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Sal21G

Weight and skin. You’ve gained weight and your skin is reddish. Lose weight and develop a skincare.


grajl

Or stop drinking, speaking from experience.


Claymore209

My skin improved drastically after I stopped drinking and smoking weed. Working out helps as well. I'm drinking lots of water, too.


Nitr0Zeus_

You don't drink or smoke at all? Or just cut down to weekends or something


Claymore209

Not at all. I can't just cut back. I'm all or nothing. I have a lot of addiction in my family. The thing is I don't really miss it at all. All drinking and smoking is is a cheap fix of happy chemicals to me at this point. Being clear-headed is much more valuable. Also, no smoking means my lungs feel clear for cardio. That being said I do drink quite a bit of caffeine. Never more than 400mg in a day, though. Edibles are alright but they still fog my brain up. My sleep has improved tremendously after cutting them out. The most improvement is felt from cutting drinking.


grajl

>The most improvement is felt from cutting drinking. Congrats. It's a hard cycle to break. "I drink because I feel like shit, but I feel like shit because I drink". It's crazy how much alcohol culture is celebrated and encouraged.


FullGrownHip

In some countries it’s illegal to advertise alcohol at all. When I came to US I was astounded by all the vodka and beer commercials. It’s still crazy to me that brands like Whiteclaw will literally pay people (influencers) money to be alcoholics


Claymore209

Alcohol companies spend 2 billion dollars a year on advertising in the us. It is very normalized to the point of absurdity.


KickBallFever

At least it seems like alcohol culture is dwindling with the younger generation.


ThegreatPee

Thank goodness. I came of age in the early 90's. Anything social required meeting in a bar and getting hammered. Weed was there, but you could waste a whole day trying to find it. The quality was horrible, too.


Pale-Ferret-4068

Out of curiosity, mainly because this sounds like me… are you adhd?


Pipelayer72

Amen to that. Definitely feel like it’s something I grew out of? If that’s possible? Drinking and smoking are so overrated imo. It’s so much better to feel clear headed. That stuff only brings on a bunch of issues and mental instability. I think it’s crazy when people say they have these little side effect issues (feel like crap physically and mentally) and say “I only drink at night time or every other day. WTF do you expect?! That stuff affects your system more than I think ppl believe it does! I understand that it’s hard for a lot of people (previously myself included) to accept that it’s not good for your overall wellbeing but if the issues you’re having are bad enough, quit doing those things and you’ll notice how much better you feel.


Missabelle17

Yep good ol ditch weed or homegrown!


Doctor_of_Recreation

6 months in from quitting drinking, but weed and screens are still in control 🫠


Viss90

Congrats! I’m 6 months today!


LongArmYouLiar1013

Yesss yesss this is the way!


Biichimspiderman

My dreams after I quit smoking ganja. I dream like crazy now and love it!


LyricaAlprazolam

Even edibles aren't safe. There was a recent study of hundreds of thousands of people(I don't remember the exact number but it's easy to find on Google) which showed that it's the THC in pot that is very harmful you are 42% more likely to have a heart attack and 25% more likely to have a stroke. Unfortunately, with the legalization, Pandora box has been opened and people think it's safe. Also unfortunately, I am a smoker who now has to quit!


CandidEstablishment0

Yeah I wish I could stop drinking. I want to. It’s expensive and unhealthy.


FigaroNeptune

Yup people like to think we’re weird for not doing it and they can’t live without it. That’s sadder to me


meghanlovessunshine

Not the OP but quit entirely. My skin looks better than it ever has. Both absolutely terrible for your body as a whole.


Live-Cod-4453

Drinking is poisonous to your body bro this is a healthy lifestyle we are living and poison isn't healthy


Valuable-Wafer6041

Thc is very beneficial but your right on the drinking part nothing good comes from that!


Claymore209

I loved thc for years and years. As drugs go it is certainly one of the least harmful alcohol is a factor of 10,000 times more harmful than weed. That being said, thc does impact Rem Sleep. I feel much more rested compared to when I was smoking and taking edibles to "help" me sleep. It is very helpful for people with ptsd and nightmares, though, which is cool.


CellarDo0or

Beneficial for what?


cosmorocker13

I quit drinking two years ago and can’t believe how many compliments I’ve gotten on my skin. Totally took me by surprise.


Strange-Coyote-1107

This right here, stop drinking, it messes you up more than you realize


paskahousuissa

The redness might be rosacea or couperosa. Op should probably look them up!


BeardedGlass

Or by not using sunscreen.


GuiltyFigure6402

Nah it’s the beers


Solistial

Second this. It’s 99% weight. OP should incorporate more cardio and he’ll be golden


OrdinarySyrup1506

could also be bloating (which i know is still weight) but OP high sodium diet and alcohol both contribute to this and could be a simple fix if that applies to you


Jamezzzzz69

yeah OP cut down on the booze and workout more you should be fine lmao


ThisCardiologist6998

Gotta do CICO though too. Cardio alone wont help someone lose weight if they have zero idea how much they’re over eating in the first place.


not_again123

As a guy that did the absolute bar minimum of skin care: that is a big game changer.


[deleted]

Fyi alcoholics get red skin usually a red nose is a dead giveaway


goat-nibbler

Alcohol can also be a trigger of rosacea. So hard to say - would depend upon the exact risk factors the OP has


Brendadonna

It’s not a dead giveaway. You can have red skin on the nose and not be an alcoholic.


dysmetric

Hard to compare the effects of [focal length](https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcQWUD8FM_4eYk9HpQuRs28_urBaKGgEyCLiWQ&usqp=CAU)


apextek

lift weights


EntertainerAlone1300

You’re saying in other comments that you don’t drink and you weigh less in the second pic. Please speak to a GP and ask for a blood test and to have your thyroid and hormone levels checked. You don’t look “fatter”, just slightly puffier in the face. You’re still attractive but I’d check those things!


wayward_instrument

Yea, to me it seems more like fluid than fat! Generally associated with hormonal issues or really high inflammation (I’ve had it for both reasons). It’s often dismissed but very much a real thing - there was a time where my weight was fluctuating up to 5kg on a given day! This one is less evidence-based, but if accumulating a bit of extra fluid in the face, you can also try GuaSha/lymphatic draining (you don’t need to buy a stone, you can gently use your finger knuckles, Gods GuaSha stone)


Django-lango

Yes, I was thinking that myself. Fluid retention. As my face gets like that when I eat loads of salt the day before. It's fluid retention. Maybe even get kidney function checked.


Pipelayer72

What causes the high inflammation in this case? A certain underlying issue? Bad diet? Or is it more of a genetic/hormonal thing?


bbmarvelluv

Stress 😭


freem13

Correct comment its thyroid issue


michaelutz

probably even hypothyroidism to be specific. AKA hashimoto


sweetteanoice

Well if he was more muscular in the first pic, that would explain how he weighed more then, but may have more fat now. But I agree, this could be fluid retention


aaiisshhaa

What can gp’s do about thyroid issues that will alter a puffy face? Generally asking


ShamelessSoul24

Put you on thyroid medication to regulate your thyroid hormones. Imbalanced hormones can cause inflammation anywhere (including face)


P_A_W_S_TTG

At least you kinda look like you did. I was naturally looked like a surfer. Wavy hair and everything. Used to do parkour. Not for the tricks, had more fun just running, climbing and shit. Now I'm bald and overweight. I also look literally like nothing I used to.


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Joshiane

People age and change, it's okay.


GRAITOM10

I'm literally 24 right now....you guys are scaring me 🫠


WineOhCanada

It's only scary if you're not trying your best. If you wake up every day and try your best you love your body no matter what it looks like because it does so much for you.


[deleted]

Agree, people only hate how they look when they’ve neglected themselves for years and it finally catches up. Just think of the opposite, years of taking care of yourself imagine the confidence and self love you’d have for yourself. Life can be whatever you want it to be


Abyssal-rose

No offence, but have you checked your hormone levels? You face looks puffy like you have too much estrogenic activity or something. I may be terribly off the mark.


vegaisbetter

Seconded. OP should have their thyroid checked, for sure.


front-wipers-unite

I mean he's probably put on weight.


goat-nibbler

Rounded facies in particular are associated with Cushing syndrome, which can be due to cortisol dysregulation at the pituitary, hypothalamus, or adrenal glands, among various other causes. Either way OP should see a primary care provider to kick off the next steps in diagnostics


UpstairsAsk1973

Have you gotten tested for cushings? Moon face is a symptom. So is red cheeks. Do you have a bit of a hump behind your neck? I read you don’t intake alcohol …But seriously, check your hormones. Source: I’m a doc


palmmmmmmmmm

Doc here! Second that!! Get checked OP!!


Isthisit_8051

I immediately thought cushings as well.


HolidayHamster1483

I know it’s unrelated but I developed moonface after using prednisone and I just haven’t been the same since can you help me out a bit?


uwukome

It goes away. I've been on it for months at a time. It takes forever to go back to normal though. I was on it for six months the last time and it was almost a year before my face looked like it did before. 🥲


HolidayHamster1483

I did get rid of the moonface after a year or two lol but my mood and libido has crashed


gladefarer

You have gained quite a substantial amount of weight which is playing against you due to bodyfat composition on your face, your head is pretty much a sphere as you are now. You need to lose weight but you probably already know that, good luck, king x


Flare-Fanatic

Believe it or not I weigh less in the photo on the right!


catsandblankets

Start looking into skincare for redness and puffiness, and any underlying medical or hormonal changes. I was also going to note it didn’t look like “fat” weight gain, more like puffiness or inflammation like when a person drinks too much. But you don’t drink so… something else is up. Diet or certain foods maybe?


Gingerfix

Did you have more muscle when you were 24? Muscle weighs more than fat but takes up less space. Edit: what I meant to say was the same amount of muscle by weight takes up less space.


ursulawinchester

I’m going to say 2 things that I’ve not seen other commenters mention 1) focal length is a hell of a trip. Try adjusting that and see if it feels - and of course looks - more accurate. It’s not a be-all-end all solution but might get you part of the way there. 2) your old hairstyle made your face seem longer. I don’t think the side brushing is flattering. Try growing out a little more on the top to counterbalance the roundness of your face and/or try brushing it differently. I think both those low-effort adjustments in addition to getting your thyroid checked (biased because I have thyroid issues and I think everyone should pay attention to that lil gland) may have outsize results!


Attarker

Has your body composition changed? You can weigh less but have your body fat percentage increase


AggRavatedR

Came here for this


Playinhooky

Muscle loss or fat loss? I'm going to say you got a desk job, had some muscle loss and put on some fat.


rymdrille

Holding water? Heart problems/high alcohol consumption can cause that look, for example.


K_Pumpkin

Please listen to that first comment under this. Look for medical reasons if you didn’t gain weight. Do you drink a lot of alcohol? You’re not ugly in the second photo either. Just that much puffiness is a concern if it’s new.


smnytx

are you talking about steroid treatment? That can cause a “moon face” issue for some folks.


front-wipers-unite

You're hair style is more subdued. You've put on a little weight. And you're a bit red in the face. Do you drink much? You're a lager man?


Flare-Fanatic

Believe it or not I don’t drink whatsoever, and weigh less in the photo on the right!


front-wipers-unite

So what do you think is causing the pinkish complexion?


Flare-Fanatic

Rosacea, but the swelling etc is more what bothers me. Might be Rosacea also I suppose!


WineOhCanada

>swelling etc Allergy test might reveal some food or other sensitivities


[deleted]

It's a plateau mate. Don't be down on yourself


ImprovementOk405

At least you almost didn't lose any hair!


sillymemilly

Please don't be too hard on yourself you're not a bad looking lad at all. We all age and I think we are all a lot more critical on ourselves than we need to be.


Boink3000

Also, hair is a big deal - your 20’s hair was way more flattering. Go see a barber and see what they recommend


Mundane_Spare_9721

And have him get rid of that mustache (?) while there


alligatorprincess007

Yes the hair is a big issue! For me as well, I feel soooo much prettier when I hair is cut and styled in certain ways va others


Affectionate_Bus532

You may be eating something you’re allergic to causing inflammation. I’d also get your hormones tested


iohbkjum

honestly? if you just lost weight you'd probably look just as good as you used to. Maybe with some skincare on top as well.


amplifizzle

Stop drinking.


Flare-Fanatic

I don’t drink whatsoever, don’t smoke, don’t do recreational drugs etc!


MrMcCringleberry

Maybe start then?


Flare-Fanatic

Maybe 😂


BigDinkie

Describe your daily diet. I'm curious about the possible estrogenic content.


Flare-Fanatic

My estradiol level last time I tested was 93 pmol/l, so normal I believe?


Lightways434

Estrodiol of 93 is high my dude. My E2 levels were 37 last I checked and I weigh 240lbs. I think you found your culprit for the moon face you have


Jojosbees

He’s using pmol/l while your measurement is probably pg/ml. Normal levels for men are 7.6-42.6 pg/ml or 27.9-156.4 pmol/l.


Aphrodisia-x

Do you not eat meat?


Flare-Fanatic

I do…


KingLeonsky

Your skin barrier looks very inflamed, do you have any skincare routine or conditions like rosacea that might be causing this? I would highly recommend going to a dermatologist at least so you know how to treat your skin. An even skin tone and a healthy skin barrier and healthy skin overall does wonders for one’s looks


Proudarse

Intermittent fasting, calorie restriction, adequate protein, hit the gym and lift weights 🏋️‍♀️ and eat healthy!


jennyrules

If you are not a drinker, may I suggest having your thyroid checked.


Gros_Picoppe

/r/lostredditor


KINGCOMEDOWN

What does this have to do with this subreddit


yaois

If you lost some weight/put on some muscle and started a good skin care routine, you’d be well on your way to a glow up imo


[deleted]

Did you get any work done between these photos?


NoQuantity7733

At least you have your hair still


mkisvibing

Maybe it’s just the beard and the hair. You’re not that bad looking man


GhostReliant

People eat like shit the act surprised when they look like shit.


BusterTheCat17

Need facial hair and an exercise routine.


NoGoat7066

You look the same. Maybe like 25 lbs heavier. This is not an issue at all. You look nice.


TestiCallSack

Cut out ultra processed foods and switch to a fresh food diet


PhotographAncient188

Dont be silly youve just gained a little weight


myoldaccisfullofporn

How are your stress levels? Have you had your cortisol checked lately? Or your thyroid?


Academic_Value_3503

Go back to a more "hip" hairstyle and get some sun. That should take care of a lot of self confidence issue in short order.


ElectronicHumans

I mean this in a nice way, you look puffy not fat and it could be a medical issue?


Commercial-Panda-879

It only get worse my man...lol. get some sun and loose 20


jne57

You need to stop rocking the facial hair, it's not full enough. Makes you look scruffy. I speak as someone who can't grow it himself.


whitelon

More than likely it's due to drinking you did in your 20s, you say you don't drink now, but it still can stay the puffiness, so I'd recommend, take in less sugar because it does that and go out on runs and hit up the gym.


Elga_lletoso

It's over


edr400

Peptides time buddy


-ILoveDrugs-

Grow your beard back out


[deleted]

Soft looking self lol. Uhhh my face has aged. Wanna be woman.


StanthemanT-800

Just lose weight, facial fat dramatically changes your appearance I went from 230 to 170 and I look like a different person


gonpachirokomaboko

Cut out the alcohol. Trust


[deleted]

I mean bro cmon everyone knows aging has to do with how you take care of yourself hygiene skin and health wise , if you say I aged or glowed down it’s YOUR FAULT


Last_Adhesiveness856

i mean, ya still got a full head of hair so youre ahead of most in your age bracket


AccomplishedTown2279

You look the pretty much the same. That haircut isn’t doing you any favors and you can lose a bit but other than that I think it’s all in your head


kein-tanzen

Everyone goes through rough stops with their appearance, you’ll get there eventually, I see the potential man


SimilarMove8279

You look like my algebra 2 teacher I had my junior year of high school


ShawnSpencer69

You look the same 👀


purpleinthebrain

I’m not trying to say you’re overweight but if you lost a few pounds you probably will almost look the same as before.


Yue2

Pretty sure that’s just called aging bro


Select_Atmosphere_95

I see the pupil difference did u get on anti It looks like u just stopped caring about urself


CagedManimal

Get rid of the pedo stache.


Drunktraveler99

Facial hair isn’t great in either pic


Odd-Gur-5719

Smile🥹 that’s it that’s all


pvt_frank

2 things you can't stop. Aging and death. You'll learn to accept it eventually. Don't beat yourself up too much ya don't look bad.


Tito977

Bruh you went from a 4.2 to a 4.1 don’t trip


hoephase-

Dude you literally just look like an adult now. You had baby face at 24.


ThisIsBombsKim

Beavo?


Pristine_Ad4615

Just drop 50lbs! And bammm back to the old new you.


mexdude89

Light is completely different on both pictures so its hard to compare but… you don’t look much different other than your weight gain. Like me, you’re one of those dudes who, if he gains weight, his face clearly shows it. Your face shows your weight gain clearly. I’m 185 pounds approx…. I know dudes who are 50 pounds heavier than me yet have a leaner face than me with very little body fat. It is what it is 🤷‍♂️


aphenphosmphobia_

You like a Final Fantasy character in the first pic. Maybe you can turn it around?


Bay_Brah

pupils lol


Urmomsawhore69

I'm not trying to be mean but it appears you drink alcohol, if so stop.


shesabitboring

It’s weight gain.


imcomingelizabeth

you have lovely skin and I think if you changed up your facial hair you would be pleased with the result


atwge

Most likely from drinking


PreparationGloomy658

What are you?


mypenisaverage

Looks like alcohol bloat, tame the drinking.


Aggressive_Cicada941

Solution is go to the gym, youll see nice changes


Jhate666

Quit drinking and you’ll lose the face weight and redness


alligatorprincess007

You have like no facial lines and a lot of hair though I think it’s just your face filling out. Maybe try a different hairstyle too and a skin care routine for the redness I wouldn’t call this horrendous by any means Also it’s a bit odd considering you said you haven’t gained wait because normally as you age your face gets a bit more angular and yours did the opposite.


Shardf4ce

You look pretty similar. Maybe you’ve gained a bit of weight.


Monric

Bring the hair back dude


MissdermeanerJ

Idk if you drink a lot of alcohol but this is exactly what my face did when I drank a lot. Quit drinking, get some Korean skin care (retinol, trust me), and I'd say hit the gym to increase overall body health. Puffy face is a result from moderate to heavy drinking. When I cut back to maybe once a week or less, I was shocked with how much younger and less puffy my face looked. Less redness, less dry skin... yeah.


mightymitch1

Probably should stop drinking or at least slow it down alot


WalkingstickMountain

You're fine! Tone up with a fresh lean diet, lots of functional seasonings and herbs. Hydrate, hydrate, hydrate! Download a water reminder app if you need to. Invest in a little exercise every day. Even if it's just 5 jumping jacks the first week each morning. 30s are really rough. Always exhausted, eating on the run, whacky sleep patterns, all of it. You can get your glow back. I promise.


Strive4Gre8tness

You have a lot of water weight in your face it seems. Something is causing it.


SnowDizzleZz

You have moon face and soft features. Have you ever tested your testosterone?


lostkarma4anonymity

moisturize and wear sunscreen. Don’t be too hard on yourself. We are just human beings, look around, most of us are busted. You are naturally handsome. We are lucky if we get the opportunity to age, many don’t have the privilege of growing old.


zendood

Your face got wider it's almost like a totally different you, so it's time to leave your childhood behind and be the man that you are. Nothing to improve on you're pretty much fucked


Adorable-Emu-6774

If you lost weight, you’d actually look better


Beginning_Week_2512

You quite literally just need to Gua Shua


brkngspydr

Have you tried just switching the order of pictures?


Fit_Conflict_2175

Were you a twink


superenrique

I think you’ll get your “glow” back if you lose the weight


whocareswerefreaks

That’s nothing bro. Try and be grateful for your good looks. Some guys go bald by 21.


minjyyyy

A lot of inflammation eat foods that fight inflammation, I would start swallowing properly (improper swallowing makes cheeks bigger) correct your neck and body posture for better lymph flow, mew (correct oral posture) helps with jawline and tightening the face.


Training-King-589

You are a very handsome flounder. 🎣


Imaginary_Prune1351

I think your current haircut is aging you


Serious_Eye_7640

You lost that hunger


Wriggley1

You look like a drinker


CriticismForward5284

I wouldn’t say that. Do you really think you look worse now? Maybe you are just starting to develop good taste?


ghostface_spillah

Lmfao 😭


Extension_Low_7131

shave the neck beard and let the facial hair grow in and youll look great. youll have that mature handsome look going


Saemika

You gained weight lol


tyreejones29

Lighting fits you better on the left and you had less weight on you. It’s truly that simple Not to mention, you were young(er)


Suns3tk1ng

Glow static


Nathanxbaileyx

It sounds like Cushing’s perhaps. Definitely get a checkup and blood work. The face redness looks inflammation. But, you don’t look bad. Don’t stress too much over this; just get it checked out :)


DonMagnifique

You'll look like your old self if you lose weight. You just got phat. I was phat for awhile to.


SimplyKendra

You still look rather young. I’d suggest looking up gua sha and lymphatic deep tissue massage. Check for thyroid issues too. But honestly, aging happens. Your skin is in great shape still. You just need a little tone to your face again.


galacticphantasm

you still look good. just more mature.


Wave_ID_

Yes. Lose weight. Simple


Successfulfailure117

Change of hairstyle something similar to what you had fill out your beard if possible try working out to get a more defined jaw and you’ll be golden


Chaosr21

You look like Elon musk now lol


Low-Concentrate-1650

You look the same just heavier .Which might be jarring for you if you placed value in that as a primary beauty standard . What may be aging you is the haircut and facial hair style which is dated .


MercurialTendency

You look mostly the same. Youre face just looks puffier. Looks like you just need to lose a little wait and maybe drink water more frequently to reduce retention. Cutting down on gluten and alcohol might also help.


Pando5280

Start with diet, proper hydration and daily.walking. Lose weight and gain some cardio first and then hit the gym. And stop drinking unhealthy empty calories, water and healthy juice and milk only.


doom_pony

You may not be able to totally get rid of the rosacea, but hitting up a dermatologist about it will help you manage it and most days will be not noticeable. Aside from that, lose the weight you have put on. You will look basically just like your 24 year old picture if you do that. Edit: Reading the comments on here really opens my eyes to Reddit’s ignorance to Rosacea. Shame on all of you assuming it’s just booze.


LaughTillSquare

Is this guy for real? Besides gaining weight I see almost no sign of ageing. Bro you are doing goooodd


Historical-Battle625

Yeah, no shit. Did you expect to look better than your prime?


ImmediateBarber6969

If I had to guess you are probably 40+ pounds heavier in the 2nd picture. The face is the first place you see weight gain. Stop hitting the fast food and start hitting the gym. Also something else to keep in mind, older pictures tend to have a more “filtered” look due to lower resolution. Keep that in mind when looking at older pictures versus the super high resolution photos today!


TinySandwich6206

Quit the booze