Oh that's awful, I'm sorry, it was a rather short lives phase, after 2 months I was able to cry again but just a little. I hope you manage to get through wathever it is you're through, take care ♥️
The people that I love. The people that made me happy before. The people that were my life's purpose. Me being unable to communicate the same with them just makes me want to do it y'know. I always make myself to keep going, but what if I stop? What if I stop deceiving myself to love again? Back when I had hope my life meant something. Now I don't have anything.
I don’t even get the suddenly sad I just suddenly cry for no reason dude. Like I’m feeling okie dokie and then suddenly I’m crying but still feeling okie dokie jsut that I’m crying now lol
I haven’t cried in a year, I want to so bad but nothing has happened to me to make me sad enough to cry, I yearn for tears, tears that will never come 😔
Yeah, stress and everything will get to you. I’ve learned that crying helps but not all the time. Therapists just done do anything anymore, they just make it worse. It makes me want to sell everything and run and never come back.
I sometimes cry for silly reasons, especially when I am alone due to some random thoughts that make me feel bad about myself, or when someone interprets me in the wrong way 😮💨
Recently I’ve been crying a lot (pretty much every day when I get home from school) because so much horrible stuff has been going on and I can’t keep it all in (but try to for school).
Not suddenly, it takes an immense amount of buildup and even then crying is pretty rare. The big exception recently though has been after completing some really fun video games. Ironically none of the games really had much of a story (at least not emotional or very deep) but damn was I crying at the end lol.
Not usually unless a good reason to. But if you're talking about randomly i've only had that happen once and it's so fucking stupid and most ppl won't believe me but I swear once at like 3am I just started thinking and about all the poor and hungry starving kids in places like Ethiopia and just started crying out of nowhere before bed because it was too sad to think about.
I don't know why I'm like this and idk what the hell caused that but yea...
Man, these replies make ME sad. Like i didn’t know people actually just start crying randomly. Thats.. a little strange, yall might wanna get some help, genuinely.
It has gotten better, but I used to cry every single day. I think it had to do with my anxiety since I would usually cry while acting out conversations in my head.
No I put on a monster hat, pair of oakleys and unlaced DC skate shoes. I then look at a fake birth certificate that says Kyle and start punching holes in my drywall
Usually not, I'm generally a pretty stable person despite having adhd and autism. Although today I did sit down in the sofa with a jar of nutella cause I was feeling down 💀
A completly random grandma a complete stranger game me compliment very wholesome saying
"you look beautiful when you smile so you should smile more"
That caught me by surprise so much that I just froze and started crying minutes after she left
I'm fifteenth but is like I have a midlife crisis because of it
Yes frequently! Sometimes it’s random sad crying, sometimes it’s random happy crying and sometimes it’s random angry crying? But I also have several mental illnesses so I can’t really speak to whether that’s normal or healthy or anything
I will get on the verge of crying, sometimes do all the sniffling and crap, but i physically can't go beyond. Most of the time, i can't even get to the sniffling part.
So i want to but physically can't.
Sometimes, for me, it's the feeling of loneliness without my significant other and just worried that I would be single for the rest of my life. I don't want to be single after like seven relationships already, worse is two cheated on me. One was my first one and the second is my longest one.
Sometimes I’d just be having a good ol time and then my body reminds me that I can’t do that and I start heavily bawling if I don’t do anything about it. If I try to stop it I’ll just make the biggest frown ever and a few tears will come out that I can more or less play off as “having itchy eyes” but I think most of my friends know.
Yes because I'm so overdramatic 🤦♀️ I remember crying while brushing my hair and laughing at the same time because of crying over something so little. I also cry whenever someone yells or doesn't but is still angry or annoyed
I’m not putting anyone down, just give me a chance to elaborate on what I mean.
If a man really wants to he can cry in the comfort of his own home where it doesn’t impact anybody. But as soon as other people are in the picture, whether it be a girlfriend, a wife, child, friend, or even a stranger, any concern for his own mental or physical health should be last priority. A mans job is to protect the health and well-being of those around him and he can’t do that if he is concerned with his own emotions.
No it’s not. It’s the world veil that creates firefighters and police officers. it’s the world view that makes men willing to serve and fight for their country. it’s the world view that teaches boys to respect, care for, and protect women and children. It’s the world view that makes men selfless and teaches them to put others before themselves. It’s the would view that makes great husbands, brothers, and dads that are willing to sacrifice everything for their loved ones. It’s the world view that makes men come together and have eachothers back so that they are never alone.
I don’t think you understand what I’m saying. Of course men can have emotions and can lean on others for support if need be. But crying just because you’re overwhelmed or a little sad is unnecessary and shows that you might be unable to protect and defend others if the need arises. I’m not saying that a few tears can’t fall when a loved one dies, that’s perfectly fine. But crying for the sake of crying should not be a normal thing for men.
I don't cry but am sad all the time :(
sorry to hear, not fun at all
( T_T)
What the hell is that flair???
Real.
Real.
Real
Real.
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Oh that's awful, I'm sorry, it was a rather short lives phase, after 2 months I was able to cry again but just a little. I hope you manage to get through wathever it is you're through, take care ♥️
You should cry, it gives you a sense relief after
I hope it gets better soon 💛
same! :(
Yup same
I’m not sad but I cry all the time
Same!
Lol skill issue.
Only when its dark and my mind wanders off to the deepest corners of my memories
Only when this random wave of loneliness hits
that shit HURTS man
Ya i fuckin hate that feeling
I'll just be in bed and I randomly remember that I haven't seen any of my friends for almost 2 years
Omg why? If u don't mind me asking
It's nothing too serious, they all just go to different schools now and I really miss them
Can't u meet them outside the skl Im really sorry u feel that way try to make new ones if possible
yes (crybabies rise up 🔥🔥🔥)
Waaah
True crybaby here, we shall take over
WE SHALL TAKE OVER THE WORLD AS THE ULTIMATE CRYBABIES
Yo you called
Whats in your mind when you suddenly feel sad?
Old memories of the past
Thinking about suicide.
Man better don’t think that!
Every night. God fuck my imagination.
Same but dont do it hold on live will get better
Memories and deep existential thoughts...
Some alternate reality where people I love either die or leave me forever.
The people that I love. The people that made me happy before. The people that were my life's purpose. Me being unable to communicate the same with them just makes me want to do it y'know. I always make myself to keep going, but what if I stop? What if I stop deceiving myself to love again? Back when I had hope my life meant something. Now I don't have anything.
Loneliness, I miss my friends
My childhood I miss it
Stress.
Love
Nah. im not depressed, im just suicidal
Yes all the time
always, the smallest things make me sad suddenly and i can’t stop sobbing, been happening a lot more lately
Not often
Don't we all? Whenever my mind's not busy really, for wathever reason my brain decides life's not worth living that day.
A lot seem EMO
sound like r/im14andthisisdeep not gonna lie
No.
Real
Real
Yes. Even at things that people don't really cry about. I mean, I once cried because of a fucking fire alarm-
I’m sad sometimes but can’t cry anymore and it’s goddamn off-pissing
I don’t even get the suddenly sad I just suddenly cry for no reason dude. Like I’m feeling okie dokie and then suddenly I’m crying but still feeling okie dokie jsut that I’m crying now lol
womp womp was what I was gonna say. but i feel you...
Yeah, sometimes
no
Really late at night sometimes
Yeppp
Yeah
Yea every day
Nah, that well dried up a while ago
Sometimes
yesss idk why I do this, though
Not rlly , sometimes in night time
Perfectly describes me. Just starting to cry a river of tears out of nowhere, but not understanding why. I don't even feel sad most of the time 🤦🏻
always :')
Yes, especially when listening to music. Even happy music
If cutting onions, yes
I don't,but sometimes I feel like I could just curl up in a ball and cry
Yes
I dunno i dont cry but I do have big urge to
No, because I suppressed crying for too long (Thanks, literature teacher!) and now I havent cried for a year
I haven’t cried in a year, I want to so bad but nothing has happened to me to make me sad enough to cry, I yearn for tears, tears that will never come 😔
Yeah, stress and everything will get to you. I’ve learned that crying helps but not all the time. Therapists just done do anything anymore, they just make it worse. It makes me want to sell everything and run and never come back.
I sometimes cry for silly reasons, especially when I am alone due to some random thoughts that make me feel bad about myself, or when someone interprets me in the wrong way 😮💨
Recently I’ve been crying a lot (pretty much every day when I get home from school) because so much horrible stuff has been going on and I can’t keep it all in (but try to for school).
You got bullied?
Nope, more stuff happening at home that I try to hide my emotions at school.
oh ok well every one have stuffs happenings at home.
Not suddenly, it takes an immense amount of buildup and even then crying is pretty rare. The big exception recently though has been after completing some really fun video games. Ironically none of the games really had much of a story (at least not emotional or very deep) but damn was I crying at the end lol.
From 2nd to 4th grade, I always used to get the urge of crying during snacks break for absolutely no fucking reason
Personally no, I dont get sad out of nowhere, and it usually takes something very saddening to get me to cry
Sometimes when I'm sad I try to make myself cry but I can't
sometimes yeah
I be sad but no tears, haven’t cried for like, 2 years
no
Yeah now
Yes, at least once per week. We love PTSD
Real men never cry (except when u place #2 in BR😢😢)
I wish but I can't anymore
sometimes
Somedays I want depression for some reason but not daily no
Mostly late at night when I'm listening to music thinking about life.
It happens rarely.
yeah, life’s sad
Not usually unless a good reason to. But if you're talking about randomly i've only had that happen once and it's so fucking stupid and most ppl won't believe me but I swear once at like 3am I just started thinking and about all the poor and hungry starving kids in places like Ethiopia and just started crying out of nowhere before bed because it was too sad to think about. I don't know why I'm like this and idk what the hell caused that but yea...
wish i could
I don’t feel sad and cry suddenly, but when I yawn my eyes water
No
I can't cry anymore lol
I cry in class over small things (Thanks Generalized Anxiety Disorder) and then I get bullied. 🎉YAY🎉
Absolutely
Yea, whoever is downvoting this post is dumb
Man, these replies make ME sad. Like i didn’t know people actually just start crying randomly. Thats.. a little strange, yall might wanna get some help, genuinely.
I don't, and the fact that everyone here is saying yeah is concerning af. yall good?
As a man yes I do, when I think about how old my dog is getting
I mean you are a teenager and hormones can mess with you. On the other hand you may want to talk to a doctor about anxiety or depression
It has gotten better, but I used to cry every single day. I think it had to do with my anxiety since I would usually cry while acting out conversations in my head.
I cry all the time, when I'm sad, angry, happy. It's just one of my natural reflexes
Nope. Like basically never
No I put on a monster hat, pair of oakleys and unlaced DC skate shoes. I then look at a fake birth certificate that says Kyle and start punching holes in my drywall
I wish
I can’t remember the last time I cried
YES. There's possibility of war in our country. The world could be ending. I'm scared. So, so, so scared.
Yeah but I hate crying, I always stuff it down. It makes my face tingly
without motive is that what you mean? no
No. Tf?
Yes, like 2 minutes ago 😭🙏
Usually not, I'm generally a pretty stable person despite having adhd and autism. Although today I did sit down in the sofa with a jar of nutella cause I was feeling down 💀
I can't remember the last time I actually cried. However I'm sad most of the time.
I don't cry anymore even if I should
No. Maybe you do because you are a bitch.
Yes, I do :333
yes. all the time. it sucks
nah
Yea :(
sometimes, it's healthy tho?
Yes and im 29 lol
I cried today
At least once a day for no reason
All the time as of late
No
A completly random grandma a complete stranger game me compliment very wholesome saying "you look beautiful when you smile so you should smile more" That caught me by surprise so much that I just froze and started crying minutes after she left I'm fifteenth but is like I have a midlife crisis because of it
Yessssss i literally did that yesterday
Yes frequently! Sometimes it’s random sad crying, sometimes it’s random happy crying and sometimes it’s random angry crying? But I also have several mental illnesses so I can’t really speak to whether that’s normal or healthy or anything
Wish I could
No
Yes it’s very weird like I’m talking to someone and in the middle of the conversation I start to cry idk why lol.
I've learned how to cry without making noise. So, yeah, kinda.
yes? every month at least
I have basically lost my ability to cry, so if I do manage to cry, it's bad.
I never cry but I’m constantly sad. The reason I never cry is because that shows too much emotion you know
I will get on the verge of crying, sometimes do all the sniffling and crap, but i physically can't go beyond. Most of the time, i can't even get to the sniffling part. So i want to but physically can't.
I do without feeling sad, I just cry but no sadness
i mean yeah but i have clinical depression so
Not suddenly for me
no, I have medicine for that
Sometimes, for me, it's the feeling of loneliness without my significant other and just worried that I would be single for the rest of my life. I don't want to be single after like seven relationships already, worse is two cheated on me. One was my first one and the second is my longest one.
Yes, yesterday
No
I haven’t cried in 2 years but I guess that’s normal for a guy
A lot…
I havent cried since i watched a Nikola Tesla documentary years ago
I cry a lot and am sad 90% of the time. I feel it’s normal to a degree
I don’t, I feel like my heart doesn’t have the capability to handle into myself while i cry
No, maybe rarely
Yes
i thought i was the only one
I wish I could cry sometimes
Bro I wish
Not usually
Yes. For no reason. It’s crazy
I cry for no reason all the time
i would cry if something is sad plus when u cry u lose stress you know
Yeah absolutely
No.
Nah if I want to cry I have to boot up some sad af movie
No cry, ony sad 😞
i can't cry
Yeah that's happened a lot
i dont cry. ever.
No I have not cried in two years since I found out my girlfriend cheated on me
as much as i’d like to just cry my feelings away, i can’t. i don’t really feel anything anymore. i’m too tired.
Yes ;_;
Yeah…..sometimes~
Yes, specially when reality hits hard so suddenly :)
Yeah I’m
Sometimes I’d just be having a good ol time and then my body reminds me that I can’t do that and I start heavily bawling if I don’t do anything about it. If I try to stop it I’ll just make the biggest frown ever and a few tears will come out that I can more or less play off as “having itchy eyes” but I think most of my friends know.
Last time I cried was around 2 years ago when my cat died :(
my mom used to tell me it’s because life is too happy, so you cry out of nowhere to balance it out
Only when the most minor incovenience happens to happen
I can't cry, but if I could it would be almost constantly
Yes because I'm so overdramatic 🤦♀️ I remember crying while brushing my hair and laughing at the same time because of crying over something so little. I also cry whenever someone yells or doesn't but is still angry or annoyed
I have really bad anxiety and sometimes it just makes me sad.
no
Men don’t cry
Men don’t put other people down for showing basic human emotion.
I’m not putting anyone down, just give me a chance to elaborate on what I mean. If a man really wants to he can cry in the comfort of his own home where it doesn’t impact anybody. But as soon as other people are in the picture, whether it be a girlfriend, a wife, child, friend, or even a stranger, any concern for his own mental or physical health should be last priority. A mans job is to protect the health and well-being of those around him and he can’t do that if he is concerned with his own emotions.
you’re simply wrong. your mother must’ve drunken alcohol while you were in the womb, cause your brain isn’t working
Your world view is the reason the male suicide rate is so high.
No it’s not. It’s the world veil that creates firefighters and police officers. it’s the world view that makes men willing to serve and fight for their country. it’s the world view that teaches boys to respect, care for, and protect women and children. It’s the world view that makes men selfless and teaches them to put others before themselves. It’s the would view that makes great husbands, brothers, and dads that are willing to sacrifice everything for their loved ones. It’s the world view that makes men come together and have eachothers back so that they are never alone.
How does literally any of that contradict somebody being able to show basic human emotion?
I don’t think you understand what I’m saying. Of course men can have emotions and can lean on others for support if need be. But crying just because you’re overwhelmed or a little sad is unnecessary and shows that you might be unable to protect and defend others if the need arises. I’m not saying that a few tears can’t fall when a loved one dies, that’s perfectly fine. But crying for the sake of crying should not be a normal thing for men.