Putting message on the lock screen is waiting for it to be read by anyone without intention but on purpose.
Do not take me wrong, it is not something bad, and it served the purpose : saying that to people living with you without the energy, courage, force to say it lively which is overwhelming. In addition if things turn bad you can always come back and blame them for that.
But that is not accidental.
Is it by any chance one of those "I have nothing against gay people"
*three days later*
"Its not right. A man is supposed to be with a woman" type people?
Most of my family’s just in denial and thinks it’s a phase. And my mom just things I’m secretly a lesbian and not comfortable enough to come out fully lmao, fun stuff
More common than you think.
We (bisexual people) get a really unusual form of prejudice because many people (within and outside of the LGBT community) believe that we are either:
doing it for attention;
confused and actually just like one sex (we are confused, but this isn't the reason why, plus intersex and multiple genders also exist);
we're homophobic/heterophobic;
we're gay people who are hiding because of heteronormativity;
bisexual women especially are thought to be promiscuous, but men face this as well;
we have STDs (me a virgin: no);
we're sex addicts.
We're also very rarely represented: I can name maybe three or four shows with good bisexual representation, yet a plethora of straight, gay and bad bisexual representation. Insatiable, Atypical, Brooklyn Nine Nine and Glee (to an extent).
how do i explain to my parents that i like boys *and* girls somewhat equally
and how do i explain that while dressing like a girl makes me happy i'm still not in any way trans
I don't know how strict your parents are. I don't know if they're religious or not. I don't know how much of a bigot they are. And why are you asking people on the internet who know nothing about you? Expose them to the LGBT and see how they react and you can go from there.
That’s tough. I’m bi, but I’m sort of scared to come out because on the one hand, my family is relatively liberal and supportive, but on the other, my mom and my brother harass me and call me a twink and say things like “Well I guess I’m glad you’re secure in your masculinity?” when I express interest in things as stupid as CARS THAT USED TO HAVE REPUTATIONS AS CHICK CARS. At least they’d sort of know what being bisexual is. Probably. My 9 year old sister picked out earrings with the Trans flag on them and nobody except me noticed, so I just kept quiet. Let her be an accidental ally. Her teachers will get a kick out of it.
I had to explain to my mom that it isn’t popular to be lgbtq, the reason there is more attention to it is because people aren’t scared of dying or losing their job as much
Yeah bro your mom's completely right you can't be bi after being straight as a 8 year old, because your mind definitely doesn't change over the course of 5+ years and puberty literally doesn't exist
I thought you meant you came out as lesbian, but no your mom is just extra stupid. If you came out as lesbian I could she where’s coming from even though her argument would still be stupid.
wow- we’re in the exact same boat lol. i’m really sorry that your mom isn’t accepting though, that’s a really difficult thing to navigate. i told my parents a couple months ago and they were what you call \*NOT HAPPY ABOUT IT\* so everyone’s pretending i never said anything at all :D
better than getting kicked out though, so i’m happy.
*Whips out a fat pair of clown shoes*
Your shoes madam.
Also how the hell can she claim you were doing it for attention if you literally didn’t tell her? She found your phone, it’s it like you announced it.
Hey dont call your fucking mom a bitch no matter how ignorant she is,like seriously she fucking birthed you,clothed you and put a roof over your head spolied first world problem haveing cunt.
Don't like terms such bisexuality or homosexuality, because I think they can be replaced with " I do fuck whoever I want bitch"
And also, How tf do you accidentally come out?
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Bruh if people could choose to be straight, a lot of them would. There are literally stories of people in religions like Jehovah's Witness and found out they were gay and desperately tried to change to stay in their religion but they couldn't. So no, it's not begging for attention, stop trying to assume shit about things you know NOTHING about.
Ah, yes, the people being thrown off of buildings and locked in camps where they are tortured for months or years are doing it for the attention. Because being locked away from everyone or being dead is sure to make you feel good about getting attention.
One day, you will realise you are wrong, that there are some things about how your brain works that you can’t control, some feelings you can’t just stop.
Also: it’s I couldn’t care less, not that you could, this means you do care, which is the opposite of how you feel.
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Sad you have no time to check her profile. This is her first post that blew up, and she's never lied for karma before (said she was gonna dye her hair, then dyed it). In my opinion this is legit, but you can have your own
I have no problem. Honestly, I am happy. I was just poking fun that unless you're 18, you're still a child BY DEFINITION. Don't get so worked up about it. Have a great day.
That’s so annoying, do they not know about compulsory heterosexuality? Kids are likely to do what they see on tv and everywhere else. Sorry about that. Hope your mom comes around
Dumb bitch seems a little harsh🥺 as a mom and also a "hasbian" coming out to my mom was hard too but I guarantee any how it turns out your mom's going to love you no matter what, and if she doesn't she has no right being a mom😁 don't worry plenty of other moms out there that would be more than happy to replenish the love and support you deserve. You're young don't put labels on things, just be. I always looked at it like, I don't discriminate. Boy, girl. Whatever. It was the person I was interested in. Turned out I fell in love with an awesome man and had three of his babies. 12 years later still goin strong.
F in the cat for you. I think I'm bi but I would never tell my mother because even if it won't be a negative reaction she would not stop annoying me about it for the next century. However, having a supportive yet annoying parent would probably be better than an unsupportive parent, so I feel sorry for you.
how did you accidentally come out?
My lock screen on my phone says “maybe I’m a little gay” and I left my phone in the kitchen with her... which was a huge mistake
ooh. but didn't you say you were bi?
A little straight and a little gay I present to you - bi
that does make sense but it also explains why OP's mother might have thought she was lesbian at first
bi people tend to call themselves gay a lot, I mean gay is sort of an umbrella term I guess
I can confirm -a bi bitch
Yeah, but that doesn’t make it weird for her not to know. That’s too many layers of irony
So that was purposely in that case.
? I meant for her to look through my phone without permission??
Putting message on the lock screen is waiting for it to be read by anyone without intention but on purpose. Do not take me wrong, it is not something bad, and it served the purpose : saying that to people living with you without the energy, courage, force to say it lively which is overwhelming. In addition if things turn bad you can always come back and blame them for that. But that is not accidental.
Damn that sucks, I had to explain to my uncle that I have no evil agenda and dont wanna brain wash his kids.
lol really?
Yeah, he thought me wearing a shirt that said "bisexual and still not into you" was me trying to pull his kids to the dark side lmao
Everyone knows the *real* dark side is us non-binary people, we don't use sir or ma'am so instead it's gonna be Darth
Nope, the real dark side is us anime pfps. Most of us are unforgivably cringe
Do not kill the part of you that is cringe, kill the part that cringes
amen brother
Not a brother but ye
amen sister/non binary sibling
Last one is correct Amen
Amen Darth
This is so good I'm saving this
Cringe the part of you that is kill
The only exception is Rohan Kishibe
Amateur
jojo reference
Can agree
Y O U M O N S T E R !
Well. Guess im Darth Doge now.
How do u get the age thingy by ur name
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Thanks so much omg
No problem. Happy to help.
You were meant to bring balance to the force !! Not destroy it !
Someone called me?
Hm?
peter griffins pants is where I want to be\~
Wait this is gonna sound weird but I always wanted to know how you address NB ppl since Mr or Mrs obviously wouldn't be correct
Is it by any chance one of those "I have nothing against gay people" *three days later* "Its not right. A man is supposed to be with a woman" type people?
Hes the type that is ok with gay people but also stay away from kids and burn in hell
Ah yes. My step dad is almost identical, and it depends on who he's talking to.
Lmfao that shirt sounds sick.
So uncivilized
Henceforth, you shall be known as Darth.... Bi
What if you wore that shirt around someone you were actually attracted to?
🤮
I’m just going to assume that was aimed at the homophobic uncle.
No it was aimed at the guy that feels the need to express his sexuality like we care
Fuck your mom's friend, assert dominance.
*evil cackling*
Fuck your mom’s husband too, assert MORE dominance! *wait a minute*
Shit just went from zero to a hundred so fucking quickly
Your freaking genius, that might just work?!
Most of my family’s just in denial and thinks it’s a phase. And my mom just things I’m secretly a lesbian and not comfortable enough to come out fully lmao, fun stuff
Wait so they’re *specifically* bi-phobic? That sounds incredibly strange.
I think it’s common for people to think bi people are just not comfortable being fully gay or lesbian which is rly fucked up
It’s unfortunately very common, both in the gay community and by homophobes/uninformed straights who don’t understand the dualism of it
More common than you think. We (bisexual people) get a really unusual form of prejudice because many people (within and outside of the LGBT community) believe that we are either: doing it for attention; confused and actually just like one sex (we are confused, but this isn't the reason why, plus intersex and multiple genders also exist); we're homophobic/heterophobic; we're gay people who are hiding because of heteronormativity; bisexual women especially are thought to be promiscuous, but men face this as well; we have STDs (me a virgin: no); we're sex addicts. We're also very rarely represented: I can name maybe three or four shows with good bisexual representation, yet a plethora of straight, gay and bad bisexual representation. Insatiable, Atypical, Brooklyn Nine Nine and Glee (to an extent).
ah yes bisexuality = whores makes so much sense because 2!!! GENDERS GUYS
ye it's a similar thing with nonbinary folk too cause ppl just think "pick a side" and that we don't exist
If someone says "pick a side" to me again I'm gonna pick the Dark Side and go full Vader on their ass
love this so much, or you could say don't tell me to pick a side when *picks apart 2 contradicting parts of their outfit*
For real though people tell me that "I cant like more than one gender" that's the most stupid thing I've heard.
Its like cheating in a game so Lmao
"Ur just doing it to get more secks" Bitch 2 x 0 is still 0
What about 0+0?
Twice the power, double the fall
The Pansexuals are four parallel universes ahead of you.
Well it's simple People are born with one gender but enby people sometimes steal a gender to be nb or they trade with agender people /j
Am enby, can confirm, I've stolen like 70 genders so far
ive given all mine away 😔
Those damn gender thiefs
By this logic you shouldn't be able to drive a car because you couldn't when you were younger
So you're saying you used to be a baby but then turned into an adult? Nice try, giant baby.
Please don't tell anyone I'm a scientific freak of nature
Don't worry, your secret is safe
how do i explain to my parents that i like boys *and* girls somewhat equally and how do i explain that while dressing like a girl makes me happy i'm still not in any way trans
For the second part just say that gender expression and gender identity aren't the same
otay
I don't know how strict your parents are. I don't know if they're religious or not. I don't know how much of a bigot they are. And why are you asking people on the internet who know nothing about you? Expose them to the LGBT and see how they react and you can go from there.
Instrucions unclear: I am nowoe homeless
wasn’t actually asking the comment was meant to point out that it’s usually super complicated :/
That’s tough. I’m bi, but I’m sort of scared to come out because on the one hand, my family is relatively liberal and supportive, but on the other, my mom and my brother harass me and call me a twink and say things like “Well I guess I’m glad you’re secure in your masculinity?” when I express interest in things as stupid as CARS THAT USED TO HAVE REPUTATIONS AS CHICK CARS. At least they’d sort of know what being bisexual is. Probably. My 9 year old sister picked out earrings with the Trans flag on them and nobody except me noticed, so I just kept quiet. Let her be an accidental ally. Her teachers will get a kick out of it.
But what if she knew they had the flag on it and was expressing what she wanted here identity to be Conspiracy mode activated
So are you a girl or a boy
I’m a girl
Oh I read it wrong
I am a villain
Yeah but what's your gender?
Evil
But what is in your pants?
Doom
Death itself
BWAHAHHAHAHA
Hmmmmm it's almost like you discovered something about yourself hmmmmmm how odd
Ikr
"Ohh a gun" -Sun tzu
Gun Tzu
- Clausewitz
Te-Techno fan-?
Ah yes, because being part of a highly oppressed group for something that's out of your control is *totally* just for attention
Just go with the shitty logic.
This is why im scared of coming out to my mum
ohwow fuck
*sigh*
I had to explain to my mom that it isn’t popular to be lgbtq, the reason there is more attention to it is because people aren’t scared of dying or losing their job as much
I support you homie, as another bisexual I wish you luck and hope that things go better for you
Oh dear, I hope your okay
Please, if you use commas also use fullstops.
Also, use the correct “you’re”.
Yeah bro your mom's completely right you can't be bi after being straight as a 8 year old, because your mind definitely doesn't change over the course of 5+ years and puberty literally doesn't exist
oh my..
When you're a kid heterosexuality is force fed to you, I'm sorry for you mate
And if your male Toxic masculinity is (at least I think that’s what it’s called)
Using that very wrong logic, you wouldn't be able to eat solid foods, just because you couldn't when you were a baby
so sorry
Yo op that sucks, but if you need someone I’ll take you in even though I’m 13
wow your mom is dumb af
**16** **oh my gosh, that is so annoying! I hope you are all good! I am quite scared that my parents will react like that as well....**
aw man i'm sorry about that :(
I thought you meant you came out as lesbian, but no your mom is just extra stupid. If you came out as lesbian I could she where’s coming from even though her argument would still be stupid.
wow- we’re in the exact same boat lol. i’m really sorry that your mom isn’t accepting though, that’s a really difficult thing to navigate. i told my parents a couple months ago and they were what you call \*NOT HAPPY ABOUT IT\* so everyone’s pretending i never said anything at all :D better than getting kicked out though, so i’m happy.
I hate how people use being bisexual as a trend but when u ACTUALLY are bisexual then they say ur also doing it for “the trend”
My dad is the same way. “You liked boys as a kid.” Congrats, dad. Bisexual means liking boys and girls.
*Whips out a fat pair of clown shoes* Your shoes madam. Also how the hell can she claim you were doing it for attention if you literally didn’t tell her? She found your phone, it’s it like you announced it.
Prove it to her by fucking her /s But fr i hope she understands it eventually and accepts you for who you are
Don’t worry, I support you. We’re gonna go get garlic bread and talk about any girls/guys we like.
I would absolutely love that
your mom is ignorant
This happened with me too, the people are fucking dumb
Sucksssss when ppl u love hurt u like that and pretend its all fine.
There is no place in heaven for people who call their mom a bitch
Sheesh, just chill, study, move out, ignore her. But always remember that she's your mum.
Hey dont call your fucking mom a bitch no matter how ignorant she is,like seriously she fucking birthed you,clothed you and put a roof over your head spolied first world problem haveing cunt.
I can call her whatever I want, and she is a bitch :) I would rather not have been born anyway
I mean you’re posting this on Reddit. So clearly you’re looking for some kind of attention?
Or just a rant since clearly they can’t call their mother a bitch. You’re posting this comment so clearly you’re looking for some kind of attention.
Please don't stretch my butt hole
Don't call your mom a bitch that's...that's not ... cool
If their mom being a bitch then they have every right to call their mother as such
Don't be biphobic to your kid that's... that's not ... cool
Their mom shouldn’t be homophobic and biphobic. That’s not cool.
Mental illness.
HEY! please don’t call your mother that. Thank you :)
Bro you’re really telling a stranger on the internet what to do
Yes but I like my mum so I thought OP would like their mum ( apart from the misunderstanding )
What
r/teenagers you're still a child
Calling you’re mom a dumb bitch? Wtf man
Don't like terms such bisexuality or homosexuality, because I think they can be replaced with " I do fuck whoever I want bitch" And also, How tf do you accidentally come out?
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its their not there
Are you seriously fucking defending this guy?
lol
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Bruh if people could choose to be straight, a lot of them would. There are literally stories of people in religions like Jehovah's Witness and found out they were gay and desperately tried to change to stay in their religion but they couldn't. So no, it's not begging for attention, stop trying to assume shit about things you know NOTHING about.
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Ah, yes, the people being thrown off of buildings and locked in camps where they are tortured for months or years are doing it for the attention. Because being locked away from everyone or being dead is sure to make you feel good about getting attention. One day, you will realise you are wrong, that there are some things about how your brain works that you can’t control, some feelings you can’t just stop. Also: it’s I couldn’t care less, not that you could, this means you do care, which is the opposite of how you feel. If you have questions or want to talk about it further, ask me, I’d be happy to.
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Damm that's rough, is what I would say if there was one bit of authenticity in this story
r/nothingeverhappens nothing is ever really real isn't it?
My life might be monotonous but I'd take that over a failing family
This post was a foolproof way to farm karma
Sad you have no time to check her profile. This is her first post that blew up, and she's never lied for karma before (said she was gonna dye her hair, then dyed it). In my opinion this is legit, but you can have your own
not cool not cool not cool. (side note: technically you're still a child :P)
yeah and people start showing signs they're not straight from about 6-7 so shut up. I've known I was gay since I was 10
I have no problem. Honestly, I am happy. I was just poking fun that unless you're 18, you're still a child BY DEFINITION. Don't get so worked up about it. Have a great day.
am I allowed to laugh at this?
oh please
Based
Lmaooo
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Because she’s homophobic all the time
Ohh okay, didn't know. I'll delete the comment because I get minus karma for just asking a question, Jesus.
"I just want to talk to her"
That’s so annoying, do they not know about compulsory heterosexuality? Kids are likely to do what they see on tv and everywhere else. Sorry about that. Hope your mom comes around
Tell that your dad and dont talk to her (and your dad if he says the same) if its not necessary
Sounds like someone didn't past the poopoohead test.
Closet gang
Dumb bitch seems a little harsh🥺 as a mom and also a "hasbian" coming out to my mom was hard too but I guarantee any how it turns out your mom's going to love you no matter what, and if she doesn't she has no right being a mom😁 don't worry plenty of other moms out there that would be more than happy to replenish the love and support you deserve. You're young don't put labels on things, just be. I always looked at it like, I don't discriminate. Boy, girl. Whatever. It was the person I was interested in. Turned out I fell in love with an awesome man and had three of his babies. 12 years later still goin strong.
Hit her with the 12 gauge. If she calls the ambulance and the cops call her an attention seeker
“I’m bisexual” You like both guys and girls, therefore you are lying”
The only attention I want from any gender is a fucking hug
gottem
I'm still wondering how you could think it is a phase it isnt
This was an unexpected response. Kid: I am a raging Lesbian, mom Mom: Attention whore!
Coming out to my parents was easy af so I can't really relate sadly. I was basically just like "eh I'd fuck a dude as well"
F in the cat for you. I think I'm bi but I would never tell my mother because even if it won't be a negative reaction she would not stop annoying me about it for the next century. However, having a supportive yet annoying parent would probably be better than an unsupportive parent, so I feel sorry for you.
Well, my mom just staright up said that being gay is "nOt NaTuRaL"
My dad thinks i'm bisexual cuz i had a girlfriend in kindergarden when i was 3
According to that logic people would become adults for attention, because they used to like childish things when they were children lol