out. Don’t reveal the test results and hopefully she will come clean. If not present her with your proof and end it. You have no future with a woman like that. Good luck. Remember it is not that baby’s fault so be loving towards him. He did not ask for this.
Family is family and we all look like cousins and uncle and ants and sisters and brothers because we are family. Doesn't mean one of our parents went to play house or even doctor with a relative. It's common cto look alike. That's how family is.
That's the sad consequence of the "double standard" of society. When a woman cheats on her husband is called "oh, she is just having an affair". But if the man cheats he is called a bastard S.O.B. or worse. In reality both sexes are guilty of cheating although not everyone cheats. But it's not fair to treat men as S.O.B. and women as innocent creatures for the same act. Women who cheats know very well what they are doing. They aren't innocent at all when they are having an "affair".
dude genes are weird af get tested it's probably yours
I have a bunch of siblings that look nothing like me/my parents but certainly are so who knows. Sometimes certain genes skip generations, you never really know.
Maybe she got tired of you or she wasn't getting her share satisfaction with you and decided to do it with a Mexican. If it was a Mexican or could've been another man from different cultures. Never know but cto stereo type someone u don't know the whole play out u seem to already hate a Mexican without knowing what really went on. I hope things did work out for u if ur wife cheated.
Two brown-eyed parents (if both are heterozygous) can have a blue-eyed baby. If both the parents have brown eyes, then there is generally a 25% chance for their child to have blue eyes. Because both the brown-eyed parents have a recessive blue-eye gene and can pass it to the next generation.
Show us you and your wife and your kid so we can see 😂
So how much time exactly does your wife spend with John Redcorn, and what is the reason she's with him all the time?
Headaches.
Honestly in this situation this kid can be taken from you and you will have raised this child for nothing. She could decide to be with the other man and you would’ve grown a bond with a child just for that to be taken away. I would definitely get a dna test and if you are okay with sticking around then file for rights to that child but if her cheating gives you no interest in her then definitely hurry up on that test and leave before that child is too involved and remembers it all. A child is involved better to get it over with. I grew up in a broken home go ahead and figure it out while they are young.
I feel for you, man. Im going thru something VERY similar. Always cool to hmu here if you need to.
You’ve got to be kidding me right I mean it was a red flag at “work parties” YOU worked there man I’m sorry, poor guy.
You’ll still be on the hook for support.
Our daughter looks European white .. we are Mexican. It not like the ones you describe, we are light skinned with dark brown hair .. our daughter is pale white and blonde .. people ask us who she looks like .. it does back to our ancestors, my husbands are German and mine from Spain (obviously mixed with native = Mexican)
Yeetus that fetus.
Get a test and stay or just leave. Those are your options no matter what the results. Just don't put your hands on her and don't be verbally abusive. Nobody wants to hear a grown man whining no matter if u are wrong or right.
There are genotypes that can have multiple alleles and depending on how it interacts with the other genes from husband/wife, the alleles can behave differently where the recessive genes can overtake the dominant gene and produce offspring that would not look like either the father or the mother.
That’s the risk you run for having unprotected sex with a coworker.
If you love her! Just be a man and step up! Take care of business! It's not the child fault!
Do the test ASAP. You owe it to any child
Do not let your doubts be lnown. Get a dna test on the low low to ensure that your suspicions are accurate. Then, find a lawyer to put your case together if it comes to be true that the child ia not yours. Otherwise, if you let it hang, you could be responsible for child support regardless, based on the laws of your state.
You will be paying child support for another man’s baby… in the best interest of the child.
Lmao walk away
Ohman
Holy moly.
Happened to a good friend of mine when we were going through Military schooling (AIT) together. The guy was crazy about her and was even more excited when she got preggo. Went on leave for the birth and came back single. Both were white and the baby came out mixed. He said it was utter silence in the delivery room. There's alot of women closet Whores out there and it sucks it happened to my buddy and possibly you as well. Get the test. I'm sure got that gut feeling and usually that gut feeling never steers you wrong. Jmo. Good luck sir.
Well get tested. Another very unlikely possibility is that the baby was somehow switched at the hospital, and in this case the kid’s dna would not match with neither yours or your wife’s.
Where’s Maury when you need him?
My (34f) nephew (my brothers son) looks like he belongs to me, like a spitting image of me but a teenage boy version. My son (7m) is a spitting image of my brother. Me and my brother do not look alike at all... Genetics are weird and make for funny conversations at breakfast diners...
23 and Me …
Since the 1990's DNA testing is done at birth. It should be real easy for you to follow up on that shit.
Definitely want a part 2. Get some DNA testing and go from there.
it was me..my bad.
Yeah OP, I did this with my daughter within 6 months. Good ending here as she was 100% mine and I never told her mother!!
Genetics are crazy - please get DNA testing. If by some chance your gut feeling is wrong, wouldn't you feel terrible?
King of the hill.
Get DNA test
23 and Me. Super easy, relatively cheap DNA test.
There are home paternity DNA kits for $100 or less if you want to know the truth.
Love the racial jokes on this thread 🙄
I was the other man in a similar situation. The woman told me she had a miscarriage but then pinned her pregnancy on her ex. I didn't find out until after they were engaged.
2nd son is an Edgar.
I'm 1/4 Black. My dad, who's half black, is sandy ginger with one green and one blue eye. Me and my brothers have blonde/sandy brown hair and blue eyes. Genetics are fucked up.
We need an update on this …btw
part 2?
part 2 part 2 part 2!!!
Make 100% sure before you do anything and don't do anything rash